Should I go up to him and tell him or keep him a secret crush?And he seems like he likes me too but I am not quite sure. His friends keep saying he has a girl friend but he hasn`t actually gone out with her. The thing that bothers me is he addmits to having a girl friend and yet still he flirts with me!What do I do?
2007-01-09 10:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by TomBoy 360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to cool it a little bit.
You have only known him for a week.
His friends and he himself has told you that he has a girlfriend. Why are you setting yourself up to get hurt. Take it easy.
2007-01-09 10:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! In any other case I would immediately tell you to tell him...but now I am not so sure if that is a good idea. If he says he has a girlfriend, and I am assuming that this "girlfriend" knows she is his girlfriend, then I have to ask you a question. Do you want to be involved with someone who, if you became his girlfriend, he would flirt with other girls? It's just a thought...
2007-01-09 10:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by jlpmusic_100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short for secret crushes. Ask him out. If he really has a girlfriend, he'll explain and turn you down. I married hubby #1 after knowing him 6 weeks. It lasted 3 years but they were great years.
2007-01-09 10:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a player. Get to know him a little bit more. DOn't aoutomatically assume he is flirting with you, and if he asks you out ask him if he still has a girl friend.
2007-01-09 10:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Gaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as he says he has a girlfriend i wouldn't say anything to him, u wouldn't like someone to move in on him if he was ur guy, it could just be that he has a flirty personality and likes attention, just be careful u dont get hurt.
2007-01-09 10:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by louisem28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't trust him. Likely if you 2 went out, than he would still flirt with other girls....that is cheating whether you admit it or not.
2007-01-09 10:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ellen the Estonian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have a girlfriend so ignore your feelings.
He may say he has a girlfriend because he's not interested in dating or he may even be gay in the closet.
2007-01-09 10:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. I think.
2007-01-09 10:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too soon... and if he has a gf then he's not interested in you in a good way anyways..!
2007-01-09 10:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see wut happens wit him and his girl. when u see a good time, go for it.
2007-01-09 11:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋