I think she is acting immaturely? There is definitely a line that can't be crossed w/in a relationship, some things that just can't be said but rather must be "uncovered" or realized byt the other person. But she is playing games. I sense her feelings for me are real (and strong, so WTF!), but she won't let them develop. And I am getting pissed off. So, again, how can I tell her? Can I tell her anything?
2006-12-28 06:07:19 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been nothing but kind and patient with her so far, and all it has accomplished is letting her distance herself more from me. She tried hard, it worked well, so she has to end it??? I just don't understand.
2006-12-28 06:13:40 · update #1
i think you should tell her. If you have feelings for her and she feels the same in return, then there should be none of this "sparing her feelings" crap. Her immaturity is only going take a toll on the relationship and as long as your issue with it is kept bottled up inside, it is just gonna make the outcome worse when you finally do tell her; which could be just one big blow up. I learned the hard way, never telling my ex that he was being an inconsiderate jerk. Then when i had finally had enough, he thought it was coming out of no where when in actuality it had been months of adverse feelings toward him. tell her now. if she doesnt understand, then maybe she is more immature than you thought.
2006-12-28 06:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by SWTCHKS925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I have the exact same problem. I guess you should hint her that you are going to keep on looking for greener pastures. Maybe that will get her jealous and kick start the relationship.
2006-12-28 14:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by gboptions1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋