Why do ex-boyfriends become mean after the break-up?

Answer 1

Some will become mean after a break up because they are hiding there hurt. They figure if they can just keep you away it'll be easier for them to try to put you out of there mind. They may also become mean because the two of you were very close and he told you stuff he has never told anyone else. After a break up the level of trust kind of falls and they get really embarrassed when they talk to you, so they figure if they are mean then you will want nothing to do with them and then they wont have to worry about you bringing anything up that embarrasses them.

Answer 2

Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/WNph1

Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.

Answer 3

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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.

Answer 4

Most of the time they get over it after a long time. I broke up wti h this guy named Kameron in 5th grade, and he didn't get over it until 7th grade! Sometimes it is years...sometimes it is months...sometimes it is only a few days! But it really just depends on how bad the guy was hurt, if they like to show emotions, or maybe he really really still likes you. Anyways it really is wierd that ex-b/f do that! See ya L8r ~TAY~

Answer 5

Alot depends on the maturity of the people involved, but most likely it's because they are hurt or otherwise wanting to distance themselves from the relationship. Part striking back, but moreso (I think) showing anyone else observing that the relationship didn't mean that much to them so losing it wasn't really a loss (similar to the child that throws the game board, shouting "it's a stupid game" when they lose).

Answer 6

Both sides turn mean after a break up

Answer 7

It probably isnt that they are trying to be mean, but its that their is awkward tension between u guys, but if the break up was about something like he cheated or something dramatic that lead to the break up the guy may seem very awkward. but if it was a mutual break up like u guys talked about it and decided to part ways, then i dont think it would that awkward but thats just how we are and especially men they tend to seem mean to block out awkward moments.

Answer 8

because they are bitter from the break-up. They go from 0 to a**hole in 60 seconds. And the funny thing is, he probably thinks you'd get back with him after being so mean. Typical male behavior!

Answer 9

Because they are immature and don't know how to deal with the break-up. When this has happened to me, I just kill them with kindness. Remember what you do comes back to you and you shouldn't stoop to the other's level!

Answer 10

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