It’s just I’m in my early 20’s and I’m still a virgin. The reason I am still a virgin is because I want my first time to be special with the right girl. But I wonder sometimes, would she feel really special that I saved my self for her or disappointed. So girls hypothetical question, if your guy saved him self for you would you feel really special or disappointed because he was not experienced?
2007-01-09 10:33:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you. She should feel special. When the time comes, if the girl you choose doesn't think it's special, maybe there is something between you that needs work, because you have different fundamental values.
Once you've lost or given your virginity, you can't undo it, so wait until you're sure it's right, otherwise you may regret it. Please don't have sex just for experience - what if your partner or partners teach you rubbish techniques? If you wait for someone special, and she is more experienced, she can show you how to please her, otherwise you can learn together. Plus, she will have no concerns about being compared to your previous partners, and no fear of catching an STD from you.
Hope you find someone as special as you!
2007-01-09 11:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be the happiest girl to have you.Even more happier if i got into a serious relationship with you.knowing that you wanted it to be special that´s why you dint allow just anyone into your personal space if your intention wasn´t just a thrill but something special.Sex is a gradual thing in relationships.Big ups for having the right to choose to remain a virgin,ITS A BIG DEAL!!!ITS SPECIAL!!!
2007-01-09 18:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by schats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT ON!! You are doing the right thing. Once you have given your virginity away you cannot take it back. Also, once it's gone, you have nothing left for that special someone. She will be ecstatic that you love her so much that you will not share you're own gift with anyone but her.
2007-01-09 18:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl. Does she want a quicky? If so, don't do it
If she wants a relationship then I think she would like that.
Just think, of all the women you could have had in the past, you waited for someone like her. Thats gotta mean something.
Your doing the right thing.
2007-01-09 18:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Michelino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dunno..To be fair I'd probably be a bit disappointed, he'd not have a clue what he was doing. sounds all a bit soppy to me
But then I'd never go out with a lad that had 'been around' either.
2007-01-09 18:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude go do fucky fucky somewhere very fast. Do u know what will happen????
Let say you lose your verginity with her ok. You will feel great , after you will stay together and you will have more sex nothing bad about it right but as more sex you have as more you will ask yourself the question " how will it feels to have sex with other girls"
2007-01-09 21:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by girol 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend lost his to me and yes it will make her feel very special it did me just wish i did the same cause i found my soulmate
2007-01-09 18:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...saving yourself is a really bad idea in the 2000's. If you meet a girl and she is "the one," will you be able to settle down with her and only her and never be curious about what other girls may be like in bed? What you need to do is get a little experience, get your feet wet, and when the right girl comes along you won't be wondering.
2007-01-09 18:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i would feel special definitely and as long as he is willing to learn the inexperience wouldn't be a problem
2007-01-09 18:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by missree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would feel special and be happy that he doesnt have any kind of std because he slept around a lot.
2007-01-09 18:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by cutie306 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋