after adultery both sexes just only want to indulge in sex pleasure they are not interested bother themselves to have marital status. a male just fulfill his lust and fill his bed with other female the very next day.however, if it leads to marriage mostly results in divorce sooner or pretty bit later. on the contrary marriages arranged by the elders of a family are always fruitful. because they very well know modes and manners of a society
2006-12-28 03:39:26 · 13 answers · asked by massenger man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I fail to see what is so bad about having sex. Sex is a gift. Afterall, we are all here because of it.
Might I add, Divorce is not because of sex, usually lack of sex leads to divorc...and cheating..
2006-12-28 04:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Chica Creole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religion aside:
Humans aren't made like swans physiologically.
Swans mate for life. When one partner dies, the surviving partner never mates again.
Humans are the "dominant" species on this planet at this time. One way that humans obtained this title is by procreation. We don't reproduce out of necessity for the survival of the species. We may have at one time, but no longer. Humans reproduce for a myriad of reasons. First and foremost, it's a side effect of an act that just feels good.
Sorry Charlie, it's beautiful to see a relationship that's lasted through the depression, through a world war, through all the trials endured and the couple still loves each other... but it's not the norm these days.
We have become a country of the now, now, now, me, me, me. Regarldess of the number of various religions out there all claiming to be the one true path to a good afterlife (or rebirth, or oblivion), what humans do and say in church and what they/we do and say out of the confines of that sect can be completely different. Oh, and there are some fols you are never going to convert.
Our species will continue to propagate at will, at random, and as desired; goverment papers, preacher's ceremony, or not. We are a race of fast movers and our opinions and feelings change like the winds. There is no accountability any longer for one's actions. I'm sure you've heard, "It's only illegal if you're caught."
I suspect the human sex drive is stronger than the human need to make an illegal driving maneuver.
2006-12-28 03:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage? I can't think of anything more backward. Often 8 year old girls married to some old pervo with a white beard. Disgusting.
You think marriage is only for sex and then talk about family? What kind of a family is based on sex only?
Arranged marriages are only for money gain, like his parents own 3 goats and her parents own a goat shed, so by marrying whoever to whatsisface they put together a farm or something.
Come out of the middle ages, man.
2006-12-28 03:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by sandwich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well arranged marriages are also not always successful and its easy to put blame on elders. It depends upon the individuals now, you cant turn back time and live in pre-60s.Free sex is even making inroads into eastern societies too. Just we should try to cope with new trends, keep a balance, and make the best out of them.
2006-12-28 03:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Reem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages can be arranged by whom ever it is the individuals that make it fruitful. People that fear God and want to obey his laws ( that is no fornication or adultery) are the ones with successful marriages most of the times. No amount of love in a relationship can make it last because the devil is busy. We must pray and do what is right, love each other as we love our own bodies and a husband and wife should cling to each other and truly respect and consider your partner's feelings
2006-12-28 03:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, dude.....in the first place, not every man (or woman) chooses to be in a long term relationship and raise children. That is not wrong or sinful or anything else that you find disagreeable.
Second, there are too many people who are not MATURE enough to be IN a long term relationship; look at the divorce rate.
What is your heritage anyway? I'm thinking that you're not just another anglo/American...
2006-12-28 04:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even us 'bedhoppers' know that those in other cultures are not always faithful and i personally know of two arranged marriages where the man cheats,,ali,,for instance is a pillar of the community but it doesnt stop him cheating with a white skinned redhead,,dont preach about what a better class of moral person you are without giving all the facts,,you are no better or worse than any of us who are capable of choice,,,you do not have the monopoly on faithfulness.
2006-12-28 03:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual sins do plague our world today and it is sickening. But if someone lives by the values and morals that they should have been taught in youthhood then it would not be this way. It saddens me to know that this world is so diseased with betrayal and the casual ideals of sex.
2006-12-28 03:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get real you moron. If God wanted family he would do it for all animal species. It's the human who created the family concept not god. So that each male got to copulate woth atleast one female.
2006-12-28 04:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AMEN!!! I couldn't agree more. If people would stop indulging in their sick temporary highs they could really accomplish something in life and surround themselves with people of value.
I agree 100%
2006-12-28 03:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋