my husband died and left me with nothing. I'm not looking for a fortune teller but for any kind of advice as to what to do both personally and financially.
2006-12-28 06:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your future is what you make of it. Only you can control your destiny. I am sorry for your loss - but if you truly have "nothing" you shouldn't be spending anything on fortune tellers who don't truly know you or the losses you have suffered. Better to use that money to see a counseler who will help you better yourself both emotionally and spiritually.
That will be $19.95 - thank you for your business
2006-12-28 06:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m sorry about your husband. Think of this as a new begining for yourself.
I won`t say anything wrong about fortune tellers, I have been to a couple of them myself, I have not found them to be any good, not that there aren`t any good ones out there.
But at the end of the day it`s up to you what you want, life is what you want to make it.
I left my husband just over 2 years ago, we had been together over 34 years, I had to get out, I took the bull by the horns (so to speak) and went, I have never looked back, it`s the best thing i have ever done.
I wish you all the luck in you new life.
2006-12-28 07:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have hit one of those rough spots on life's highway. Only this is more like a mountain. It will take time to rebound but you can and you will.
If you have a job and can at least keep the bills paid you are way out in from already. Now you need to see if there is a way to improve your life. Education...some kind of study for a better paying profession.
A lot of women will of course turn to another man to help her do this. Two salary's are better than one. This you did not mention so not sure where you are with that idea.
But remember back to before you married. You made it then and you will do so now. You have pointed out a problem that so many people do. Do not prepare for the possibility that one or the other may die before you do. Who wants to truly take a look at that possibility.
But most of all do not give up hope. You will find a way....all you have to do is look for it.
2006-12-28 07:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure if you can really get the answer here i am really not a fortune teller but i helped a woman once who was in your situation before so i can understand what you are going through but i can not give you any advice here because every body would make comments on it if you need more help e-mail me at khanaliimran@yahoo.com i will not charge you any thing the thing is you would want to keep this private as much as you can so choice is yours
2006-12-28 06:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to set goals and try to make it work. even if it's the hardest goal in the world make sure you know you can achieved it by working hard to wards it and stop thinking about what you could have been if he was alive a start thinking all the great things you can do for your self now you i still here. good luck.
2006-12-28 07:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you gave limited information, I would boost my career options by returning to school so that your salary can increase. Concentrate on your career so that your financial future is guarenteed.
2006-12-28 07:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be very hard but you have to go on with your life. Get a job and meet new people. Make a new life for yourself.
2006-12-28 06:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by DL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start over and you keep your head up and get your life back on track. the moment you do that you will be a winner.
2006-12-28 06:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rely solely on your own abilities, work hard and the future is yours.
2006-12-28 06:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know no more tomorrow than you know right now
2006-12-28 07:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋