this guy that im not dating, just seeing sort of, well its the xmas hols and i havent seen him, i literally CANT see him. so anyways i was chatting to my friend and she said she saw him with his brothers and some GIRLS! and they said hi to her.
now im feelin so jealous and i wanna scream and break something and i wanna hit him when i see him! why do i feel like this? hes just a guy, ive got better things to think about but i cant! i like him but my life doesnt revolve around him. and now im listening to depressing songs, it makes me sad but somehow makes me feel better too.
anyway how can i stop myself from getting jealous?
or how can i not think about it? IT DRIVING ME NUTS!!!
2006-12-28 06:03:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax, keep your mind occupied with something other than music. Go out and do something physical. Jealousy is part of human nature. We feel the way we feel we can't help it. You obviously like this guy a lot. So give him a big hug and a kiss when he returns.
2006-12-28 06:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah everyone gets jealous at some point I know wat u mean I just ended a relationship with my ex and now were just friends he tells me about other gurls he talks to and i still get jealous and im not even with him anymore ....well no ur world dont revolve around him jealousy can be a b**** but know that everyone goes through it.....so u may always be jealous theres probably no stopping that but to take ur mind off for one stop listening to depressing music it only makes it worse and just kick it with ur friends maybe u will find some guy friends and make him feel the same way u do well hope this helps.......oh and notice how many people are writing u an answer to ur question because they all have been through this similar problem called jealousy
2006-12-28 06:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you like him then. Probably the best thing I can suggest is to try to concentrate on doing something that will take your mind off him for the time being.
Sitting around getting all worked up over these possible girlfriends of his isn't going to help you much. Neither is listening to depressing music.
Perhaps do something like load up an MP3 player with some dance tunes and go down the gym in the morning to take out your frustration on the treadmill.
2006-12-28 07:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just a little crazy! But I think you need to either tell him how you feel, but mostly likely he is not going to feel that way about you b/c it sounds like the two of you are friends so you might scared him. I think you also rush into things and need to let it flow. Or you could just let him know that you are falling for him and that you might need to step off or see if this is going somewhere. But once again you can still scare him. You have to much time on your hand to worry about this guy. Find something else to do with your time and stop letting stuff like this consume you…
2006-12-28 06:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy to a certain point is natural if you really like someone.
Hitting him is going too far. Can you go out with other nice guys? That will help you to mellow out and not think quite so much about this guy. Also get real busy with friends and other activities. Don't sit around and dwell on this one.
Best of luck.
2006-12-28 06:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is just no way that you are gonna forget about him or get him off your mind if you don't tell him how you feel for that person and then see really if you can't be with him and all, try things out, is not like you have to be with him all the time but then you will see if he is interested in you or not and then and only then you will free your mind of him or be with him. So please for your own sake talk to him and all and see what he feels and everything and see if he likes you and wants to date you and maybe he could be your sweetheart.
2006-12-28 06:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILL! For goodness sake! You aren't even dating! leave the guy alone, you do not own him OK?
Look, this may be hard to hear but if you aren't dating you need to step back and look at yourself, you are getting jealous over nothing. Even if you were dating then you can't stop him from talking to other women. You would just make his life hell and he would dump you without a second thought.
2006-12-28 06:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its like reading my own life story lol. i feel the same at the moment. because i felt the way you feel - you wanna hit him and say all the tings you wanna say - i actually argued with him and said things i shoudn't. now he is not talking to me and ive done something really childish and stupid but i just cant help it. i created this new account on msn pretending to be this imaginative girl. and through her i talk to him. the only problem is that he wants to see me now whether on web cam or out and i cant do that because the girl doesnt exist actually. oh im sry i didnt answer your question but the thing is that you like him and you just got to think how to get him like you too or just move on.
2006-12-28 06:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by vamy189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being funny, but if you had other things going on in your life besides this guy would you be so stuck on him?.....i mean you're not even dating him, and you're getting jealous of him with other people?....hello the way you're behaving is nuts!....get a grip, and dip....get out more and live your life, and stop worrying about this guy soooo much.
2006-12-28 06:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey , dont worry its normal and happens in every ones life.
It means you want him to be missing you after u left him. You try to realize that the world is so big with many of nice persons ,,,many nice things and you dont need to keep on observing some one you left behind. You must not think that he must be sad without u,,, you left him cause of ur personal matter so think good, wish him good things and wish good for urself, try to be happy and see all happy
2006-12-28 06:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Prakash_PM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋