I am beyond p*ssed?
I have 2 female friends that I have known for over 11 years. I also used to date a guy that we all have known for at least 10 years. I broke things off with him because I felt that we would be better friends than anything else. We were very different. Well, the 2 friends of mine called me one day and asked for his number. They said it was because he worked at a club that they go to on a regular basis and they had to ask him something. Well, Sunday night they asked me to go to the same club. I saw him there and we talked for a while but the 2 friends I was with were acting kind of standoffish once we got inside. I kind of put 2 and 2 together and came to the conclusion that one of themslept with the guy I used to date. These girls are okay but I know for a fact that they slept with someone my little sister used to date, they are vultures. I was raised with a conscience. I asked him if he slept with one of them and he got defensive . I would never sleep with their ex..what do you think?
2006-12-28 06:09:17 · 26 answers · asked by vivian M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to add this...I never used him, he just wasnt motivated or goal-driven enough for me. The females I know, I havent hung out with or talked to them in a while. We havent been out together in over 3 years. When we did go out they were always the females that guys turn down for whatever reason. They would get mad at me and my sister if we got too much attention so I stopped hanging out with them as much. To me its the principal... I broke things off with him years ago but we still remained friends. I guess this is too hard for people to understand why I am p*ssed.
2006-12-28 06:20:28 · update #1
I think you need new friends. I honestly don't have but a couple of female friends, because more then one has done the same to me, and I can't trust a women who would do that kind of thing, because after a while, they will start to do it while you are still dating (if they haven't already). As for the guy...don't get back with him, which ever one he slept with, he might do it again...while you're still dating!
2006-12-28 06:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You put 2 n 2 together so you don't know for sure first find out then ask why they would do something like that friends don't cross that line if they are truly your friends sorry to say but your friends are messed up get some new ones
2006-12-28 06:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Eyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooo girl, you have some coniving "friends". First off I do not think that is right for a "friend" to sleep with an ex, that or marrying (which happened to me...sigh) is wrong. If your ex got defensive, a guilt-trip may be the reason.
I wish to know how old you and your friends are because it sounds to me like they need to grow up or a reality check.
2006-12-28 06:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by no 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you first of all, you need to stop calling them your friends. They sound like some rats from around the way. Life is too short to be around people that would do you like that. Birds of feather flock together and if you're not like that, then them hoes need to fly elsewhere. As for him a man is gone be a man and if they put themselves out there like that, he just took the bate. Get some good people in your circle, and call it a day. YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN, SO LEARN FROM THIS.
2006-12-28 06:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Miyla82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters how long you are friends with someone, some people are just @ss holes. I would be extremely mad at both of them, it does take two. Now you have to ask yourself is it worth losing a friend over or can you over look it? If it was me, it would be hard for me to over look it.
2006-12-28 06:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of them have any respect for you,how dare she asked you for his number.break the friendship with those two, one day you will find your soul mate and you will always have to watch them!even if it's an ex, you still owe respect especially after being friends for so long. Move on baby girl!! you deserve better treatment from your friends.
2006-12-28 06:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making a mountain out of a mole hill. You are making assumptions and jumping to conclusions. If you thought they were vultures, why did you give them his number - you could have said you didn't have it anymore (even if it was a lie). Maybe you need some new friends because it is very obvious you don't trust them.
2006-12-28 06:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought that was one of the unwritten rules you women have. "Thall shall not sleep with your friends ex"
I would talk to the 2 friends first and see what the deal is.
If they did it before, they just might do it again. People tend to follow a pattern of behavior.
2006-12-28 06:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly can understand why you are feeling betrayed. But, the fact is, you and this man are no longer a couple. He is free to do as he wishes. Maybe your friend should have used a little discipline, but is it worth losing a friendship over?
2006-12-28 06:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u live together? then its really easy. just buy some nice cute gift and keep on her table also write "I'm sorry" or "I'm at ur service" or any such cheesy line.. when she reads it and opens the gift, suddenly hug her tight frm behind and start kissing hard on her cheek.. dont leave her. kiss kiss kiss. she will really become happy. it works for my friend who had such a similar situation. Have a Kissy night! cheers
2016-03-28 22:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋