Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

2006-12-28 03:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by sexylove 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm sick and tired of hearing my parents argue about stupid things and than it's not only my parents it's my entire family we're always yelling at eachother and i'm sick of. i'm sick of this bull. what should i do

2006-12-28 03:52:57 · 17 answers · asked by ellizi 3 in Family

I have been with the same girl for 6 years now and we have been through a lot, we are now engaed and living togher for the last 6 months. I love her with all my heart and I know this because I forgave her for cheating on me a few years back. It was a situation were I was not paying enough attention and she needed attention, but we made it, and are stronger now. But now I have everyone in the world asking me when we are getting married and her parents wont fork over the money for the wedding she wants. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for there daughter, they say they want to make sure I can hold a job, but things are going well for us right now and I want to be married. How do I convince her parents to let us marry, or convince her to get her parents to pay for the wedding. Or should I just let things take the course the are heading. We have been engaed for a year now and I want to be married. Please help

2006-12-28 03:52:25 · 14 answers · asked by simsad31 2 in Weddings

i am only 20 and here in kentucky you have to be 21 to drink so thats out of the question what else can i do to make this new year one to remember. any suggestions much appreciated.

and happy new year to all of you.

2006-12-28 03:52:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am working on a story about "women who made it on their own (or who are on their way)." I'm still in the brainstorming stages, but I would like some input from other women. I don't know yet if it will be a fiction or non-fiction book, or one I'll ever be able to finish, but I'd like to try. If you have overcome difficult obstacles in your life and would like to share your story, I'd like to hear about it. Please post a brief synopsis and I'll explore further with you. I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but it's an idea that interests me! http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-ZIQHK9Y.cZkXELQSPLG34N80TkzIG8bO;_ylt=AplciKS3PW6rtC5QoVvOS_i0AOJ3

2006-12-28 03:51:36 · 1 answers · asked by oj 5 in Friends

not just with her but everybody in general?

2006-12-28 03:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 in Singles & Dating

A hypothetical question was brought up about a spouse cheating on another. After the question was asked I actually spent a great deal of time debating on this and came to the conclusion, if my spouse cheated on me I don't think I would care (I would have a few years ago). As a matter of fact I feel it would be impossible for her to make me jealous in any shape or form. I know these are not normal feelings and she has no idea that I feel this way. I really feel that I "love her" as I care about her well being, but am not "in love with her" as our marriage is nothing more than going through the motions. I know that sounds like a cop-out way to describe the problem, but is this the love a marriage should have?

2006-12-28 03:50:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a male friend and every time he comes over, I notice the loads of cloths he keeps in his car. This time I noticed more then usual. He is suppose to be married and there suppose to have an agreement that he can do whatever he wants just as long as he does'nt bring it home. I listen to the messages on his voicemail when he came over drunk as usual and she stated that his cloths would be outside & its nothing he can say to change her mind. He still goes to her in the pm but comes to me & spends the nite later on. He does not talk about his personel self much&tries to avoid telling me what I want to know when I ask.He lied in the beginning & did not tell me he was married,he said it did'nt matter.I think they just had a agreement & now shes tired of him.I don't think hes saving money&I think when he meets single women he stays at there house as long as he can.He cant stay with me,I have my reason.But I want to help him some how.that is if hes not trying to get over on single women.

2006-12-28 03:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 03:50:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-28 03:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Singles & Dating

I just have to wonder.....hair on a woman's legs, arm pits, and "other" places, isn't very comfortable or attractive, so we rid this problem.

I also have to say (I know I speak for most women), that body hair on guys...is disgusting......Guys just think of your woman with these gorilla hairy legs....and arm pit hair you can braid....NASTY. I think all men should shave everywhere, including their a.ss cracks, because it's repulsive......but hey that's just my opinion....lol..luckily I have not had the displeasure of dealing with a hairy beast....hahahahahhah

oh and to the women who find a hairy chest attractive ....what the hell is the matter with you?.....smooth muscle....no hair...yeah!

2006-12-28 03:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like girls bleeding or feeling nervous or what i should be prepared for.. because i'm 23 and my boyfriend and me have been talking about it a lot lately... please give answers from experience please

2006-12-28 03:49:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does my wife, who was previously abused in her last marriage, feel that she doesn’t want me involved in her counseling sessions? I have seen her emotionally upset from having to deal with her ex-husband and have tried to help her be strong and not let him run over her when it comes to visitation issues called for by the joint custody ruling. But she tells me its because this counselor was the one she talked to right after their divorce and that he fills a void I can’t. I would like to go so I can help when its needed instead of feeling like every time there is an issue, she is going to have to go to someone else. Any thoughts or advice?

2006-12-28 03:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by d5138_3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This will seem as a weird question and please not i am from a asian nation.

I am a gay who is 29 years old.I had a girl friend 2 years back and she left for another man while i was working abroad.it hurt a lot..even sometomes now, after 2 years.I loved her so much.But she used me and dumped me like ****.

Since then life has moved along.I havent really dated or liked any one till date.But what keeps me going is the hope that i will meet someone nice who will love me and i could love back the same way abd would make me happy, althgough this seems elusive i seems as i reach 30.But hope keeps me going althogut life is so lonely.But i have kept a good and i have no regrets ir have i donr anyhting bad in my life.

2006-12-28 03:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by WB 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 03:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Singles & Dating

We're both passionate about each other and everytime we start kissing and touching he starts asking me for sex. I am a virgin and don't want to give it away without any feelings or somtimes. I want him to wait and respect that and want him to love me for who i am not what i will give him. It seems like he likes the fact about my condition but at the same time i guess he never had anybody who would make him to wait. I don't want to lose him for such a stupid thing but it feels like he understands it in a different way. He keeps saying that i am keeping it for somebody else and keeps saying that god knows what is going to happen later on and he want to love me now since i am his now. Please guys i need your advice in this. how to treat him and how to make him understand me and accept me the way i am.

2006-12-28 03:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 03:48:00 · 20 answers · asked by Rachael S 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf father tells her things like "you should use more tanning lotion to look better", or "your belly is like that of a trucker" or "you have boxer shoulders", or "you shouldn't eat that much so you don't get fatter".He demands that she "look good" when they go places. He told her to fix herself up one day when he took her to a party with his co-workers. Now she is very beautiful. She is a little chubby, but she isn't fat and I frankly don't find any flaws on her and love her to death.She is attached to her dad and will probably end this relationship eventually because he says no. She keeps telling me that he is a nice guy. Wtf!!! She also thinks he is very handsome, but he looks like crap. I hate how he has made her insecure like this. I tell her she is beautiful, and she rolls her eyes!But she is still willing to break up with the guy who treats her like a princess for jackass dad. Isn't what he does emo abuse?y then is she so attached to him?

2006-12-28 03:45:47 · 15 answers · asked by Na n 1 in Singles & Dating

I've dated people of all different backgrounds and it has never been a big deal. Earlier this year I was in the US and my partner and I were the only mixed race couple around

2006-12-28 03:45:22 · 25 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my 16 yr old brother lives with our mom and step father who bets him hes usually a great kid but his older brother (20) found a bunch of cuts and marks from his dad on his arm. Also he is starting to change and mouths off to me and my brother alot more. sould my brother gain custody.

2006-12-28 03:44:26 · 4 answers · asked by sidney m 1 in Family

2006-12-28 03:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by strangerswrath 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband says he has not lust towards me! Are we in a relationship with no chemistry? he love me and is supportive but does not seem like he is attracted towards me in any manner. I am always sad looking at how other women get all the attention from thier husbands! He admits to the fact that he has no lvst towards me! Whats happening

2006-12-28 03:44:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You can only be happy with another person only if you are happy with yourself on your own. If you are not hapy with yourself and try to find someone to make you happy, chances are there will be lots of problems in the relationship later on. Am I right or wrong?

2006-12-28 03:43:45 · 18 answers · asked by Kevinlad 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next summer. His family wants us to get married in Texas. He says I can plan the wedding on a budget of course, and he will plan the honeymoon. We want to get married on the beach. What and where is a good idea for a reception in Corpus Christi, Texas? Any ideas how to plan a nice, elegant beach wedding on a $1000 budget. I have to get the dress within this budget too?

2006-12-28 03:43:13 · 14 answers · asked by Clints_wench 4 in Weddings

I had a bunch of friends in Emelmantary School, and last year everthing when for the worst! Two of my closes friends skip a grade, 4 of my friends turned into what I'll just say the meanest girls I have ever met, I only made 3 friends, 1 has a dad who is an achoolic, 1 has a disorder so she is hyper, and has temper issues, and the other has prolbems with her parents. And my 2 friends who skipped a grade, are going 2 high school next year, without me!!! The only friend I really have is my step-cousin and she is oly with me aunt and uncle every other weekend and lives 1 and half hours away. I feel like I am all alone, and at lunch I it t what people conster the looser table!!! I feel like crap!!!

2006-12-28 03:43:02 · 17 answers · asked by hannahmontanagirl_1994 1 in Friends

so from my bedroom, I can see directly into her shower. I've mentioned this to her and she didn't seem to mind...do you consider this a invitation to keep on looking?

2006-12-28 03:42:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 03:42:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have had an amazing sex life. Most of the time when we have sex, it's incredible. But, lately, it is becoming more and more common for him to not be able to have an orgasm. It's not that he can't "get it up," he just can't "finish." Is this common? I've never had this happen with any other guy before, and I'm already very self-conscious about myself and my body, but he insists that it has nothing to do with me. Any advice??

2006-12-28 03:40:11 · 20 answers · asked by dmh1973 1 in Singles & Dating

after adultery both sexes just only want to indulge in sex pleasure they are not interested bother themselves to have marital status. a male just fulfill his lust and fill his bed with other female the very next day.however, if it leads to marriage mostly results in divorce sooner or pretty bit later. on the contrary marriages arranged by the elders of a family are always fruitful. because they very well know modes and manners of a society

2006-12-28 03:39:26 · 13 answers · asked by massenger man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 03:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends