Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

i dont know how to tell my husband that the baby i am having is a ! we already have 1 and the doctors told us it was a boy. well when i went in today for my 3rd ultrasound...they said it was definitly a ! it will break his heart not to have a son and it will kill me because he has a son by another who used him as a sperm donor, and i dont want her to be the only one with his son. i know this will break his heart but i dont know how to sit him down and tell him its a when he has it in his head that its a boy. the hard part is he started to buy clothes for him and gets really happy when thinking about having a son together! we only want 2 kids because pregnancy is hard on both of us and i cant go thru another. so what is youre advice on how i should tell him? i mean he even seen the weiner!! ( on the ultrasound the 1st one) WHAT DO I DO?

2006-12-28 06:12:32 · 1 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 06:12:27 · 26 answers · asked by meche_k6611 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is 24, she was in a crazy rush to get married (3 engagements in 2 years).

She met this guy through her brother, he is a good person and treats her nice compared to her ex-boyfriends.

They got engaged after 3 weeks of dating and married 8 months later. Within a few months of the wedding she was already regretting the marriage. She has kissed her co-worker, hangs out with this guy she says she still loves, and fights with her husband a lot over everything.

She wants a divorce, but her husband says it's against his religion and wants her to try to love him and learn to be happy with him.

Their 2nd anniversary is coming up and she still wants a divorce, but it devastated to be 24 and divorced. She told him she doesn't want to have children and wants out before she gets pregnant.

Did you divorce in your 20's? How did you deal with it? She doesn't want to be a "failure" by divorcing so soon.

2006-12-28 06:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or how can we tell you, we would love to be seduced.

2006-12-28 06:12:02 · 7 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Friends

Does anyone know how much a Jasmine Haute Couture wedding dress costs? Particularly, style #H439.

I have look at the Jasmine website and they do no list prices, and neither do online retailers. Has anyone bought one or know some one who has bought one before? How much did you/they pay?

Thanks!

2006-12-28 06:11:50 · 2 answers · asked by *~ Nicole ~* 3 in Weddings

i saw my bestfriend kissing my ex who pushed into having an arbotion at a party.she told mi that he was telling her they could have been good together but she did not mention anything about kissing him.should i tell her that i saw her kissing him

2006-12-28 06:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by ropam 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:11:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me back but i dont no wat i shud do now....im not that close to him cos we only actually first really got to no each other a couple of weeks ago but since then we've been getting a lot closer very quickly....i dont no whether i shud just go for it and ask him on a date or get to no him a for a bit longer....i havnt rle had much experience with relationships and i was wondering how long u find it takes for you to no someone well enough for it to be ok to ask them out?

2006-12-28 06:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. We argue a lot. Neither of us have cheated and I think my husband wants to make our marriage work as much as I do. The main problem is that my husbad never wants to talk to me about how he feels or just what's going on with him in general. I'm only 22 and I feel like a nagging ball and chain hag wife and I want to be the cool, fun, awesome wife I thought I would be. I don't want to nag my husband to death or pull away from him to the point where he seeks comfort elsewhere. He is often very negative and doesn't pay atention to me. I feel totally unappreciated and taken for granted. He says it has a lot to do with not liking his job, but I can't help but to think that he's not happy being with me. We don't have any children yet and one of the things we wanted for ourselves before kids was to have a stable marriage. Is this just common between men vs. women? I feel like we're stuck in a really bad rut - serious answers only please!!!

2006-12-28 06:10:01 · 27 answers · asked by NewMommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I spent about $50 bucks on my bf for x-mas he spent about the same. Last year I spent about $150 and he said he did to but I found his recipt in the trash and he only spent $60. I asked him this year if it was o.k. if I got him a gift certificate after x-mas because the traffic was so bad, mind you I did get him other gifts already about $50 bucks worth I thought he had spent more on me but he spent $50 on my gifts to and yesterday he wanted his gift card. my question is why should I keep spendeng more on him then he is on me shouldent it be the same amount on each person?

2006-12-28 06:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:09:47 · 2 answers · asked by Annika G 1 in Singles & Dating

GF TEXT ME TO PICK WHICH ENTRY I WANT TO USE TONIGHT: 1)FRONT DOOR 2)BACK DOOR 3)MOUTH. WHICH SHOULD I PICK AND WHY? WOMEN: WHICH DO YOU THINK SHE WANTS ME TO PICK?

2006-12-28 06:09:17 · 25 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

I am beyond p*ssed?
I have 2 female friends that I have known for over 11 years. I also used to date a guy that we all have known for at least 10 years. I broke things off with him because I felt that we would be better friends than anything else. We were very different. Well, the 2 friends of mine called me one day and asked for his number. They said it was because he worked at a club that they go to on a regular basis and they had to ask him something. Well, Sunday night they asked me to go to the same club. I saw him there and we talked for a while but the 2 friends I was with were acting kind of standoffish once we got inside. I kind of put 2 and 2 together and came to the conclusion that one of themslept with the guy I used to date. These girls are okay but I know for a fact that they slept with someone my little sister used to date, they are vultures. I was raised with a conscience. I asked him if he slept with one of them and he got defensive . I would never sleep with their ex..what do you think?

2006-12-28 06:09:17 · 26 answers · asked by vivian M 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you ask them to watch it with you on occassion knowing how bored they are, with the reasoning of doing this being, "Since I love sports so much, I want to share this important aspect with my signifciant other"?

Ladies AND Gentlemen... please respond!

2006-12-28 06:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by WhoamI 1 in Singles & Dating

well u see i have a bf of my own. and well its a long distance realtionships and its realy hard. i mean we barely talk at times and i do care about him. but sometimes epople tell me times he might be chating and i dont know who to believe. i i kno that he cares too. but i ask myself if it will really work out.

2006-12-28 06:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by niñabonita 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she is acting immaturely? There is definitely a line that can't be crossed w/in a relationship, some things that just can't be said but rather must be "uncovered" or realized byt the other person. But she is playing games. I sense her feelings for me are real (and strong, so WTF!), but she won't let them develop. And I am getting pissed off. So, again, how can I tell her? Can I tell her anything?

2006-12-28 06:07:19 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

She wrote that she feels that she's known me for longer and she trusts me. She wrote that she's been single for over 1 year. She's 2-3 years younger. We've never met. We've only been e-mailing each other.

2006-12-28 06:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by sandwreckoner 4 in Singles & Dating

should you give or let a women use your number when she says this. also if she's has your number already, will she call you, if she said she would. somebody said they would call me a week ago and i haven't received the call yet. i would like to know why. i don't have her number. i'm nervous when caling potential girlfriend's.

2006-12-28 06:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Friends

Walking around with your skirt tucked into your undies or
wearing a see-through dress that shows your granny panties

Having a differant lunch period than all your friends or
getting detenton during lunch for three weeks.

Getting busted by a teacher while making out at school or
Getting busted by yours parents while making out on the couch.

walking around with a red upper lip after you've has a wax or
being called out for having a uni-brow

Farting when your doctor is giving you an examination or
farting when your BF tickles you

overflowing the toilet at school or
owerflowing the toilet at your BF house

Failing your driver's test the first time around or
having to drive your mom's minivan to school

Your crush catching you buying granny panties or
your crush catching you buying a training bra

Being grounded on the same night as the party-of-the-year or
being grounded on homecoming night

having toe fungus or
having a rotten tooth.

!!!!!have fun......

2006-12-28 06:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by PINK 3 in Friends

we are planning a wedding not to big just within budget but i want ideas on how to make it porsche without using too much its just for close family and a few close freinds. nid it to be a day to remember pliz help im in the uk.

2006-12-28 06:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by deasha 1 in Weddings

Isn't a Hood Boy responsible for her being a single mother in the first place? Is this the image we want to give young brothers and sisters trying to come up? Shouldn't she want a Good Man instead of a Boy anyway? There is nothing good about being Hood. She of all people should be ashamed of herself for perpetuating the image that you have to be 6'4" and 225. Then she wants you to buy her book talking about how life is not a fairy tale she needs to get real. This is a message to my brothers out there you need to aspire to be more than Hood you need to be Good. And when you met a sister that tries to tell you that you are not Hood-enough you need to leave her alone there is nothing you can do for her. To my sisters out there you don't need a hood to make you feel good - you need a real man that can hold down a job, a man that can hold you down, and hold you up, a man that won't run from responsibility, a man that will respect you and himself. Or you could follow Fantasia's lead

2006-12-28 06:04:35 · 13 answers · asked by ARM 6 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-28 06:04:30 · 32 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Weddings

I hadn't seen or heard from my friend in over a year and all of sudden she started calling me all the time and showing up at my apartment cause she needed a place to stay. Since then, I've allowed her to sleep at my place many times free of charge even though I'm a struggling single mom. Now she has been staying with me for over 2 wks, pays about $50 a wk and buys her own food.

The problem: the studio is not big enough for two adults and a toddler. Some things she does-like being stingy with her food, leaving her things lying around and talking on the phone late at night-gets on my nerves. I told her all this and she says that I'm insecure because she has friends and I don't. I told she should go stay w/ her friends then. The reason I let her stay with me is that I had the impression that she had no where else to go but the girl has relatives and many friends. Now she keeps calling me from work and apologizing for offending me.

2006-12-28 06:04:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am very egoistic person..i am workin in MNC as software engineer...i dont know any work in kitchen..today morning my mom called to kitchen....i helped little but dropped milk....and asked her sorry..and also said i will clean by myself...but she hit me like something...i dont get tensed for hiting me..but she said i wont come up in my life never and i will lose everything wat i have in my life..after hearing this i poured hot milk on her..then also she didnt stop she said i will die in fire...she said that my hubby will send me divorce notice once i get married....am i wrong or she?
my friends are asking me to ask sorry to her...but she had done more good to me in past..only because of her i am in MNC

2006-12-28 06:03:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 06:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 06:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy that im not dating, just seeing sort of, well its the xmas hols and i havent seen him, i literally CANT see him. so anyways i was chatting to my friend and she said she saw him with his brothers and some GIRLS! and they said hi to her.

now im feelin so jealous and i wanna scream and break something and i wanna hit him when i see him! why do i feel like this? hes just a guy, ive got better things to think about but i cant! i like him but my life doesnt revolve around him. and now im listening to depressing songs, it makes me sad but somehow makes me feel better too.

anyway how can i stop myself from getting jealous?

or how can i not think about it? IT DRIVING ME NUTS!!!

2006-12-28 06:03:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend proposed to me the day before Christmas Eve. I said yes, but...let me explain in detail my situation. I'm 33 and he's 35. We've known each other for 6 years, and during that time we've been "on again off again" so to speak. We enjoy each other's company, but I have extreme fears about marrying him. He lives an hour away from me, so I would have to move there. I have a 9 year old daughter also to think about. She would have to switch schools. Not to mention, I am used to living in the city, and he lives in "BFE" (way way way out in the country). I would most likely need to switch jobs. I don't think he understands my anxiety with this issue, even though I've expressed my feelings on this quite often. I don't know what to do. I need serious advice, please. I'm a very independent woman, who's never been married and I've never been one of those girls who fantasized about being married and all that garbage. What should I do?

2006-12-28 06:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by dmh1973 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dear friend got engaged on Christmas Eve and I'd like to get her a Wedding Planner guide/Organizer so she can stay organized during this next year + of planning.

2006-12-28 06:02:25 · 6 answers · asked by niknac 2 in Weddings

two friends of mine spend every spare minute they have on dating and chat sites and often meet up with people from these sites.if i go and visit them im faced with an evening of looking at their backs while they chat away to their virtural friends so i thought why not try it myself,maybe im missing out on something wonderful.so i joined a chat site put my picture and a few details up and got around 60 messages daily from men wanting to meet me,wanting varoius pictures of my body..u know what im saying.well,it wasnt me so i cancelled my account much to my friends disgust and now they think something is wrong with me.am i old fashioned or outdated as they say?if i wanna meet a man id rather go out and meet a man in the flesh and get to know him face 2 face not by staring into my pc 24/7 but they say im silly and to get with the times.may i add im 28 and they are older than me.
please advise.

2006-12-28 06:02:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating