how do i earn his trust bak!!!!?

Question

ok so me n my ex have been talkin again. we love each other very much n we are basically together without the title. but hte thing is i broke his trust when we were going out because i lied bout stupid things to get his attention. n i dont think he trusts me anymore. but then y does he act like my bf n he always says that he loves me. i love him n i want him to trust me again. i have grown from that previous person i used to be. how do i earn his trust bak??

Answer 1

It takes years to build trust and seconds to loose it. Once lost never to regain.

Answer 2

This takes time, my gf did almost the exact same thing for years and I Finlay realized that I did not trust what she was saying anymore and always questioned her stories but after I told her how I felt and that the trust could not be re-earned she really made some changes and our relationship has gotten allot better.

It took close to a year before I stopped questing everything she said and every once in a while I think about it but try not to dwell on it.

their is no straight answer for this one but you really have to put in the effort to be 100% trustworthy even if that means hurting his feelings or saying something you think might offend him because those things he can get over quickly and when he does he will realize at least you were being honest. It's not something that will go away on it's own you both need to work on it.

Good luck and if you are truly changed and love is truly their you will get threw this.

Answer 3

His trusting you will probably take time and it also depends upon what you told tales about. Lying in a relationship is hard to get past.
It would matter as he does not know if you will do it again. Or if you are still doing it.
He has to gain trust in you. You have to find out when he will forgive you. And allow you to be a couple again.
Talk and discuss what you feel as well as what he is feeling.
Be close with each other.

Answer 4

I don't think that there is anything to do to gain his trust other than be there for him, be truthful and wait it out. Time is a great thing and I'm sure that with a little bit more time you'll both move on from past mistakes and into a better, more truthful, future.

Answer 5

i think u will noe the way. jst do the normal thing u will do as a couple. no more no less. by doing it naturally the trust of ur bf will come bak naturally. i wish u all the best

Answer 6

Just always be honest with him and over time he will trust you again. just know this that once trust is broken it takes a long time to get it back. You're very lucky to get another chance to prove yourself! Good luck.

Answer 7

Talk with him. Let him know how you are feeling and hopefully this will put things to where they belong - in the past. Inform him of how sorry you are for misleading him and make a solemn vow to never repeat this behaviour and let him know that you need his trust. Best of luck.

Answer 8

If you guys are going to start a new relationship together the just start out with the truth about everything !! But in the end it just takes time.

Answer 9

Just contiune to be there and show him that you were sorry you did that and you want him to trust you again. It'll proably take him sometime but if you keep being there and the best thing you shouldn't do is don't do it again. Maybe he'll trust you again just keep showing him you were sorry.

Answer 10

You need to sit down and talk to him about your relationship and where it is going. If he is still there then maybe the trust has never left. of her is just waiting for the moment of payback.