I went out with this guy for a week than i broke up with him becaus he only knew me for 3 days and he started saying i love you!Inside i did to but i couldn't say it back so i broke up with him.how do i get back with him.I feel like a big jerk.
2007-01-01 04:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by dezy123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Exactly what you just said? Say it to him. Tell him how you feel. What was going on that caused the problems, and everything else. He'll realize that if he still has feelings for you, you belong together.
2007-01-01 04:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would agree in saying that after 3 days it is impossible to know someone well enough to be able to have a "real" lasting love for them. To me it is sending off warning bells saying there is something not right with his judgement. Even if he was having those feelings, he needs to hold back with self control enough to let the relationship develop, and to get to know each others heart. I might keep in touch with him and see where it goes from there, but be very cautious, don't rush into anything, all you have is time. :)
2007-01-01 12:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by ColoradoGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, unless you told this story 3 years later he is still probably carrying a torch for you. If you call him back and explain what happened he will probably be happy and take you back. He will feel better for spilling his soul to you. You should apologize for leaving him bare and exposed like that. And women wonder why men are so tight lipped. You probably aren't the 1st woman to do this to him. just be the last and you'll both be happy.
2007-01-01 12:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. The talk of love so early on freaked you out and you backed away. Tell him you have strong feelings too but want to slow things down. If his words of love are true, he'll understand.
2007-01-01 12:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only been dating this guy for a week; chances are you two are no where near Love yet. Maybe your ex-boyfriend likes you so much, he think he Loves you. I would get freaked out too, if he said "I Love You", after 3 days. I think you should leave him alone... because it seems like your confused and uncomfortable!
2007-01-01 12:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you can't love anyone after 3 days. either of you.
and all you have to do is tell him you feel the same way he does because if he really felt that way then he isn't over you and he will understand and take you back.
2007-01-01 12:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,,so to speak,,,,,You made your bed now lay in it,,,but you could give him a call and tell him you are sorry about the way you acted and ask for another chance. Nothing ventured nothing gained ya know....
2007-01-01 12:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just say that you really love and that you made a mistake and if he'll go back out with you.
2007-01-01 12:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Young Jizza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him that you miss him
and then see what he says
if his reaction is good then just flat out say that you wanna see him and get back together
good luck =)
2007-01-01 12:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by cyberturtle88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him the truth.
2007-01-01 12:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋