he can truly treat a woman right. let me say this i know there are some good guys that are in there early twenties but they still get distracted, whats the best age for a man to settle with a woman and truly appreciate her?
2006-12-27 02:06:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Any age.....they should treat you right from the start!!!!
Guys usually mellow out in their 30's tho....if he lays a hand on you, physically abuses you and cheats on you...leave as soon as you can! You deserve much, much better!
2006-12-27 02:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Peter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His ages shouldn't matter - his maturity is the real factor. Home life and upbringing are huge factors to this.
I've known guys who, from a young age helped raise a baby niece or sister and by 22 they had both the appreciation and understanding to, not only treat a woman right, but also a child - making them ideal for any relationship. And I knew a guy who was 35, married and had a kid, but still acted like a 22 year old frat boy without a care or commitment in the world.
Age itself is not a real factor, each person has to be judged on his own and for his own merits. That's what dating is all about and also why they say you can't judge a book by its cover.
2006-12-27 10:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bard Noir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has nothing to do with it, it is all about maturity, There are very, very few mature 20 year olds I had a conversation with a female co worker this morning at work over coffee She is 40 and “still” looking for a guy that is loving and caring and in line with your questions. Unfortunately the loving caring ones are not the cool guy’s most woman are attracted to. They are the quiet shy ones that stay in the back ground and avoid the spot light. Look and see who your friends think is hot and who is not then get to know a few of the “NOT” hot ones you will be very surprised at what you find. If your friends tease you about it then maybe you need to look at who your hanging with. A bar tender once coined the comment that woman want to date Ferraris but marry Buicks You need to date a Buick and watch him turn into a Ferrari.
2006-12-27 10:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by s_kuczynski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the typical age for a man to have gone through relationships, learned from his mistakes, improved on who he is as a person/partner/lover, and who is ready for something more solid in a relationship is about 30. Guys in their early twenties are not ready. They still have a lot to learn and are growing up. But keep in mind that maturity is relative. It varies from one to the other. In some cases, the guy may need to be 35 to be mature while another guy matured very fast around 28. So it does depend. But, if you look at the most common facts in our society today, the age of 30 is about right. I will say that it sounds like you have gone through your share of unsuccessful relationships. So, in th is case, it depends on your definition of "appreciation" and "maturity" as well. If you are looking for a man who is perfect then you might as well stop looking because nobody is perfect in this world.
2006-12-27 10:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magical age that men AND women all of the sudden become mature. It's the individual, not the age. Are you sure you are mature enough to be in a relationship where the two people truly appreciate each other? Just asking since your sole concern was the man appreciating the woman....is usually a telltale sign of immaturity being one sided.
2006-12-27 10:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the person. Some men are very mature while still being in their twenties. It is up to you to show yourself in a good light in order to attract the kinds of men that respect women. This is done by respecting your own body because men can tell when a women doesn't.
2006-12-27 10:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by skater60016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men mature slower than women, and some of them never manage to mature throughout their lifetime. When a man has educated himself and holds a responsible job and is responsible himself, I would say that that man is mature enough to treat and respect a woman the right way.
2006-12-27 10:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the man.
I was in a long term relationship and now it's over.
settling down happens when it happens. it could be from the age of 17 to 102.
also I would not be too quick to judge men alone in this many females are just as bad
2006-12-27 10:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to that varies with every single man. I have seen some younger guys (20's) who had the maturity and responsiblity that other guys (40's and 50's) don't and I don't think particular ones will ever have.
2006-12-27 10:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has absolutely nothing to do with age. It has everything to do with maturity. There are 18-year-old men out there that are ready right now for a permanent and meaningful relationship. There are 55-year-olds out there that are not and never will be.
2006-12-27 10:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋