I cheated on my first boyfriend (A), with this guy B. Me and A broke up. I lost my virginity to guy B. We having been having sex for the past months. He hasn't asked me out yet. We talked about it before and he said he wants to be with me but he does not want to be in a relationship. His calling habits are not the best. We have been separated for Christmas break. He said he try to call me once a week. I had to fuss at him to get him to call more.He calls me to tell me sorry.he also told me if you get tired let me know.I asked him what that mean and he was like i do wanna be with you. My friends have told me he is playing me. His grades at college are not the best lets just say he will be a freshman fall 07.He also said one reason he wouldn't ask me out because he wanted to respect my ex boyfriend.I dont know what to do because im really tryna make this work, i do enjoy his company. My friend ask me to name 3 things i like bout him and all i could come with is that i like his company
2007-01-01 04:27:59 · 29 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he has a nice heart but i rearely see it when it comes to me. My friends say i should i drop him..Yet i dont want to give up on it and getting tired of waiting and things not improving.He constantly gives me excuses and says he going to do better and it only changes for a few days and thats it."
i really want to make it work but im honestly not sure of whats going to happen or what i need to do
2007-01-01 04:28:47 · update #1
yea
2007-01-01 04:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy who uses girls for sex like that. They get into him like you do. Afterwards they always want to date him and be exclusive, but he always says hes not into it right now. Its really sad, but at the same time those girls should know better. I remained a virigin through all my dating pursuits. I met jerks SO many times, and when they heard I was a virigin. Sex was all they could think about. To them, taking a girls virginity is some kind of validating them as a studd or something. Forget about this guy, and go find a real sweetheart who is totally in love with you. And remember not to think he's too nice for you.
All the girls my fiance wanted to date before me said no to him... because they thought he was just too nice and too much of a gentleman. Not me!! I'm tired of being treated like crap. I love the chivalry. Successful, good looking, treats me better than anyone ever has, completely devoted and faithful to me.... I'm loving it! ; )
2007-01-01 12:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Snicker* Sweetie you gave up the goodies and that is all he wanted. He doesn't respect you for one you gave it up to him and already had a boyfriend. To him you were an easy target and he got what he wanted. Sure he wants you to stick around so he calls you just enough to string you along just incase he wants to hit it again.
Leave him alone or you'll end up hurt more than you are now. Take a hint you're only good for one thing and thats a roll in the sack. He doesn't want you.
2007-01-01 12:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cocoabutta98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, keep it real, you is better than this. You probably find that like most people you are mainly interested in this guy becuase you can't really have him, because no offense he don't sound that interested. If he was keen on you, you'd probably realise that he is the thicko rude boy that he sounds like. Girl ditch this chief and go for one of the other 3 billion guys out there. Good luck.
2007-01-01 12:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by jonnie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres the ? u need to anwser your self...does he respect u and are you happy? can you get better? if i was in ur situation i would dump him seriously. u sound like a genuous girl that should get alot more respect than what your getting. and the calling thing is just crazy that would drive me insane. any guy that doesnt take the time to call you more than 2-3 times a week is not worth your time of day. its your choice..but agian ...is staying with him worth it?
2007-01-01 12:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Brit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just going to say it straight: as a guy, I can tell you with absolute certainty that he is just using you. Yeah he like you for sex, but not for "love".
He will not become your boyfriend. And even if he does, he has little respect for you, and will toss you aside as soon as he finds someone better.
2007-01-01 12:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by pp1029 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him NOW. He's a player. Your friends are right. Get rid of him and never go near him again. And while you're at it, head over to the doctor's office. He's probably given you something.
2007-01-01 12:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give him one chance, he is nice guy and he having sex with u bcoz he dont know. and after that he realise that he relly want to make relationship with you. if i would place on you, i will definately five him one chance. but be carefull if he ask you for sexual relationship, then cut all relationship with him and gave a big kick on his ***. sorry but its my style. now decision is yours, take care and happy new year.
2007-01-01 12:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by kapudhanani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you but if he doesn`t call enough and you had sex when you aren`t going out, thats kind of bad. I would drop him.
2007-01-01 12:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think he is a good guy... Is he as before!!!! then continue with the relation. But if he changes his thoughts about this relation better to drop him...... You yourself think about it... Don't take anyone's advice cause it is ur life... No one else can take a decision.
2007-01-01 12:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by sumanth 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you want to leave this guy befoe he hurts you...
in every relationship there is a powerr balance...not a battle for power as such but a balance..letscall its repect for your partner..
relationships take alot of give and take...looking at the dynamic your doing alot of giving and not much taking..thats not really a bad thing until you see it as, hes doing alot of taking and not alot of giving...
you'll find a better guy in no time...move on to someone who repects you your needs and your emotions.
2007-01-01 12:34:18 · answer #11 · answered by timeforacatnap 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋