I have never felt any magical electricity between my husband and I, not even when we first started dating. Is that odd?
2007-01-01 04:24:33 · 15 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you just wanted someone to support you.any normal relationship has sparks .why did you get married?how do you go to sleep at night?sooner or later he will figure it out,and he'll kick you to the curb,and find someone who loves him and support him in life.you don't deserve him.hope you'll don't have any kids.
we all do things in life that we regret,but to marry a person for your own selfishness.guess your one of Jerry's kids.
you should bale out now before you tear his heart out.go love yourself and let him be.any human deserves alot better than being used.
p.s that's not odd,it's 2 DAMN COLD HEARTED.
maybe you'll grow up 1 day,and the cards will turn on you.
2007-01-01 04:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think it's odd. I certainly hope you have other warm and loving feelings though. It might be that you look back now and wonder if ever a man would come into your life with the "magical electricity" had you not married your husband. We all fantasize.
Women are often disappointed in love and romance because they read too many romance novels where every hero rides in on a white horse and they get this lightning bolt of overwhelming passion or something. Real life rarely stacks up favorably.
I recommend you both go to church and also find some noncompetitive recreational activity you can do together. If you've been married over 3 or 4 years, you may have lost touch with how much you need and depend on the other.
Good Luck
2007-01-01 04:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's odd is that you married him without the "magic". The magic is the distinquishing difference between a "friend" and a "husband". I just don't think you can be emotionally fulfilled without that special thing between partners. The worry I'd have is that one of you will find that magic with someone else, and the marriage will be over. But that's just me, Good Luck.
2007-01-01 04:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must have been something that inspired you to marry him in the first place. Why did you marry? Was it convenience? Was it something you felt was necessary? Is "magical electricity" your idea of love? Perhaps you haven't found what you're looking for. Perhaps you don't know?
Sadly, I don't think it's as odd as we all would wish.
2007-01-01 04:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lost Panda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not real sure of what you're definition of "magical electricity" is but I think if you're not at least excited to see him or be around him, then it is a bit odd.
2007-01-01 04:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The spark may fade but the current still flows.
That's normal. This is the feeling that happpens when you move from eros to agape (two kinds of love, in Greek). The reassurance each other is there should be the main goal of your marriage now.
2007-01-01 04:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why not continue the relationship? i wonder why you marry him when u said since the beginning you dont love him?
prolonging it can just worsen both of your lives. decide now. would you want this to continue and wait to be old to regret things? or end it and be happy?
2007-01-01 05:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by johannea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Be careful. Some guy is going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Be prepared.
2007-01-01 04:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, what's odd is that you married someone whom you obviously had no real feelings for. Why ruin someones life for you own selfish reasons?
2007-01-01 04:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I could just about squeal, love is a beautiful things, it feels wonderful, maybe you need to find his love for you and you need to uncover your love for him. If you didn't love him why did you get married to him.
2007-01-01 04:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋