Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

I went out with this guy that I been friend with him for a year now. He has a lot of goals in life and he going to school has one more year. But the thing is he is my friend. And I went to the movies as friends and then we when out to eat. He started saying how this is considered a date. And at the end of the night he kissed me. The thing is I like him but he is younger then I and we are friends. And I don’t want to break that friendship, but I do like him and we have a lot in conmen. The question is this should I continue the romantic part of it or just stay friends.

2006-12-27 02:22:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:22:04 · 16 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-27 02:21:06 · 10 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:20:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:19:04 · 5 answers · asked by On It 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:18:44 · 38 answers · asked by lady in pink 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 years old and very close with my family. I moved out of my parents' house when I was 19, but just moved back in a year ago. I live in the country in a quiet, boring little town...and I absolutely hate the cold weather!! I've always dreamed about living somewhere nice and warm near the ocean. Due to my recent quarter life crisis, guys, too much hard partying, alway depressed...I really feel like I need to find myself. I would love to move somewhere and start fresh, but I don't want to leave my family!! I can't imagine not having them there and not being able to be there for my 13 year old brother! I'm worried I'm going to kick myself forever if I don't go out and try to start a life of my own by the ocean!!

2006-12-27 02:18:18 · 19 answers · asked by geminiqtpie22 5 in Family

it's partially my fault for some reason. (it might sound weird but i think it's because it had to do something with when i told her i liked someone else even though i liked her) i want to be friends with her again so what should i do?

2006-12-27 02:17:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how like or unlike your parents are you? Are you intentionally or unintentionally imitating them in your life? And if yes , how so?

2006-12-27 02:16:21 · 6 answers · asked by On It 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend seems frustrated cuz I didnt tell him I spoke to my ex (kids father) yesterday. It wasnt on my mind, and in the evening he looked at my cell phone and saw his number. So I told him I must have redialed it from when he talked to his daughter on xmas. my ex called me later at work and asked why I called, He said he could hear us in the background. So I accendeintly called him int he morning and he called me back a few hours later to see how come - which it was a mistake that I redialed. Anyways, yesterday my boyfriend and I spent alot of the day in alittle arguument and it wasnt on my mind to tell him, and I dont see why I should have to remember every little thing to tell him! What could I say to my boyfriend about this? He is thinking that I was gonna hide it or just not tell him about it, but its just not on my mind the.

2006-12-27 02:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sad to say, im bored with him..
and i dont think he enjoys my company.
so..i want to break up with him.

ANY SUGGESTIONS?
HELP!

2006-12-27 02:15:37 · 22 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f cheated on me before about 2 years ago and when I found out he still continued to cheat on me with her. Then he finially stopped and now I just found out again that he has been texting her and they have been talking on the phone. He says that he didnt see her and he wasnt talking to her like that. She works at a temp agency and he is trying to get a job from them. So he tells me that he is talking to her just to get a job and just talking about how they have been. I dont know what to think. He knows I found out about them talking again he says he is done talking to her but like before I dont know if he is lying or not because he said he was done before but he didnt stop. So I dont know what to think I dont know if I should believe him or not. Do you think that he is still seeing her or do you think he is just trying to get a job. He siad before this happen again that he doesnt want to mess up again and that he wants to be with me so I dont know if he is lying again or not??

2006-12-27 02:15:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or just provide incentives?

2006-12-27 02:14:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by tarheel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 02:13:58 · 19 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

is it bad to be lonely? what if there's no one to ask me out, i know i'm a bit young to think this, i know i'm pretty, why does no one like me?

2006-12-27 02:13:50 · 9 answers · asked by danielle t 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion on this? My father feels as if I am a "guest" in his house and should ask when I want some food or something to drink. I find this appalling. Yes, I agree that I no longer live under his roof but his home will always be "home" to me. I think that it is almost degrading that makes me feel this way. This was a rule in the house that all of us children observed growing up and I can understand that because we would have eaten them out of the house but I am an adult now. When my children come to my house, I do not make them ask for anything. What is mine is theirs and they can have anything they want! Please share your thoughts and views. Thanks.

2006-12-27 02:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lt 5 in Family

so the other day right b4 high svhool let out for christmas, i was in the weight room with a couple football players. well we were working out and all that and wen we finished we all took showers. so wen we got out and i wasnt dress yet, one of my friends(black dude) comes up behind me and ,just playin, acts like hes gonnas **** me. however, he accidently slips and his penis actually went in my butt. i punched him right in he jaw. but still, im really pissed and alot of ppl at school know bout it. and likeeveryone is laughing bout it. how can i get it to just end?

2006-12-27 02:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-27 02:13:04 · 14 answers · asked by raindrops 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy that has the same last name as mind but we are not related. I check the family tree. So would you still date him/her?

2006-12-27 02:12:44 · 34 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

now I am feeling like "i was used for my intelligence and business sense". He has been divorced twice and has two wonderful boys, so I did not hold this against him. We have know each other for 1 year as friends, I never thought he was a "user", "manipulator", etc. How do I stop this pain, and still remain a "good christian woman".

2006-12-27 02:12:15 · 3 answers · asked by angel_fire_21499 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 02:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by prettynsexy 1 in Singles & Dating

the problem is who to ask and how to tell the wife!!!!

Can you suggest what to do????

2006-12-27 02:11:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Things did click into place and then for some reason in the space of three months it all went sour and now its over with. My question is what if it was meant to be and it all clicked into place, but just a change of heart on one side ended it why couldnt that click into plalce also? Ive never had ANY other relationship like that and i doubt i will ever again. I've been in a lot on long term ones and we always had to work to get over petty problems. When it was over with the others i was hurt you know, and eventually got over them and realized it wasnt meant to be. But not this one. I knew because of my experience that it was as perfect as anything until she stopped caring at all. How can one person know it's perfect, but the other not even see it? She is young, probably too young with barely any relationship experience.

2006-12-27 02:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by virgil_fre_wld 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (who I live with) struggles with money his budgeting skills aren't the best. I often gave him money to help him out which I rarely made him pay back. But I found myself getting really angry when I noticed he always made sure he had enough money for a night out with his mates even. It made me realise I was his safety net so he still wasn't learning to budget.

Recently I decided to stop doing this and to tell him I didn't have any money either. I put any spare money I have into a savings account that he can't access. However, his car needs a service and he hasn't got any money to pay for it. I could easily pay for it for him. I feel guilty seeing him struggle when I have the money there but at the same time I feel angry when he goes for expensive nights out or wastes money that I’ve given him. I don't know what is right or wrong - just looking for advice!

2006-12-27 02:10:13 · 34 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A new friend who i've hung out wit quite a bit now, just drives mainly.. who's 21.. has told me im more than welcome over his place next yr when his parents r away.. after a msging session when i was upset & drinkin by myself.. he said his parents wont mind.. he said we could do wateva i wanted, stay over or wateva, its up 2 me.. as long as im comfortable.. he's real nice 2 me & he's told me he likes me & misses me all the time.. he thinks he's not like other guys (i've heard that before too) but he thinks he is coz he was brought up differently with his dad & his dad's male partner... he's told me he likes me a lot & likes the friendship, but isn't after a relationship just yet since his last relationship ended pretty bad a few months ago..... im not sure if i should i go? we're really good mates at the moment, texting all the time, chatting online... he hasnt made ne moves other than cuddling, but he's not shy tho i am. ive told him im a virgin & he said i should wait 4 the 1 i love

2006-12-27 02:09:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for almost a year. I love him to death, and sometimes i know he loves me too, but sometimes he acts like he just doesn't care. When we're good he's the sweetest thing ever. But when he's mad ( most of the time) he screams , he calls me names, he says mean things, and he ALWAYS says he's right , no matter how wrong he is. I keep on telling him to change, he just won't . I don't know what to do to get through him, i don't want to lose him, but i don't want t o keep on being treated like crap.

2006-12-27 02:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know how to get a divorce in Michigan and how to make it quick? We were only married for one month. We don't have any children (thank god), and we don't own anything together. I live with him in his condo.

Please help...I am so unhappy. :-(

2006-12-27 02:07:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love my boyfriend so much we have been together for six months now. he is older than i am but that doest matter the thing is i didnt get him a present but he did actually am not so good with presents and those kind of stuff i had told him that and he like he understood but after he talked to his mum he is complaining and saying i dont think about him and i dont appreciate him but that is not true at all i was with him the whole of xmass time.so is it that bad not to give a present please help???

2006-12-27 02:06:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he can truly treat a woman right. let me say this i know there are some good guys that are in there early twenties but they still get distracted, whats the best age for a man to settle with a woman and truly appreciate her?

2006-12-27 02:06:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships