I have a male friend and every time he comes over, I notice the loads of cloths he keeps in his car. This time I noticed more then usual. He is suppose to be married and there suppose to have an agreement that he can do whatever he wants just as long as he does'nt bring it home. I listen to the messages on his voicemail when he came over drunk as usual and she stated that his cloths would be outside & its nothing he can say to change her mind. He still goes to her in the pm but comes to me & spends the nite later on. He does not talk about his personel self much&tries to avoid telling me what I want to know when I ask.He lied in the beginning & did not tell me he was married,he said it did'nt matter.I think they just had a agreement & now shes tired of him.I don't think hes saving money&I think when he meets single women he stays at there house as long as he can.He cant stay with me,I have my reason.But I want to help him some how.that is if hes not trying to get over on single women.
2006-12-28 03:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump this jackass. He's using you and anyone else he can for a place to hang his hat. You can only feel sorry for someone whi is trying to help themselves and change. When you see this....NOT HIM TELLING YOU THIS.....then maybe offer help again if you want. Don't be a sucker. he doesn't even have the decency to show up sober. OPEN them eyes lady.
2006-12-28 03:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems very complicated and you don't have a lot of answers.
At some point your gonna have to be straight up with your friend. You cant help the way you might want to beacuse your questions are unanswered.
Help him by being honest, without judgments. Help him by listening but honestly I believe your already helping him, in some way. That may be enough.
2006-12-28 04:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by B1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... Here's the deal...
He's looking for someone to take care of him and since you have already taken care of him in so many other ways that his wife "supposedly" says is alright you seem to be next in line to deal with his BS.
You're beign played and it's a sad sight to see... If you have any self-respect you'd kick the cheating POS to the curb and move on!
2006-12-28 03:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by I wanna have a midget :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is trying to get a free ride on you. That is being dishonest of him to make your place seem to be his. I would be mad too. I would just tell him that unless he can give you some rent money or something, that he needs to find another place to meet his women - that could get you in the middle of something you don't want in the middle of - a divorce.
2006-12-28 03:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people get themselves into such messes?
Stop answering the door. He has to support himself completely. Perhaps his wife was just tired of putting up with his crap.
2006-12-28 03:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't need to be looking for single, he need to be looking for a job... I wishes him all the luck he can get.
2006-12-28 03:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him good bye sex and send him on his way.
2006-12-28 03:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
TELL HIM TO GET LOST
2006-12-28 04:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SORRY
2006-12-28 03:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by †If he only knew† 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋