I've known this person for about five months but we just started a relationship three weeks ago. He is younger than me but legal and lives with parents. He told me they wouldn't approve of him being with me so we kept it on the low. He calls me mainly and I use caller id block whenever I call the house or his cell. He was careless and saved my number in his cell and didn't delete his call log each time. A couple of days last week, I picked him up and we hung out without getting caught. However, the last day we stayed away to long and his dad was leaving the house just as I was dropping him off at the corner of his street and caught us together. His dad took his phone and saw my numbers and all the times we have talked. Later that night his dad called me but I didn't respond. He told them nothing happened between us and we were just friends so they let it go and told him not to have any contact with me. He has been calling me anyway. I told him not to call from home b/c I get paranoid.
2006-12-28 06:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We still want to be together. For the past few days I have been trying to end things to keeps both of us out of trouble but he doesn't want to let me go and I don't want to hurt him. However, I don't want his parents to catch him talking to me or them trying to have me arrested or something. His dad works for the police dept. Does anyone have any advice on how we can continue without his parents finding out? Or should I just let him go?
2006-12-28 06:21:53 · update #1
He is 18 and I'm 24.
2006-12-28 06:29:06 · update #2
How old are you? When the difference in age is very notorious is very hard. IF you are having sex with him it will be harder to keep down low. my advice: if you love him and he loves you be honest or his parents in the long run will discovr it and hate u forever
2006-12-28 06:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how old is he and how old are you ? you said he's legal so there should not be a problem with his parents and if it is just b/c he lives with them then he should be a man and get his own crib or move in with you but your first mistake is dropping him off on the block (you never was a sneaky girl were you ?) Drop him off a couple of blocks away or pay for a cab if he comes in a cab who knows where he could be coming from make sure the cab is not a cab from your area b/c his parents will know from the name on the cab drive him half way home and tell him to take a cab the rest of the way
2006-12-28 06:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having fun and you like being with him and he is actually of legal age then keep it going for now...but you should know that it won't be anything more then just what you have now...and that there is no future for you guys
2006-12-28 06:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get caught on purpose. That way...you would actually know whether or not they would approve of you. If they don't...then continue sneaking around since you've been doing it anyways. Maybe they will approve and you don't have to sneak anymore. What do you have to lose?
2006-12-28 06:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the real question is: If he is younger than you but "legal" why would his parents forbid you to see him? It makes no sense.
2006-12-28 06:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋