Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

2006-12-28 06:55:44 · 33 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

I am afraid to ask them in case they get mad at me, or they accuse my friends of putting me up to it.

2006-12-28 06:55:27 · 7 answers · asked by Forever_&_Always 2 in Family

Feeling guilt and anger toward my mother because I have to see her and talk to her at least once a week. I have a very busy life right now and it's sometimes hard to fit a visit in. But then I feel guilty for not doing it. Anyone else go through this?

2006-12-28 06:54:35 · 20 answers · asked by Lisa G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to sound needy but he calls or texts me everyday. He usually calls me at night like 10ish to see how my dad went and just to say goodnight. Even when hes out with his friends he'll just send me a little text saying hey how was your day? or i'll call you tomorrow have a nice sleep. Yesterday he didn't. So I was like ok hes probably just out with his friends and he'll call me when he gets home. I wake up today no text or anything so I was like well I'll just send him a text incase hes sleeping. Yeah that was like 3 hours ago and I still haven't gotten a reply. I normally wouldn't be so worried about it but on tuesday we got in a fight. So do you guys think that hes still mad about the fight? Should I just back off and give him some space? Wait for him to call me or what?

2006-12-28 06:54:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:54:14 · 20 answers · asked by yup 1 in Singles & Dating

ok he tells me he loves me but i dont say i love him back is that bad??

2006-12-28 06:53:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both like each other, we have said that we have feelings for one another, we have even madeout. But i think the guy does not want to ruin the friendship, so he says he does not want to date. He says it is because he would be my first boyfriend and he thinks that he is not what i would want in a guy. yet I have told him I want to be in a relationship with him. This guy is so sweet, a gentleman. Everytime that we hang out, we do things that people who date or are in relationships do. So, does anyone have any ideas about how i can deal with being his friend for right now.(Note: both people are in there 20's, guy is 4 years older)

2006-12-28 06:52:59 · 13 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not a big fan of asking guys out (I'm a bit old fashioned), but every guy seems to be too intimidated to ask me out or even approach me. So I have started taking the first step (or at least trying). There is a guy in my building that I see here and there, but for some reason when I am actually prepared with my card I don't see him and when I have nothing he pops up out of the wood work. I have talked to him here and there in passing and we have exchanged looks (lingering looks) here and there as well. I have no clue what his name is though. I intend to go up to him (next time I am armed with my card) and say hey my name is Erin and I haven't actually introduced myself....(wait for his name) and say well here's my number if you want to go out for drinks or coffee sometime give me a call! Do you think that is effective enough? Will it work? I am so lost cause I don't do this ever. I am nervous as well. I just don't know if he will be receptive....since he has made an actual move yet

2006-12-28 06:52:43 · 30 answers · asked by Erin B 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I really like him so it's been rough trying to get past it. But it's become increasingly difficult now that he wants to be friends. We talked last night and he was mentioning that he wanted to hang out and go get coffee or go bowling next week like we used to. I told him that I was hesistant about the idea and he asked why. Then at the end of our convo he called me by the pet name that he used for me when we were going out. I called him by his name and he asked me why I didn't call him by the nickname I had for him. Huh?!? I don't want to be one of those girls he just "hangs out" with because he means so much more to me than that. I don't want to end what we have left but it's just awkward being friends with someone who knows so much about you and has seen everything...emotionally and physically...that you have to offer.
Advice?

2006-12-28 06:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:51:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f keeps on calling dating sites & if i bring it up he acts like he doesn't know what im talking about. it only happend twice but i hate it. am i doing something wrong & if so what can i do?

2006-12-28 06:51:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother is turning 16 and i have no idea what to get him- plz help!

2006-12-28 06:50:49 · 9 answers · asked by ladypacer953 1 in Family

my bf gets upset with me because i like having sex alot and he doesnt...im jsut not sure what to do about the situation..he is a tad older than me..and im sure what to do..and what might cause him not to like sex as much as i do..any suggestions

2006-12-28 06:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Kimmie B 4 in Singles & Dating

my gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, i think she might be regretting it now, but she's a passive girl so she might never take the action... should i go for it instead of holding my priinciple of the one who broke it off should be the one who comeback??

2006-12-28 06:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me 2 weeks ago during his finals week. He said it's stressful and our relationship is partly responsible for that b/c i'm a little high maintenance by calling him too much(2-3 times a day.) At that time i suspected he didnt do very well at school(he's a senior in college) since he said things are tough. But i never knew things were this tough until this morning i login to his email account and found that he got an email from the registrar telling him his academic records are below the university's standard and tell him to contact them asap! So now i began to understand him a bit more and didnt blame that much for not being strong in our relationship. And since he's that kind of person that keeps these bad things from me, probably b/c he doesnt wanna show he's a "loser", i dont really know what to do. Do you think this is the most direct reason he broke up with me b/c things are this tough? And what can i do to help him? We havent talked for 2 weeks. Please advise,thanx

2006-12-28 06:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll be 18 next month. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He asked me to marry him on graduation night, but didn't have a ring. He said he wanted to get a good one etc. but it's been 6 months since then. He doesn't even want to talk about marriage. However, he doesn't want to break up with me. I'm not expecting to get married a month after we're engaged. We could be engaged for 2-3 years and I wouldn't care, I just want a promise that we will get married. Does he really want to or does he just want a lifelong girlfriend with no family, and no obligations or responsibilities?

2006-12-28 06:48:47 · 32 answers · asked by carriespnc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend says he is controling me because my ex- boyfriend hate's my best friend b/c i broke up with him because he was cheating on me so i cheated on him, and we are still into an argument.
But he talks about me mean he do it infront of my face, and then when he isn't around his friends he like's shows me he cares about me.And i'm confused..I'm over him but i don't know i'm not going back, because he is popular and i'm like nerdy/popular because i'm really nice, right now i'm thinking about switching schools because he is getting on my nerves with making fun of me and everything.
and this was in the 7th grade and now i'm in the 8 th and about to go to 9th grade.
What should I do?

2006-12-28 06:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(December 28 2006)

2006-12-28 06:48:37 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband died and left me with nothing. I'm not looking for a fortune teller but for any kind of advice as to what to do both personally and financially.

2006-12-28 06:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by lola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean. My (ex)- friend Caitlin is just annoying me and taking away most of my other friends. Me and some of my friends are fed up with her. What would you do?

2006-12-28 06:47:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I split up with my ex 5 years ago because we decided we were a bit too young to settle down. I loved him to bits but we started arguing and we both thought we shouldn't ruin a good thing. I did what I wanted and he did what he wanted. I loved being young free and single and after about a year I met somebody else. We have a child now and it's really good, I just can't forget my ex! I hate it, he was the most stunning person I have ever seen. He was funny sweet and kind. I don't want to feel like this and I wondered if anyone had good tips for getting someone out of your head. It's only recently I've started to feel like this again because I found out my partner cheated on me. I know that he regrets it and he told me the day after it happened. I don't think it will happen again. I don't wanna wreck my family by getting revenge but the temptation is getting stronger. My kids mean the world to me and I need someone to give me a reality check! lol

2006-12-28 06:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone that likes you and don't mind if your the same race

2006-12-28 06:46:37 · 9 answers · asked by shay 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy i like has a girlfriend but i want him and he wants me but the only thing getting in our way is her so who would you choose if you were him? Me a model or her a short kind of ugly girl?

2006-12-28 06:46:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she accused me of not wanting her sexually. i pulled her off the bed by her arm and feel ashamed about it. i am a very mellow guy. we were both shocked. i want to make clear that after i did this we made up.

i don't what to think about this. i apologized but i feel remorse.
how should i think about it?

PLEASE NO JUDGEMENTS. I NEED ADVICE.

2006-12-28 06:45:56 · 44 answers · asked by Janus 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by lisababy 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night I talked to my boyfriend online (long distance relationship) and as he opened a gift I had gotten him. He immediatly told me that though he appriciated the thought I should not have bought him that because he didn't like it. (I bought him cigars, he is a regular cigar smoker, but appparently the specific kind I got wasn't something he wanted even though it is a brand he likes.)
Now at this point I guess I was upset and a little shocked that he had been so rude. I understand that he has to tell me at some point that his taste is different than what I thought, and I DO want him to tell me that he doesn't want me to buy him certain things, but I think he could have waited longer than the exact point that he opened the gift. (We have been dating for a year and a half and he has never said anything about it until now.) Am I being rediculous because I am mad, or was it as rude as I think it was?

2006-12-28 06:44:22 · 35 answers · asked by averyanne77 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 4 years. I recently found out that he has been unfaithful for the entire 4 years we've been together and I am in the process of saving money so that I can leave him and get a divorce which should happen very soon. The question is there is this guy at work (very hot I might add) who seems to be very interested in me. So far we have only had smoke breaks at work but he has suggested more and has even asked for my phone number. I have never cheated on anyone I've ever been with and until I found out what my husband was doing had never even really noticed this other guy. I just feel kinda guilty even talking to him in this way and spending time with him at work. What do you guys (and gals) think I should do?

2006-12-28 06:43:53 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an older guy and this lady and I have been friends for over 40 years. We've seen each other get married, raise a family, and watched each other get older. We even worked for the same company. She's my dearest friend. I was wondering if there were other long term friendships out there?

2006-12-28 06:43:41 · 3 answers · asked by Joshua 6 in Friends

2006-12-28 06:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends