Well ok, Im 14...might as well start off like this> for the last two years i was homeschooled and this year i came back to school (8th) grade and I got a boyfriend. Weve been bf/gf for a month now w/out goin on any dates er whatever but then he asked me to the movies this friday and I told him that id ask. Soo, i ask my mom ok- and since ive never hadda boyfriend before of Course this is a first. She tells me she has to think about it and that "id actually prolly be less likely to do anything at this age then when you get older but then again i dont know." And this gets me mad cuz she doesnt trust me! But anyway shes gotta "talk" to my dad about it right? Well recently----ten minutes ago---- I casually brought it up and my dad told me my BROTHER would have to come as a chaperone and idano if he is serious?! But whatever...it doesnt look like im gonna get to go so what do you people think? Am i too young to get dropped off @ the movies then be picked up when its over???
2007-01-09 10:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by kykygoo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok ive got something else to say since nobody agrees w/me ...
Vince (my bf) is not a dog like some ppl are and he wouldnt try anything, and even if he did i think iam old enough to tell him off and slap him across the face! ...
oh yea and also > my brother is so immature its not funny and Im 14 and he is 15 so if he came Wtheck would be the point besides embaress the heck out of me?
but whatever thx for your answers
2007-01-09 11:33:06 · update #1
I have an 16 yr old, 13yr old and 11yr old... I can see your frustration. Maybe you can try asking your parents if the guy can come over for a visit or dinner. Start off slow.. Your parents are only trying to do what they think is best for you. That's what I did with my 16yr old when she was 14. My daughter was chaperoned. Too young to be dropped off @ the movies? Well, that is, again, parents decision. Just keep proving to your parents that they can trust you.. Respect their decision and talk to them about it.. See what they would approve of.
2007-01-09 11:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having someone else on a date is the best way to go. It protects your reputation and keeps you from doing things you'll regret later. Let your brother go along. Your parent's are only looking out for you because they love you.
And, by the by, it isn't you they don't trust. It's the guy taking you on the date, and rightly so. He may be a great guy but you're both young and you've heard so many different things about dating that you may do things that you aren't ready for.
Take is slow and listen to your parents.
2007-01-09 18:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you come to a compromise and suggest that ur brother go's to the movies but sits a few row's behind you's so that u still have some privacy and ur parents will still know that u are safe
2007-01-09 18:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by louisem28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at your age you should only be going on group dates. There are so many girls your age who are sexually active and getting themselves hurt emotionally and physically (STD, pregnant). Group dates are safe and they give you the opportunity to develop a stronger friendship with the guy first. After you spend time with him in small groups you'll know him well enough to determine whether or not he is actually worth dating seriously!
2007-01-09 18:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by oldrallychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14:)
16 and up eat after the movie and do more
so, considering your age, playing babysit could be good. because most guy today are bad. So let your new boyfriend live through this. If he could, then he is the man for life.
2007-01-09 18:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your old enough. I was younger then you whenever I first got dropped off and picked up at the movies.
2007-01-09 18:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Freddy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋