until now there've been several times of sex without condoms...the first time was about 7 week ago...he irregularly uses cocaine and marijuana...he appears to be reluctant or even irritated whenever i tried to ask about his past relationships and i have no idea how sexually active he had been before me...hes 34 and im 22...although he never insist on protectionless sex when i suggest that we do use condom..im starting to worry about diseases i could possibly catch from him...should i confront him with my concerns?
2007-01-01 04:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, since you have already had unprotected sex I suggest you go get checked. It doesnt matter what type of person you are having sex with you never know what they could be giving you...
2007-01-01 04:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know,don't even bother asking the questions,because do you honestly think any person who is evidently on drugs,when they are getting high with other people are going to ask,"is that needle sterilized?",or "make sure you switch my needle". NO they aren't. Don't deal with someone elses' issues,because if he is 34,a cocaine addict,and does marijuana,you don't want that in your life. Once someone gets addicted to a drug,they'll do anything to get the high,and whats to say he won't start stealing from you.
You should leave him,and get yourself tested,because he may not care about himself,but at least you should care about yourself,and get yourself checked early,that way that common std's can be treated,and everything. Your 22 and you have more of your life ahead of you then you can obviously believe.
2007-01-01 12:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have all the right reasons to ask him about his sex life... his using drugs??? oh my god! u should never have sex without a condom on its not save... im not only talking about gay sex even hetro sex u should always use condoms its safer...
well maybe u are afraid of loosing him but always rememmber honey living with hiv/aids are much worst than living alone... live long enough to find ur soulmate--the one that u can trust and talk openly about everything without worry... ur a young man u have plenty of time to find the wright one... ask him about his hiv/aids status and sex act.-sex diseas can transmited even when u having sex with only one person ur whole life if ur partner have it u could have it... tell him about this have along conversation... u also have to go a doctor and check for sex diseas and hiv/aids...
always use condom when u having sex next time ok...
2007-01-01 12:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by nutzz_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How low is your self esteem that you are with a 34 year old coke addict? Why?
If he is coked up, who knows who he slept with, what's wrong with you. My aunt died of AIDS. She got it from her junkie husband. You are throwing your life away, but it's your life and I can't make you change it. If you want to change, do it.
2007-01-01 12:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by jayndee13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a little late don't you think to now be getting worried. You should get tested ASAP and get out of the relationship honestly it doesn't sound healthy.
2007-01-01 12:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by K-Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go and die of aids.
2007-01-01 12:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM you dont need the stress!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 12:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋