WELL AB0UT 6 MOTH. AG0 MY B0YFRIENDS M0M C0NFESS ME THT SHE WAS SEEN AN0THER GUY THT WASNT HER HUSBAND. SHE T0LD ME CRYING THT SHE WAS WITH THIS MAN AT A PARK N THIS 2 GUYS ST0LED HER WATCH N HIS WALLET THE NEXT DAY WAS WHEN SHE T0LD ME N SHE WAS CRYING I ASKED WHY WAS SHE WITH THIS MAN AT NIGHT CAUSE THIS HAPPEND LIKE AR0UND 9:30PM. N SHE T0LD ME T0 D0NT SAY ANYTHING THT THEY WERE JUST TAKLING.WELL I'VE BEEN WITH MY B0YFRIEND F0R 1 YR N 9 M0. S0 WE ALWAYS TALK AB0UT EVERYTHING I TH0UGHT AB0UT TELLING HIM WAT HIS M0M HAS T0LD ME BUT I THINK HE HAD T0 KN0W S0 I T0LD HIM.N0W ITS BEEN 6 M0. N WE HAVE BEEN N0TICING THT SHE C0MES LATE FR0M W0RK WITH "MESSY HAIR" N SHE G0ES 0UT 0FTEN WITH HER "FRIENDS".THE 0THER DAY SHE WAS TELLING ME THT HER HUSBAND HAS THE MEN0PAUSE N THT SHE NEED "SEX".WICH HER HUSBAND IS N0T GIVING HER N SHE T0LD ME THT SHE HAS FRIENDS 2 HELP HER WITH THT BUT SHE DIDNT SAW MY B0YFRIEND S0 HE HEARD EVERYTHING.S0 N0W WE D0NT KN0W WAT 2 D0 SH0ULD WE TELL MY B0YFRIENDS DAD?
2006-12-28 06:19:09 · 21 answers · asked by VereNice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont mean to be rude but i dont think this is any of your business, stay out of it, a marriage is between 2 people, however if her husband is your boyfriends dad, i think your boyfriend can intervene, not you.
2006-12-28 06:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all if she is doing it maybe becos she is not satisfied with her hubby secondly see gurl his mother was sharing some pain with you u were not supposed to say each and everything to her SON for god sake he is her son and he has another feeling about it he is a guy do u know what if he couldn't take such a things like that and he would have done something so stupid ....and besides she asked u not to tell any body she considered u as some one who could understand her what if she lied and it is a plan btwn her n her son to take check outta u? stay outtavet for god sake...
2006-12-28 06:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend should discuss it with his mom. No offense, but maybe it would be best if you stayed out of an uncomfortable family situation like that. Your boyfriend should go about it in a non-offensive way, not by directly asking her if she's cheating, but by asking her if she's happy with her life and leading up to the subject. Don't worry too much, it'll all work out.
2006-12-28 06:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think you should make the decision. You told your boyfriend and that was enough. Then he heard it for him self. Now you can step out of it. Let your boyfriend decide if he should go to his father with this, and you support him with whatever he decides. His mother was wrong for sharing that information with you, because that places you in an awkward situation. But YOU should try your best NOT to get involved, and only be your boyfriends support. And if knowing that information bothers you, advise his mother to stop sharing that type of information with you because it makes you uncomfortable.
2006-12-28 06:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Queryous 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should tell the mom to confess to her husband. Then, if she refuses, tell the dad. There are meds available to correct impotence. How would she feel if when she gets menopause if he cheats on her.
2006-12-28 06:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your boyfriend's choice whether or not he thinks he should tell his dad. His dad has every right to know if his wife is cheating on him, but you should not get yourself involved because you are only the son's girlfriend... that doesn't make you family.
2006-12-28 06:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend's dad should definitley know. If I was married, I wouldn't care how badly I wanted sex, I would never cheat. I would never do anything to hurt my husband.
2006-12-28 06:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by The Chemical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't tell him. Let his mom know that you appreciate her friendship but that you can't be involved in other relationships. Does your boyfriend know about this too? Let him mention it to his dad. You should keep out of it as much as possible.
2006-12-28 06:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! I think you should tell your boyfriends dad if you dont he will be heart broken when finds out you tell him when isnt there and explain it to him . Good luck hope he believes you. You and your boyfriend should tell him.
2006-12-28 06:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by hotness450 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2006-12-28 06:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by questionmarkguy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋