i'm sick and tired of hearing my parents argue about stupid things and than it's not only my parents it's my entire family we're always yelling at eachother and i'm sick of. i'm sick of this bull. what should i do
2006-12-28 03:52:57 · 17 answers · asked by ellizi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my parents have the worst tempers ever and so do i. i'm not old enough to move out. They always start yelling at me and my siblings for our grades which are NEVER good enough. Counseling is not available to me
2006-12-28 03:56:16 · update #1
one time on christmas they got into a huge fight which involved a couple of broken glasses, wirelesss thingy and some other stuff. course this ruined christmas
2006-12-28 04:00:50 · update #2
Call Dr. Phil, seriously. It's not a problem you will be able to fix on your own.
2006-12-28 03:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isolate yourself from it. My family is the same way. I have 9 brothers and sisters so when we all get together there is ALWAYS a fight. So for family get togethers, we only stay for a few hours and then we leave before the fighting starts. As for your parents sweets.... parents will always bicker, the best idea is not to get involved and to try and be happy in your life. Learn from this tho, and in the future when you and your husband are fighting, try not to be so loud in front of your children. Good luck to you!
2006-12-28 11:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time this happens- call the cops because they can put you guys into some danger and they don't even realize it. When your parents argue just try to stay away from them because even the slightest little thing you do will make them want to yell at you even though it's not your fault that they are arguinmg. Maybe it's time for your parents to get divorced!
2006-12-28 12:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW MY FAMILY IS THE SAME WAY...THERE'S ALWAYS PROBLEMS AND FIGHTING....MY FAMILY IS VERY PROBLEMATIC...JUST TO SAY THAT I HAVE 5 BROTHERS AND 4 OF THEM ARE DIVORCED AND TWO OF MY SISTERS ARE CLOSE FOR DIVORCE TOO!! I GREW UP IN A FAMILY WITH CONSTANT FIGHTS/PROBLEMS AND IT'S SOMETHING THAT TRUELY AFFECTED ME...BECAUSE I ALWAYS WANTED TO SEE MY FAMILY TOGETHER GETTING ALONG...I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO TALK TO YOUR PARENTS AND LET THEM KNOW WHO THIS MAKES YOU FEEL....IT'S REALLY NECESSARY TO SPEAK UP AND LET THEM KNOW THAT IT'S NOT RIGHT...TO BE FIGHTING....IF THIS DOESN'T CHANGE AND YOUR AT LEAST 18YRS. OLD MOVE OUT!!! BECAUSE BY STAYING THERE, IT'S NOT ONLY AFFECTING YOU PHYSICALLY BUT MENTALLY AS WELL...."IN THE END OF THE DAY..YOU DON'T WANT TO EVEN GO HOME". SO TALK TO THEM...AND TRY TO FIND HELP FOR THEM...AND IF THINGS DON'T CHANGE MOVE OUT WITH ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER OR FRIEND. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-28 11:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Maria A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
options
1)Tell ur parents how u feel
2)Blackmale them
3)Call the police
4)Move Out
(go to friends house)
5)Run Away (not a great choice but if u r 18)
6)Talk 2 a consuler
2006-12-28 12:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yelling is nothing but a catalyst. it means nothing but that I can talk louder to or over you. Ask them to lower their voices a little and whatever you do don't yell back. it works well with a little patience, trust me. the easiest way not to gratify it is to not play. if you talk and speak in reason in a low voice, it has a profound effect on making those who are yelling realize just how stupid they sound. hope it helps.
2006-12-28 11:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by SST 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry that you are living in such an environment. how old are you? tell your parents very calmly and serrios that they are the adults and that if they have problems they should go to someone and take care of them. as for you....try not to be like them...make loads of friends., go out... do a lot of things, because life is variety
2006-12-28 12:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Gabitzu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to be the calming force of your family. tell everybody that there should be one day a week where you all sit down with each other and will use this time to air your grevinces
2006-12-28 12:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Rosie. Call Dr. Phil. He can help if your family wants it. Or you can go online to Dr.Phil.com and send an email.
2006-12-28 12:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just run away from home thats what i did but after a few months i went back home and my everyone was gone i think they havent being looking for me because i left a letter that i was going to run away and i was also old enough to live by my own
2006-12-28 11:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋