This will seem as a weird question and please not i am from a asian nation.
I am a gay who is 29 years old.I had a girl friend 2 years back and she left for another man while i was working abroad.it hurt a lot..even sometomes now, after 2 years.I loved her so much.But she used me and dumped me like ****.
Since then life has moved along.I havent really dated or liked any one till date.But what keeps me going is the hope that i will meet someone nice who will love me and i could love back the same way abd would make me happy, althgough this seems elusive i seems as i reach 30.But hope keeps me going althogut life is so lonely.But i have kept a good and i have no regrets ir have i donr anyhting bad in my life.
2006-12-28 03:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by WB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a girl in my offcie, she is 24 and i knew her since my breakup and we have gone out for meals sometimes, but not as dates.We have never dated and i have no romatic feeling for her and i assume the same form her.She also went thru a breaup 2-3 yeals ago and she has been single.I call her once a blue moon and exchagea text.
recenntly, she has asked me to get phscial with her since she is single and i am also the same.She says we are not doing anyhting wrong.
I like the phisical side of life.RThere is no doubt.She is atill watring for an anser.What bothers is if i am doign the right rting? is there somethign wrong?..if i meet someone i really like soon will i feel guilty? will it ruin my future conscince ...woud i lose my frishisp with this girl..
these questions bother me...so now, should i be faithful to some one i am yet to meet?..
2006-12-28 03:53:22 · update #1
and when i am hasving this reationship with this lady whats of i find someone i romatically like?...i dont wanna hurt any one...
2006-12-28 04:01:48 · update #2
i dont think so, because u dont even know what the other person is doing
2006-12-28 03:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by mauri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right attitude and you should not let what happend in the past affect your future happiness. This happens to just about everybody. Keep a positive attitude, get out there and do something to meet a lot of people and you'll meet someone before you know it. Good luck and Happy New Year.
2006-12-28 11:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can. that is what I'm doing right now. after dating a couple of guys and have sex with only two, i feel like that it was a mistake so now i stop all the dating and hopefully i will meet somebody soon to spend the rest of my life with him.
2006-12-28 12:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you cannot be unfaithful per say, however you ought to live your life in the way you believe is good- so when you meet the person you want to be w/ you won't have to hide or be ashamed of your past.
2006-12-28 11:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking its cheating then you are, but if its in the past then just leave it there and move on. You have som many other problems than to worry about the BS ones.
2006-12-28 11:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you have not met then you cant cheat on them --- if you find someone you then break it off with this lady unless of course you develop feelings for each other and that is very likely
2006-12-28 11:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me if you feel you need to ask that question, then you should know the answer. Yes, exclusive is exclusive, period!
2006-12-28 11:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by zaq1_59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In todays world of technology I would say so.
2006-12-28 11:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jeffrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say no...because in a real relationship you would have at least have to meet them. i dont call it a relationship if its online
2006-12-28 11:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I really don't understand your question
2006-12-28 11:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋