Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

Well, for all that is written here are not bad. But there is only one thing that l have come across that has made me more stronger than any foum l read on the internet.
On the internet, it seems the same things are copied and after reading the same thing on 4 different websites, you feel still depressed. The solution is hier, either you are achristian or not, the solution is here. I was with a girl almost 1 and a half year. I loved her so much more than the word love. She told me she was a christian but at long last, she lied to me with another man´s telephone because she said l was jealous. well, it should not have been like this, but she thought she was right and went her way. I a was hurt for almost 2 weeks, well l am still hurt, but for sometime, l shifted to the bible, l read the books of Ecclesiastes: which made me to know that, there is time to love and a time to hate. Time to heal and a time to break down : Time to weep and a time to laugh: This comment made me much stronger to believe that nothing good stays for ever. After reading through the Ecclesistes for 3 times, l read the book of proverbs, where the bible spoke about a virtous woman. And also not to give our strenght to woman. I read the bible and l said to myself, A good wife will never lie to her husband, no matter what. We were all born in jealousy, God is even a jealous God. If not, then he will not ask us to worship only him and he created us in his own image. Listen, even if you are a male or a female. Take my points.
No relationship on earth is true love. The only true love is from God. Never trust a human being. They will lift you up and let you fall in times when you need them to say "sorry"
they will hate you and forget that, we all fail sometimes. but the dumper is always thinkin they are right against the dumpiees.

2007-01-01 04:39:22 · 3 answers · asked by when_the_go 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-01-01 04:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a lad at wrk, he pops in wen hes workin in the area, he came in a lot a few months ago n i noticed then he was givin me the eye, but i was in a relationship at the time so nothin happend. then the other wk he was back,
still givin me the eye, n everytime a turned round i wud catch him lookin. my work m8s picked up on it aswell so it wasnt me bein silly.
that went on for a week, then after that weekend he popd in again but this time gave me a wicked smile n look n winked at me.
then the nxt day he gav my num 2 me, we textd loads, always him 1st everyday for a week. i was goin out on the drink with some mate so i invited him 2 come along.
his reply was practically straight away sayin 'yes i cant wait' n that hes bringin 1 of the lads, which was fine.
he wouldnt stop goin on bout how exited he was bout r nite out,
but then on the day he didnt even text or show up n didnt even get intouch again. i wasnt pushy i was playin it cool, the lass's cudnt belive he stood me up..help

2007-01-01 04:38:53 · 10 answers · asked by geordiesteph 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by Rick 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do men always watch sports on TV no matter what sport, what game or what time of the year it is? It bothers me so much that my dear hubby is ATTACHED to his remote on weekends. It can be the most boring sport on and he'll still stare in to the screen all day. Any ideas how to stop it?

2007-01-01 04:37:57 · 11 answers · asked by umnichka7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am someone who can come across as being dominant when that is really not my intentions. I want to talk to my bf who has not answered to the one text I sent him right before the New Year came in, & he did not answer the one phone call attempt I tried to make this afternoon. I said "one" because I don't want it to appear as though I am trying to be all up in his space. We had an argument because of his miss communication. He was not clear on something he said which resulting in him losing money (under $100.00) and he felt all of this could be squashed If I would have just given him the money back due to his lack of communication and I said no, and now he will not talk to me. Now the old me would say fuc*k him, how in the hell do his dumb *** expect for me to pay for his fuc*k up. I know that may come across as a ***** or someone who deserves to not be talked to. The thing is that's the way that I have "not" been & he won't talk to me.

2007-01-01 04:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

???

2007-01-01 04:37:34 · 7 answers · asked by Chef boyardee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:37:03 · 14 answers · asked by janet s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Nearly the same amount of females do the same. I must be an odd duck because I have never fantasized about anything but tall, dark, and handsome men. I saw a statistic a while ago and there were some ladies talking about it at work. Do you think that the majority of men and women are bi? If so where do you fall? No smart butt answers please. I happily fall in the odd 15% that is 100% straight.

2007-01-01 04:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this girl shes nice and pretty and doesnt slap me for being me and i can hang out with her friends and not get slapped but how do i ask her out when she is never more than 3 feet away from them?

2007-01-01 04:36:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like complaiments or what? like you look pretty or nice hair ect.......

2007-01-01 04:34:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 24 year old guy. I have yet to experience love but that is what I hope and dream about all the time. So should I stop hoping love is going to find me? Because as I get older and older I worry that I am never going to get to experience love. Should I just tell myself if it happens it happens. If it doesn’t it doesn’t. Because every time I hope for it to happen and it doesn’t it makes me really miserable. I guess some of us wasn’t meant to experience real love was we?

2007-01-01 04:34:29 · 24 answers · asked by RIP 1 in Singles & Dating

best answer so far from AUSSIES who answers with,,,
The reason those guys go there in the first place is because the American women give them such a hard time with all their demands... that they are sick to death of them.

Second... if you take an Asian woman out of poverty... obviously... she will be grateful to you... as her mind has not be corrupted by capitalism. And it is far better to hook up with an old guy than becoming a prostitute.

From the old guy point of view... as he can pick and choose... he might as well go for the young one. And don't kidd yourself... most Asian girls look years younger than their age. A 20 year old usually looks like 15.

You only have one problem when you bring her home. Keep her away from white American women... because they will try to corrupt her and try to convince her to leave you.

I AGREE 100% aussies!!! there are millions of guys out there that do this for that very reason PERIOD!! it has nothing to do with being a pervert.

2007-01-01 04:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't quite figure him out. He runs so hot & cold all the time so much that I finally said hey listen you win, let's be friends, if you ever need anything let me know. I did this as a result of him not contacting me for 5 days and the boy will not call me, he'll chat & text but getting him to pick up the phone is impossible. When we're together, we have a great time but he's so distant when he leaves. My friends say I need to stroke his ego to get him to open up but that's not my style. I'm just tired of his constant get close, pull away, get close, pull away. Now he's sent me an ecard, should I just ignore him? He's a pain in my rear...what's his deal?

2007-01-01 04:33:25 · 12 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband insist on wearing his ring on his right hand , says there is is bone in his left finger that when wears the ring on that hand it bothers him . i felt his finger there is something there got any ideas

2007-01-01 04:32:52 · 18 answers · asked by Edna 1 in Weddings

2007-01-01 04:32:32 · 15 answers · asked by Rick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i am a 23 year old female and i am not skinny but when guys look at me they think i am not good looking and make fun of me. i have alot to offer. i mean i have a big heart and i am funny and caring. but it only seems that men want looks not heart. and then men that like big girls r well most of them r ***. i do not get it. is there some one out there that looks for what is in the inside not the outside/ please let me know.

2007-01-01 04:31:32 · 28 answers · asked by angeleyes84 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this girl who works in a new restaurant that I have gone to over the last month. I think she is one of the managers but she seems to try to be near me fairly often when I am there. She will conveniently be nearby or pass by several times while I am there. The other night when I left she looked directly into my eyes and kept her gaze on me until I walked past her. This stare lasted at least 10 seconds and she did not take her eyes off of me. I looked right back at her because I could not keep from looking myself. She is quite attractive. If I had not been with someone else, I would have talked to her. Next time I will find a way to at least say hello. Do you think there is something there and how should I move forward?

2007-01-01 04:30:30 · 6 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

until now there've been several times of sex without condoms...the first time was about 7 week ago...he irregularly uses cocaine and marijuana...he appears to be reluctant or even irritated whenever i tried to ask about his past relationships and i have no idea how sexually active he had been before me...hes 34 and im 22...although he never insist on protectionless sex when i suggest that we do use condom..im starting to worry about diseases i could possibly catch from him...should i confront him with my concerns?

2007-01-01 04:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I cheated on my first boyfriend (A), with this guy B. Me and A broke up. I lost my virginity to guy B. We having been having sex for the past months. He hasn't asked me out yet. We talked about it before and he said he wants to be with me but he does not want to be in a relationship. His calling habits are not the best. We have been separated for Christmas break. He said he try to call me once a week. I had to fuss at him to get him to call more.He calls me to tell me sorry.he also told me if you get tired let me know.I asked him what that mean and he was like i do wanna be with you. My friends have told me he is playing me. His grades at college are not the best lets just say he will be a freshman fall 07.He also said one reason he wouldn't ask me out because he wanted to respect my ex boyfriend.I dont know what to do because im really tryna make this work, i do enjoy his company. My friend ask me to name 3 things i like bout him and all i could come with is that i like his company

2007-01-01 04:27:59 · 29 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:27:34 · 17 answers · asked by pink_park_puppies 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The other evening, I am driving home from my neighbourhood drug store when who drives up beside me but my ex-girlfriend?! We split up about a year ago after three months of seeing each other and I haven't seen or heard from her since. It wasn't that pretty of a break-up. We parked side-by-side while waiting for a red light ... I'm sure that she also recognized me. Anyway, neither of us made any effort to acknowledge the other (eg: a friendly horn honk or wave ...). I did follow her for a bit (wondering if I should make some kind of effort to contact her but maintaining a safe distance and preferring not to be potentially arrested for harrassment). Eventually, I chose to turn off and return home.

My question is, would you have handled the situation differently? If so, how?

2007-01-01 04:27:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's not overweight in any way. But I'm really attracted to guys that have some muscle.

2007-01-01 04:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Simone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why, why not?

2007-01-01 04:25:56 · 37 answers · asked by Eileen S 1 in Singles & Dating

any one got any ideas for fun games you can play when you meet someone..eg thumb wars, or slaps?

2007-01-01 04:25:55 · 5 answers · asked by timeforacatnap 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy for a week than i broke up with him becaus he only knew me for 3 days and he started saying i love you!Inside i did to but i couldn't say it back so i broke up with him.how do i get back with him.I feel like a big jerk.

2007-01-01 04:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by dezy123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by lizzy 1 in Friends

hello friends,
your small advice make my life more beautiful.
i am an indian, and after 1 week i will meet a girl for marriage.she is coming from usa, basically she is from gujrat and live in usa from last 3 years, this is my first time, i am so narvous, coz i am very shy boy and generally not talking with girl,and another prob is that i don't know her language very well, there is only one common language between us and that is our mother tongue. what should i do? about which thing i should ask her so i can understand her easily, bcoz hardly i have only 20 min to talk with her and can i request her that we can talk in mother tongue?

2007-01-01 04:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by kapudhanani 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never felt any magical electricity between my husband and I, not even when we first started dating. Is that odd?

2007-01-01 04:24:33 · 15 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Marriage & Divorce