i have a crush on this guy. but he has a girlfriend, and they seem really happy together. i dont want to be the one to break them up. the problem is this guy used to like me aboput two years ago. like a hard-core crush. and i was really mean to him. like i wouldnt answer his calls and stuff. he would text and i wouldnt answer back. i was being a *****. i didnt like him and i wasnt willing at the time to be in a relationship. so, he eventually gave up, and moved on. but then he kept coming back to me, always liking me. but i never felt the same way. now, he is with a girl and they are completely happy. but i like him and i dont know what to do, dont want to break them up. what should i do? and he liked me about 4 months ago, but didnt say anything. then later on he got with his girl....PLEASE help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 04:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by roxygirl2828 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Typical women always want the guy that they can't have. For some reason the less a man pays attention to a woman the more attractive he becomes.
There is nothing you can do now b/c if you go try and be with him knowing he has a girlfriend he may blow you off or worse he may actually give you the attention you are looking for. And if that happens you better watch out b/c what goes around comes around. If he cheats on her and leave her for you then you will find yourself in the same boat b/c he will definitely cheat on you and leave you for another woman.
So I say back off and if it is meant to be he will come to you when he breaks up with her.
2007-01-01 05:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cocoabutta98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break that relationship up, you're a B****!!!! For real...leave that couple alone and stop being so selfish. You didn't care about this guys feelings before and now all of a sudden you want the "forbidden fruit". It's normal for people to feel more attracted when someone is off-limits, but to act on it would be wrong. Now the good news......it seems to me like you're still young and chances are he's not gonna marry this other girl HAHA. If he has kept coming back to you in the past, then the chance of him coming back again are very likely. Just hang out and be the good friend for a while. Get to know him but more as a friend. The good thing about that is girls don't get caught in "friend zone" the way guys do. So once he see's what a cool person you are, then he might leave his girlfriend for you all on his own. Then you will be guilt free!!!
2007-01-01 13:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by It's Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you wanted to get back with him you could ring him up and ask to see him some time. Then when you meet up with him you could play it by ear and see what it's like to be around him in a one on one environment again. If it still feels OK then bring up the possibility of the two of you getting back together.
And as far as being the one to break them up is concerned... you can't make an omlett without breaking a few eggs. It's going to be inevitable. Just do it the right way and don't get together until after they've broken up.
2007-01-01 13:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really like him or are you just missing your attention and the power to be able to say no to him and still have him come around. You said nothing of what you see in him now that you failed to see in him 2 years ago or even 4 months ago. Now that you see he is happy, you seem to have feelings for him. I say that you leave him be. If he is happy and you really cared, you'd allow him to stay happy. This other girl saw what you did not and didn't waste any time wrapping him up. She seems to be grateful from what you say, so why ruin it for your urge? Unless he breaks up with her, you can consider that a missed opportunity and one to grow on.
2007-01-01 12:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Neptune 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have missed out girl. This time. Maybe something will happen between them two and then you can go in for the steal then. Of course you are going to have to expain to him why you acted the way you did. And make sure to tell him the truth. Cant start off lying then it will have to continue. Dont break them up because then he may dislike you for that if they are truly happy. Wait and be patient. Something will happen. If yall are meant to hook up then yall will. Remember patience is a virtue!
2007-01-01 13:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're only interested because he seems happy and you're not. Leave him alone because you'll only hurt him. You had your chance and treated him like shyt... let him be happy with someone else.
Then again... if you pursue him he could turn the tables on you... get the drawls and bounce back to his woman.. then he won't be answering your calls or text messages.
It's called Karma
2007-01-01 13:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby love, let me tell you a lil something. If he's happy, leave him be. I know you like him alot, but he's with someone, who liked him, for real. You did have your chance, and now, he's with someone. So, move on.
2007-01-01 13:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Hinata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a tendency to want him now because someone else has him... let that relationship go where it may.. when it's over then check out your feelings for him.
2007-01-01 12:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by goodolelady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I am not going to help you.
You got what you deserve.
And if you break them up... I will wish you all the bad luck in the world.
2007-01-01 12:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say you lost what you had and once its gone its gone apparently if he's with another a girl and he's happy then he's moved on or tryna move on. so he does kare 4 u but he's tired and given up on trying.
2007-01-01 13:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋