I mean. My (ex)- friend Caitlin is just annoying me and taking away most of my other friends. Me and some of my friends are fed up with her. What would you do?
2006-12-28 06:47:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her
if she is really your friend say why, maybe see her a little less if she is mean, more if she is nice
2006-12-28 07:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever thing, maybe the problem is me and not Caitlin, maybe your personality could be turning other people off, figure out why your friends are leaving first. Then make new friends, that have spine who do not suck up to Caitlin. Good Luck to you
2006-12-28 15:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by jasmine K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything rash.
Besides your REAL friends would not and could not be taken away by an ex-friend. Just ignore her, because she is taking pleasure in the fact that you are easily annoyed by her actions and she is going to keep doing this until you tell her to stay away from you until she can learn to grow up.
If I were you I would just stick to my real friends and ignore her immaturity, because in the end she is only going to hurt herself and drive everyone away. If she threatens you just call the police, because if that is what she is doing for attention it is no joke and won't be taken as one.
Like I stated earlier, the easiest way to get rid of her is to just stick to your guns and ignore her. No one likes a despie and everyone is going to see how needy for attention she and will get annoyed by it too. Eventually if she does not change her actions she will not have and friends left.
2006-12-28 15:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your ex-friends, so why worry about what she does?? Let her take away your friends, if they were really your friends to began with they wouldn't leave you to go with her but the ones who are sticking with you are really your true friends! Just ignore her, she's probably doing what she's doing because she knows it bothers you and enjoys "making you down!" Just move on and act as if it don't bother you!!
2006-12-28 15:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her as a friend and stay away from her. I bet ihes like a bug to you, annyoing as hell. If she pisses you off that much things will just get worse in the future so its best to ignore her.
2006-12-28 14:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that kinda gets on my nerves and stuff but she has always been there 4 me but i say dump her unless u really need her cuz good friends r hard 2 find.
2006-12-28 14:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by BigBallerGurl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha....me and my friends kind of have that same situation. Our 'friend' Liz is really annoying and just won't shutup. We've broken all contacts with her, and usually don't speak with her. I've blocked her on AIM, blocked her emails, don't return any texts/messages, etc.
She'll come to understand that you're not friends anymore.
2006-12-28 14:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm..... beat the h*ll outta her i guess... but it'll be too crude right? but, who cares? she's not even considerate of what her action is causing others! I'd say erm...totally completely ignore her... she'll lose friends very fast if she keeps this up. however it seems, she will be rewarded only temporary... in the long run, u'll have fun!
2006-12-28 15:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by crazy dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ignore it. If she continues to bother her then talk to her nicely. Don't cause a scene or start anything, just tell her you'd like to talk and tell her what bothers you. Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing anything at all.
2006-12-28 14:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump. It means you aren't a friend.
2006-12-28 14:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋