Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I HAVE A BILL COLLECTOR THAT CALLINGS AND CALLINGS LOOKING FOR A PERSON THAT I DONT KNOW OR EVER HEARD OF. THE COLLECTOR DOESNT BELEIVE ME WHEN I TELL HIM THAT THE PERSON HE IS LOOKING FOR DOESNT LIVE AT MY RESIDENCE.. MY HOUSE WAS BUILT 2 YRS AGO SO THERE IS NO WAY HE COULD LIVED AT MY RESIDENCE BUT MY PHONE NUMBER IS A NEW NUMBER THAT THE MAN HE IS LOOKING FOR HAD.. HOW DO I GET THIS MAN TO STOP CALLING THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR OVER A YEAR NOW.

2006-12-28 06:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by txsweetie1616 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for 5 years, I have custody of our 4 children. The courts have finally ordered the dad to pay child support in the amount of $442.00 a month. There dad is making about $35,000 a year. Ithink that seems a little low, 4 kids are very expensive, What do u think?

2006-12-28 06:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Snowbunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Difficult to explain. BUT - No matter how you meet a guy, through a friend, internet, bar, grocery store, or whatever... Why is it that on the first real date, they expect sex? You can meet for a drink, talk, and may have some things in common, yadda yadda yadda. As a woman I'd like to see if we can extend the date to dinner or at least see if there is the possibility of a second date. Then, BAM!!! here he comes wanting to kiss & the small little tail tail signs of "getting it on" starts coming out of his mouth! To me, this is a total turn off! What happened to Dating?

2006-12-28 06:22:53 · 4 answers · asked by T. 6 in Singles & Dating

ok so me n my ex have been talkin again. we love each other very much n we are basically together without the title. but hte thing is i broke his trust when we were going out because i lied bout stupid things to get his attention. n i dont think he trusts me anymore. but then y does he act like my bf n he always says that he loves me. i love him n i want him to trust me again. i have grown from that previous person i used to be. how do i earn his trust bak??

2006-12-28 06:22:38 · 30 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just looking for ideas on how to wow my gf of 4 years. I get her flowers and jewerly for no reason, but I'm looking for something out of the ordinary...something off the wall. Could you help?

2006-12-28 06:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by dwarner33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

On my W-2, right now I report as married. Do I need to change this now to Single or until I get the court papers saying I am divorced?

2006-12-28 06:22:29 · 16 answers · asked by liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is Italian and his family is from up north..He's very close to his mom, which Italian men are known to be. He does things that aggragvate me, though, like tap into my e-mails and look through everything in my cell phone etc..he has to know EVERYTHING. But when the tables turn, he'll get a phone call or see one of his friends, and say "can you go in the other room and wait for me, this is important.." or he'll walk away when he gets a certain phone call and get furious if I follow him. His excuse is that I can't handle certain things!! Once, I wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine and had my friend call me..I did the same; went up stairs and used his lines "this doesn't concern you..sorry, I have to take this..wait here"....he was LIVID..he kicked things , he stormed after me, turned red..went nuts about it..his mom tried to stop him and he pushed her out of his way and caused a big commotion in his house. Is this double standard typical of Italian-American men?

2006-12-28 06:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i was in town with my friend, and i knew he was working , her and i went in there to say hi, but he didnt talk to me at all. all he was doing was sweeping the floorscuz the store was closing. weve been together for almost 2 months.HELP.!

2006-12-28 06:20:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

word processing & words OCR
skill for life (literacy and numeracy)
carry on computing
using photoshop/paintshop pro
marketing - the basics
OCR diploma in administration
thinking of maths

i'm interested in photography. i would like to set up my own studio. i work in the fashion, sport, news and college areas. i also have done loads of computer course's in the past and would like a few extra certs. i'm not very good at math's and could improve my english. i'm also looking for a sales job and think the marketing course, would help. i have alway's wanted to do office work as well. some of the course's are only basic one's, but i'm looking for way's of improving my employabilty. what do you guy's think.

2006-12-28 06:20:14 · 11 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Friends

2006-12-28 06:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by todd a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a falling out with my best friend's mom and dad and they are vry bitter against me now for it. i want my best friend to be in the wedding, but she is very very intent on listening to her parents even though she is 19....should i ask her even though i know her parents will object? the wedding is in the states and she lives in canada so i wold have to fly her down and everything like that...gah what would be the best thing to do?

2006-12-28 06:19:46 · 18 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Weddings

WELL AB0UT 6 MOTH. AG0 MY B0YFRIENDS M0M C0NFESS ME THT SHE WAS SEEN AN0THER GUY THT WASNT HER HUSBAND. SHE T0LD ME CRYING THT SHE WAS WITH THIS MAN AT A PARK N THIS 2 GUYS ST0LED HER WATCH N HIS WALLET THE NEXT DAY WAS WHEN SHE T0LD ME N SHE WAS CRYING I ASKED WHY WAS SHE WITH THIS MAN AT NIGHT CAUSE THIS HAPPEND LIKE AR0UND 9:30PM. N SHE T0LD ME T0 D0NT SAY ANYTHING THT THEY WERE JUST TAKLING.WELL I'VE BEEN WITH MY B0YFRIEND F0R 1 YR N 9 M0. S0 WE ALWAYS TALK AB0UT EVERYTHING I TH0UGHT AB0UT TELLING HIM WAT HIS M0M HAS T0LD ME BUT I THINK HE HAD T0 KN0W S0 I T0LD HIM.N0W ITS BEEN 6 M0. N WE HAVE BEEN N0TICING THT SHE C0MES LATE FR0M W0RK WITH "MESSY HAIR" N SHE G0ES 0UT 0FTEN WITH HER "FRIENDS".THE 0THER DAY SHE WAS TELLING ME THT HER HUSBAND HAS THE MEN0PAUSE N THT SHE NEED "SEX".WICH HER HUSBAND IS N0T GIVING HER N SHE T0LD ME THT SHE HAS FRIENDS 2 HELP HER WITH THT BUT SHE DIDNT SAW MY B0YFRIEND S0 HE HEARD EVERYTHING.S0 N0W WE D0NT KN0W WAT 2 D0 SH0ULD WE TELL MY B0YFRIENDS DAD?

2006-12-28 06:19:09 · 21 answers · asked by VereNice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this girl for 2months now. I started dating her not too long from when she broke up with her BF, whom she'd been dating for 1yr now. I like her, she likes me. She recently called me to tell me that she isn't sure if the relationship will prosper because she thinks we are very different in terms of views, beliefs etc. She also claims that she misjudged how long it will take for the emotional ties to her ex to be severed. She claims that she feels like she can fall in love with me. But, if she does not clear her head as to what she wants, she might hurt me or whatever. I said we can work things out. I don't know if I should just call it quits. Well I like her a lot. That is why I am investing my energy in this. What should I do now? Please Please help a man in his darkest hour. Thank you very much for reading and responding

2006-12-28 06:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by Michael O 1 in Singles & Dating

from day one...that the people there are tough and mean to you...AND YOU ARE A NICE, CONSIDERATE PERSON...that is how you were raised...You said to one of the girls and you are a girl.."why are you treating me this way?"...she just said "because."..now you asked another girl the same question?...she said don't you get it?You just said politely ..."no, i don't"...she walks away...would you tell your SUPERVISOR BECAUSE MAYBE HE'LL TELL THEM..AND THEY WOULD BE MORE PISSED AT YOU??? or would you just give your two week notice...and DO NOT GIVE A REASON FOR LEAVING...please help!!!

2006-12-28 06:18:52 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

My hubby works with a woman who is constantly making excuses to go into his office and call him at home. She flirts with everyone in the office...what can I do?

2006-12-28 06:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last year my b-friend asked me to marry him... This year he asked again...He said by the end of the yr. we would be married. He said that last time! Let go or Stay? Personally, ready to let go....

2006-12-28 06:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by gone from here too 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my boyfriend of 2 years. We had been good friends for years before that, and only started getting sexual when we were both as comfortable with each other as we were with ourselves. We broke it off right before high school, because we weren't going to be seeing each other very much, but he remains one of my best friends. I do realize that once a person has lost their virginity, it isn't coming back, but don't feel terrible with myself for losing it, nor do I feel like I made a bad decision. On the contrary, we recognize each other as first loves, and great influences the rest of our lives. I've often wondered if I should be kicking myself in the face for it like others do sometimes. Thoughts?

2006-12-28 06:17:21 · 14 answers · asked by lirael1019 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my man.We've been together for 2 years now. He acts like he wants space but he doesn't want to go out with friends. What should I do?

2006-12-28 06:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl is tuning 13 on Jan 2. She's a wonderful girl, treats me, her dad and her bro with love, has never done something bad. Like every child, sometimes she did something wrong, but the severest punishment she' got so far was a light grounding of 2 days, for some monors fault. She's honest, trust us and even when she does something wrong she tel us. Excellente studente too. That is, so far I've had a great and wonderful girl. Well, but now she's turning 13, she's a teen. Many people say teens are kinda hard to handle. What do I have to do to so that she keeps being this wonderful girl? Will she necessarily become disrespectful and do bad stuff?

2006-12-28 06:16:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ohhhh...Promiscuous girl..wherever you are
Im all alone and its you that i want
Promiscuous boy..you already know
that I'm not yours what are you waiting for..

OR should I sing Lips of an angel?

Honey why are you calling me so late
its kinda hard to talk right now
honey why are you crying is everything ok
i can only whisper coz i cant be too loud...

please help me....everything was a misunderstanding,sh saw me with another girl in my arms but i was just consoling my classmate!!!!!

2006-12-28 06:16:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19 & i dont have a job,im trying to figure out where i want to go in a career,i plan on going to school in the medical field next year. About once a week i work at the family buisness so i do have some money to my name. I come from a good and well respected family also.My boyfriend of 2yr he does work at a hospital & brings home a decent amount of money ,he comes from a, hate to say it but trashy family though he's nothing like them.He buys me things here and there but i never ask him to buy me things,& when i have the money i pay him back but most of the time he dosnt let me.I dont know what to do because his whole family talks about me & says im a gold digger to other people because when he buys me things theyre usually pricey gifts.They talk about me to our friends and other family saying im a gold digger & i use him for the money. I love him for him and not for the money,they dont know me at all & i feel like they'll tear us apart as well as making me look bad to other people .

2006-12-28 06:16:24 · 2 answers · asked by victoriias_secret 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this person for about five months but we just started a relationship three weeks ago. He is younger than me but legal and lives with parents. He told me they wouldn't approve of him being with me so we kept it on the low. He calls me mainly and I use caller id block whenever I call the house or his cell. He was careless and saved my number in his cell and didn't delete his call log each time. A couple of days last week, I picked him up and we hung out without getting caught. However, the last day we stayed away to long and his dad was leaving the house just as I was dropping him off at the corner of his street and caught us together. His dad took his phone and saw my numbers and all the times we have talked. Later that night his dad called me but I didn't respond. He told them nothing happened between us and we were just friends so they let it go and told him not to have any contact with me. He has been calling me anyway. I told him not to call from home b/c I get paranoid.

2006-12-28 06:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girl a long time and she is that good girl I have been wanting. The problem is, she is not very interested in sex. I really want a sex life and it's kind of depressing that it doesn't interest her no matter how much we talk about it. She is also i guess the word is 'uncharismatic?' She's a good girl and all but it's just not fun to be with her and I can't get her to open up to me about things so I have know idea what the hell she is thinking. I have a friend as well who she is far more fun and attractive but terrible girlfriend material. She has had a thing for me for a long time and offered me one night and afternoon at her place to do 'whatever I want' before she moves away in a few weeks. Should I just leave her after all we've done? It's kinda rare to find a girl that's not a hoe and treats you well. But i want us both to be happy.

2006-12-28 06:13:54 · 19 answers · asked by dave v 1 in Singles & Dating

My exhusband just told me he had a private investagator follow me while we were going through our divorce. If he's still doing that is it legal?

2006-12-28 06:13:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He likes me licking his ***hole a lot. He said that he likes that more than oral sex. What does that mean? Help.

2006-12-28 06:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by RoseBud 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for 2months now. I started dating her not too long from when she broke up with her BF, whom she'd been dating for 1yr now. I like her, she likes me. She recently called me to tell me that she isn't sure if the relationship will prosper because she thinks we are very different in terms of views, beliefs etc. She also claims that she misjudged how long it will take for the emotional ties to her ex to be severed. She claims that she feels like she can fall in love with me. But, if she does not clear her head as to what she wants, she might hurt me or whatever. I said we can work things out. I don't know if I should just call it quits. Well I like her a lot. That is why I am investing my energy in this. What should I do now? Please Please help a man in his darkest hour. Thank you very much for reading and responding

2006-12-28 06:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need ur help! i reli love a boy i knew for a while. i dont mean a crush i mean deep in my heart..... but we both live in completely different worlds. we are completely different and we live far apart. what shud i doooo? plz help me figure it out?

2006-12-28 06:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by lilgranfamyte . 1 in Singles & Dating

How long do wait before sleeping with someone? After 3 dates? A few months? How soon is too soon? I don't want to end up looking like a desperate tramp.

2006-12-28 06:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel a certain power when i get a guy hard.

am i the only one who feels this way?

2006-12-28 06:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Singles & Dating