I am someone who can come across as being dominant when that is really not my intentions. I want to talk to my bf who has not answered to the one text I sent him right before the New Year came in, & he did not answer the one phone call attempt I tried to make this afternoon. I said "one" because I don't want it to appear as though I am trying to be all up in his space. We had an argument because of his miss communication. He was not clear on something he said which resulting in him losing money (under $100.00) and he felt all of this could be squashed If I would have just given him the money back due to his lack of communication and I said no, and now he will not talk to me. Now the old me would say fuc*k him, how in the hell do his dumb *** expect for me to pay for his fuc*k up. I know that may come across as a ***** or someone who deserves to not be talked to. The thing is that's the way that I have "not" been & he won't talk to me.
2007-01-01 04:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may have seen a dominant (independent) side of me so to speak, but he has never seen the fuc*k you side of me because I am trying to change an do better. The thing is when I had the fuc*k you side to me that’s what I meant and that’s what I felt, but at some time in your life you have to grow up. Now I don’t know how to approach this situation with out having the old side of me come out, and I don‘t want the old side to come out because I love him. Do I just sit and wait for him to contact me. Also this is our first real argument where he is the one that is mad.
2007-01-01 04:37:57 · update #1
First thing try to call him and ask him to m eet you somewhere to talk. And tell him to explain it to you why you should give him the money that he lost, ALso he saounds like a controling person. AND if he can't come up with a good enough excuse then just tell him. What if we just forget what happened and start over and he says NO then just say ok I will leave and don't expect me back and leave. It will hurt for a while but your strong enough to get over it soon and move on. There's no need to yell or curse just talk and listen. But also if he starts talk bad about you don't let him defense yourself and show him you can get along with out him.
2007-01-01 04:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just squash the whole situation and move on. That will save a lot of arguing and misunderstanding.
2007-01-01 12:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.You are okay just the way you are.I suggest you to sit back and relax.If he wants to get back with you,he will.Let him make his move and prove that he cares for you.
2007-01-01 12:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋