Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

I know this sounds really pathetic but I'm going to ask anyway. My husband and I have been having marital problems and my mom suggested I go through his car to find any "information" to reaffirm my suspisions. I found four Trojan condoms (unused) in a bank deposit bag. The problem is I have had my tubes tied last year so WE would not be using condoms together. When I threw the condoms at him, he looked really guilty but insists that yes he bought the condoms when we got into a fight a while back but that he never has used them. However, aren't there 12 condoms to a package???? There are only four left!!! My husband is not real good in the honesty department and lately he has been not so nice to me. My question is: Is there any way he could NOT be having an affair???

2007-01-01 04:57:38 · 43 answers · asked by wendy h 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a really bad geek! my freinds and i are looked dwn opon! and ever since i was just entering fith grade i was looked down opon and now im in seventh grade!!!and i feel as if everyone is looking at me in disgust i am really nerdy!!! i went shopping and i wasted all of my christmas presents on clothes by telling my parents all i wanted was clothes from abercrombie so i could be more popular. i put on make up every day and i do my hair difrently daily and i try to be freindly and nice to the popular kids! how can i be more popular!!???????? am i ruining my life?

2007-01-01 04:57:24 · 10 answers · asked by Melonater 1 in Friends

This is a really bad situation - it's a long story but I'll shorten it - 6 years ago I had a really bad argument with my family (parents, 2 brothers, 1 sister) and they cut off all contact with me. I was living alone and had no money and was scared, but my work colleagues helped me out and eventually I got promoted and am comfortably off now. I've just got a note through the post from an ex boyfriend (who I want nothing to do with as he is violent) who says my mum has walked out on my dad and gone to live abroad. Also my brother and sister want nothing to do with him for some reason (I don't know where they live) He is now living alone (he is quite elderly) and is about to be evicted as he was always badly in debt. My ex thinks there is some scandal about being a paedophile and the bad debts. If you were in my place would you get in touch and help him, or just accept he cut me off and left me to 'starve' and let him get on with it?

2007-01-01 04:55:52 · 38 answers · asked by Julia 3 in Family

would you change anything in your Love life or let it stay?

2007-01-01 04:55:45 · 28 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Singles & Dating

Like are you so pissed off at people for not being at peace that you are on the verge of being violent with them?

2007-01-01 04:54:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and jaded but dang it's harddddddddddd not to when I'm dating loser men, come on now...any good guys out there?

2007-01-01 04:53:36 · 21 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

onetime i was going to chruch right and there were 3 girls siting near me. when the guy say hi to everyone around u i go say hi to the grils one of the girl bite or lips under. and i shake or firend and the girl see i shake her firend hand so she start looking at me and my hand. then i want to go sit and i hear something like this hes cute but not lound wisper then her firend looks at me for like 10 secs. then the girl looks at me and when i look back she looks somewhere else fast?

2007-01-01 04:53:34 · 1 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

my uncle who had cancer since a month passed away an hour ago. the cancer had spread totally and the doctors had given up. yesterday he went through a lot of pain and my family visited him and i refused cause i cant watch someone dying. however i did pray for him to pass away cause it was better than the way he was suffering. i know i should be on the computer but i dont feel like talking to anyone. so really i dont know what to do?

2007-01-01 04:53:15 · 23 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a crush on this guy. but he has a girlfriend, and they seem really happy together. i dont want to be the one to break them up. the problem is this guy used to like me aboput two years ago. like a hard-core crush. and i was really mean to him. like i wouldnt answer his calls and stuff. he would text and i wouldnt answer back. i was being a *****. i didnt like him and i wasnt willing at the time to be in a relationship. so, he eventually gave up, and moved on. but then he kept coming back to me, always liking me. but i never felt the same way. now, he is with a girl and they are completely happy. but i like him and i dont know what to do, dont want to break them up. what should i do? and he liked me about 4 months ago, but didnt say anything. then later on he got with his girl....PLEASE help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-01 04:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by roxygirl2828 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by lisseth D 2 in Family

2007-01-01 04:50:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. Wondering how to go about this. Dated this girl, things were going great, she broke it off (still not really sure why) but we continue to talk. I absolutely love her, and I think she has strong feelings for me which scared her out of it. So, how do I tell her that I want to still talk to her, but only when I know she is talking to me or seeing me, not because she's bored or feeling lonely, but because she wants to pursue something with me? Any suggestions? I don't want to burn the bridge, but I do want to send a clear message that I'm not playing around anymore.

2007-01-01 04:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I find that since I've been married he does none of the daily stuff. No cooking, no bathrooms, no laundry, no shopping. etc. Yes, guys he makes the most money in the relationship but I don't understand why that equates to the more he makes the less he does at home. I work and commute and would like a break from the grind.

2007-01-01 04:49:51 · 37 answers · asked by Simone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my married co-worker went thru' a no-strings attached relationship for sometime and had some good time. And in someway or other it helped us in rekindling the passions in our respective steady relationship.

Now we are out of that relationship, we do still talk a lot about all the things, but the fact being since we don't expect anything and need not be answerable for any of our words and actions it is so much fun.

Don't please judge me for all that, I'm over that already..It is just that with this new-found change for good, wanted to see if there are others like me or if it is totally strange/wrong.

2007-01-01 04:49:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 04:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im serious


Something that xhows a picture of what you should be at each age

2007-01-01 04:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that theres always some sort of name for people with obssessions like: people who are obsessed with pain while their doing it hvae a name for that..

but what would it be called if a dude is obssessed about virigns.?
wouldnt that have a name?
philia of some sort or something?

2007-01-01 04:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If the man is 25 and the woman is 49?

OR
If the woman is 25 and the man is 49?

2007-01-01 04:47:18 · 17 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I've liked 4 a long time moved but I still have feelings for him & he tells me that he still has feelings for me but he has a girlfriend where he lives now but I still talk to him all the time! Should I stop all contact with him even though I don't want to?! Advice please!?

2007-01-01 04:46:32 · 11 answers · asked by ~brunette♥~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been on a roller coaster of financial issue for the past 13 years and maybe before that. I struggle so hard, I can pay rent and put food on the table but after that I'm out of money. Sometimes I dont even have a dollar for gas to get to work. I have to resort to begging friends here and there for $20.00, which make me feel so ashame and down right dirty. I go to school, I raise the kids, I work, but it seems that life just keep comming back with the same challenges. try to be the best human being I can possibly be, why? I feel like i'm losing my mind. Then people have this conception that you might try to pull one over their heads when you ask for help. I feel so stress . Please give me some advice cause i'm losing it down here in Florida

2007-01-01 04:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I'm 15, and so is my boyfriend, and in 10th grade. Last nite was new year's eve, and me and my boyfriend went over to my parent's friends' house. We ate like seriously all nite, including a lot of sugary stuff at midnite, which alwayz makes me sick if i eat too much. So then after midnite me and my boyfriend went up to watch a movie while my parents n their friends talked. After about 10 minutes i felt like REALLY sick to my stomach. so i told my bf and he like massaged my stomach which hurt soo bad, and then i kept like burping constantly, really loudly! it was so embarassing! He's such a sweetie, and was really nice about it, but it was horribly embarrasing, he wanted to have this romantic nite and i just got sick!!!!! how can i possibly face him at school tomorrow?!? and we were really close before this too, and it was supposed to be this really romantic nite and everything and then i got sick!!! i'm soooo embarrassed! anyone have any advice/been in this situation before???

2007-01-01 04:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by anonymouscompletely3848 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i make her think that i am not a dad girl at all

2007-01-01 04:44:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm orange, its never in the background, it can be centre of attention and its beautiful.

2007-01-01 04:44:31 · 13 answers · asked by Thobie 3 in Friends

Married 17 years, two teenage boys. Everytime my husband and I agree with eachother about something and we have settled what we're going to do or not do, when it comes to his blood (my in-laws) or his friends in the community, he forgets what we've discussed and does them the favor of whatever they've asked. Well, hello, what happened to me? I'm invisible here. The only time he really listens if I scream or nag.

2007-01-01 04:43:31 · 34 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been working with this guy for about 3months and get really close as friends, if we were ever down it was either one of us that phone each other! anyway we went out to the pub, and ended up back at his place where we had sex, he has texted me a couple of time about random stuff, and i'm now wondering if it was a mistake for him, even though he said he would do it again infront of another bloke who was there watchin tele.
Should i say "Hey let's forget what we did and carry on like normal" i need help plz im workin with him in the mornin and i need to be on the mark for what he is going to say.

2007-01-01 04:42:22 · 2 answers · asked by Caasi 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a girl is siting whit her firends and then u want to shake there hands then after u go back to sit and u hear one of the guy wisper and say hes cute then her firend start looking at u for some secs was the girl talkeing about u bauec this happed to me in chruch?

2007-01-01 04:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 & have been married for 4 yrs. We have a beautiful 2 yr old boy together and I'm a stay @ home mom. My husban travels 2-3 weeks out of the month and is only home on the weekends. In the mean time I see my rents in Chicago b/c I hate to be alone here in the state of MN. Everytime I come back from Chicago I cry and cry and miss it so much. I'm get sick to my stomach that I have to be here alone with our child all the time! I'm so confused as to what it means... do I not love my husband or hate being away from my family to whom I am very close with. I know I need to suck it up and appreciate what I have... b.c I have all I wanted. Then why do I keep looking back to IL life? Can this depression be harmful to me if it takes me a week to get adjusted to my daily life? Is there anyone else out there with this prob and how should I deal with this. I love my hubby I just wish we were closer to my fam. How should I deal with this?

2007-01-01 04:41:12 · 26 answers · asked by Queen of Kings 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 13, my parents are getting divorced. well my mom and my stepdad. they have been together for 8 years, and i hated him the whole time. he was always really mean, and hateful to me, now they are getting divorced, after having two kids together (one 5 year old boy, and a 3 year old girl) i feel really bad that i couldn't tell my mom what a scumbag he was and i feel like it's my fault that the babies are going to get screwed over because their parents are divorced. am i stupid for feeling guilty?

2007-01-01 04:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 04:40:52 · 9 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex called me while he was drunk. He expressed his feeling for me and even wanted to hangout. I would like to be with him but when he is sober he denys that he want to be with me. I know I should leave it alone. Is there something else I can or should do?

2007-01-01 04:40:51 · 3 answers · asked by lor3d 2 in Singles & Dating