My friend says he is controling me because my ex- boyfriend hate's my best friend b/c i broke up with him because he was cheating on me so i cheated on him, and we are still into an argument.
But he talks about me mean he do it infront of my face, and then when he isn't around his friends he like's shows me he cares about me.And i'm confused..I'm over him but i don't know i'm not going back, because he is popular and i'm like nerdy/popular because i'm really nice, right now i'm thinking about switching schools because he is getting on my nerves with making fun of me and everything.
and this was in the 7th grade and now i'm in the 8 th and about to go to 9th grade.
What should I do?
2006-12-28 06:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get away from him. Switching schools is a great idea. Sometimes people like that become worse when you cut them off.
2006-12-28 06:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Licca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are young. You don't know what love it. He doesn't love you. You've not had enough experiences in your life to be able to understand what love truly is. He's young and boys (and girls too) can be very hateful. You need to not worry so much about if this boy likes you or not and focus on the most important thing in your life right now - school. get a good education to take care of yourself when your an adult so you don't have to rely on anyone else but yourself. Boys will come and go in your life. You won't even remember this boy's name in 10 years. Just ignore him and go on with your life. He'll eventually quit teasing you once he sees that it's not bothering you.
2006-12-28 14:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Photochic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off i would like to say 2 wrongs dont make a right when u both cheated on each other u should have been brokin up with him after he done that and now ur allowing him too say this and that about you its common sence get out of the realtionship if u dont u are just as fault as he is for letting him treat you like that
2006-12-28 14:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he loved you he would not have cheated on you. If you loved him, you would not have cheated on him, as two wrongs do not make a right - you should have respected yourself a little bit more than that.
Who flippin cares if he is 'popular'!!! You should be more concerned with the way he makes you feel and the way he treats you. Respect must come first.
2006-12-28 14:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could or could not, I don't know the guy so I cannot say for sure. From my personal experience, I am very, very sarcastic with my girlfriend. I will say things to her just joking around and sometimes it will hurt her feelings, I do not do it on purpose to hurt her in the least I am just joking around about her. If he continues to do it, talk to him and tell him it bothers you that he does it. If he does not apologize and if he doesn't try to change that then he may not love you. You cannot know until you talk to him about it. I love my girlfriend with all of my heart, but I do make fun of her jokingly, she does the same to me, it works for some couples, not for others.
2006-12-28 14:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by JordanDDunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going into high school...everything chages in high school ; you, your friends..etc. so don't stress this. be strong and take that bullshit u should find something worng with him and make fun of him too - but when he tries to tell u he caares bout u jus ignore him or when ehs being an asshole in forntof ppl just be like well u were jus tellin me how much u cared bout me just b4...and embarras him but then jus move on and put him in urpast
2006-12-28 14:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young, life goes on....move with it. Forget him, if he can't be nice 100% of the time, he's not worth it. You will blossom into a wonderful person is you are nerdy/popular because you are nice.
2006-12-28 14:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9th grade is high school You will meet a lot of different people so show him the door & kick him in the *** on the way out.
2006-12-28 14:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by hdf69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you .. its just he doesn't need the world to know.
my ex use to act like that all the time.
we'd be making out at his house[friends with benefits] and at school we;re arguing int eh hall ways and our friedns are hiding behind teh doors afraid.
hahah
just don;t worry about it.mayb eur not over him just yet?
2006-12-28 14:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on getting to the 10th grade.
He is simply acting his age.
2006-12-28 14:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋