my bf gets upset with me because i like having sex alot and he doesnt...im jsut not sure what to do about the situation..he is a tad older than me..and im sure what to do..and what might cause him not to like sex as much as i do..any suggestions
2006-12-28 06:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Kimmie B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how stressful life is for him when he is not with you. If it is stressful it can effect his ability and desire for sex. Especially if he can have it any time he wants it.
Men are a bit crazy about that. We all dream of finding a girl like you......that just loves sex. But if we do we soon find out we can't keep up. Women can have sex 24/7 but not men. Just doesn't work.
So when you want sex help him relax. Light some candles. Maybe give him a message. Just let him un-wind. And the most important thing is perhaps not ask for it so often. At least for awhile. He will bonce back and be ready to go.
2006-12-28 07:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem before. Just keep trying. Maybe he's just not used to having sex as often and needs to adjust. Maybe try more foreplay or some porn to get him more in the mood. Good Luck!
p.s. make sure he's not giving it to someone else!
2006-12-28 06:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone's sex drive is different.
the guys i have been with basically can't keep up with me..b/c i'm game for doing it all day long..
the best bet is to find someone you are sexually compatible with..and work around each other.
if you really like this guy than you find ways that both of you can be happy.. sometimes you might have to take care of yourself..but he should still be doing the job enough to keep you happy.
2006-12-28 06:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a role reversal. I've dated a girl that didn't like sex as much as I did.
You can't really MAKE someone like sex more. You'll just have to find out his fetishes and play on that.
Hopefully, you're aggressive and don't beat around the bush when you need to be satisfied. She went along with it, but just never got into it as much as I did. Eventually we broke up.
2006-12-28 06:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People often have differing sex drives. That's not unusual. You'll need to find a compromise or perhaps decide you are not a good match after all.
2006-12-28 06:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some folks just have a lower sex drive than others. Try masturbating in front of him, If he's not in the mood, maybe he will give you a hand ......so to speak.....
2006-12-28 06:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously isn't compatible with you, ad I personally wouldn't stay with anyone who wasn't compatible with me. You might want to find another unless you can do without having sex as you want.
2006-12-28 06:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that the stress level at his work is causing his lack of libido. Perhaps you could help him "de-stress" before your date nights!
2006-12-28 06:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start taking care of your own needs. Hopefully he will come around.
2006-12-28 06:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋