My hubby works with a woman who is constantly making excuses to go into his office and call him at home. She flirts with everyone in the office...what can I do?
2006-12-28 06:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let her know that she is not welcome to call anytime after 5:00pm. As for going into his office - only your husband can control that. But you can make your presence known and surprise him at work for a lunch date. give him a great picture of you framed for his office. Drop off cookies for the other guys in the office....good luck she sounds like a pain!
Trust you instincts - and watch out for "mention - itis" If he is mentioning her and "bringing up" her annoying habits on a regular basis he may be flattered by her attention. I'd nip that in the bud!
2006-12-28 06:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she flirts with everyone in the office, I wouldn't worry too much. But calling at home would bug both my spouse and me, especially if one of us had never met this person. Make sure if your hubby has a ring that he is always wearing it and the next time she calls, I suggest you ask your husband to politely and non-accusatorily remind her how he loves you with all his heart and is very happily married.
2006-12-30 02:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by THe VaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this if it happens at work. If your husband has told you, he must be interested in her as well. "She flirts with everyone in the office" is a cover-up. Danger. Danger.
2006-12-28 14:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know that she flirts with everyone then he is making excuses for her cause something must be going on. I would check on that one
2006-12-28 14:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your husband you don't have to do anything. If she calls your house and you answer, tell her not to call there and that he can deal with whatever he needs to on his next work day. Sounds like she has no self esteem if she is falling all over everyone....
2006-12-28 14:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by thoughts_in_a_blender 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get more involved But remain very friendly. If she is too interested in gaining his attention she is trying to seduce him. Let her know who is his leading lady. She'll back off.... of him at least.
2006-12-28 14:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Dear,
Don't even worry your husband loves you! These women can sleep with anybody and your husband knows that, he probably doesn't even pay attention to her and you shouldn't either. You'll only make yourself miserable. Be strong and just ignore her and believe me when she sees that you are not threatened by her she will stop.
2006-12-28 14:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by babybuds 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
invite her over and ask her if she want's a threesome with her and him.if she say's yes then you now.You can either go through with it and enjoy it by trying to be bisexuale or be a nage and tell your husband you don't want her working with him..
2006-12-28 14:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋