Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

my ex boyfriend of five years broke up with me!!! now he is dating this 18 year old girl and he is 34!!! she has the mind capacity of a 15 year old girl!! do you think this is grosss?

2006-12-27 02:38:41 · 15 answers · asked by brokefoot_2003 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend of almost 7 years have been talking about getting engaged recently. He said that when he proposes that he is going to give me his deceased mothers engagement ring because that is what his dad always wanted him to do. I haven't seen the ring, but I know that its yellow gold and has about 9 small diamonds. The only problem is that I hate yellow gold and prefer a simple white gold ring. So, should I just be happy that he wants to marry me and just be happy with the ring or does the ring really matter? Please help.

2006-12-27 02:37:59 · 36 answers · asked by Jasmin V 1 in Weddings

We all know the famous 'hair gel' scene from "There's Something About Mary".

If someone you were going out on a date with had, let's say, a piece of fuzz in their hair or a small booger hanging from their nose...would you point it out? Or save them embarrassment and just try not to look?

2006-12-27 02:36:45 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend taylor's dad is an asshole by nature and, recently said that i was a bad influence on her, and that she cant talk to me any more, but she does anyway. the man grounds her for the dumbest reasons and wont let her go anywhere and she is 16, the girl isn't even alowed to use the phone yet.(i know)
so now, me and her are restricted to school only.
it really sux
help me!
give me any advice please!!!

2006-12-27 02:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-27 02:36:05 · 14 answers · asked by sexy 2 in Weddings

I am renting a very nice 1 Bedroom appartment, my BF of 1 year lives with me there. However I pay all the bills ( I already know so save it) on christmas eve he decided to invite his 2 sisters (15 & 18)to stay with us (I have no clue for how long I wasnt asked) so we ALL slept in our queen size bed ( just moved in not much furniture yet) no prob...so when I got home last night my appartment looked a hot a** mess, they just left everything everywhere, didn't pick up nothing after themselves, matter of fact I felt like they been there for month the way all of their belongings were scattered over my place especially the bathroom & then one of the three stole my neighbours ProActive, I of course packed it back up & am returning it after work! So I told my BF that he needs to talk to his sisters because I feel that they should respect my place & honor it since they are visiting. & then they didnt get home till like 3 a.m. & my BF wanted some sex & I said NO! Am I wrong for beeing mad?

2006-12-27 02:34:23 · 14 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family

2006-12-27 02:34:18 · 21 answers · asked by nellie1362 2 in Weddings

i told her i liked her and even now i like her. i'm not totaly sure but i dont thing she wants a commited relationship.
there's a chance that i might move back to the west coast next year and i when i do, i want to start a bf and gf relationship with her. what should i do?

2006-12-27 02:33:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out my husband of 6 years has been cheating on me for the past year with another woman. I love him deeply and am feeling very hurt right now. However, I'm confused on what I should do. I keep repeating the scence of how it happened in my head and that's all I can think about. I don't know what to do about it. He wants me to take him back and he promises it won't happen and he wants our marriage to work. If he wanted that then why did he do this in the first place? I felt like he was blaming me for it. He said he did it becasue I had pictures of other guys and their phone numbers in my phone. Well, I have two that are from work and only for work purposes only. However, he has tons of girls in his phone book on his phone. I love him and am very confused right now and I guess I'm looking for some advice and maybe some encouraging words. I don't know what I did wrong for him to hurt me like this. Can anyone help me out?

2006-12-27 02:32:49 · 10 answers · asked by sarita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've hung out quite a bit now.. (he's 21 & i'm 19) has told me im more than welcome over his place next yr when his parents r away.. after a msging session when i was upset & drinkin by myself he said his parents wont mind.. he said we could do wateva i wanted, stay over or wateva, its up 2 me.. as long as im comfortable. he's real nice 2 me & he's told me he likes me & misses me all the time.. he thinks he's not like other guys (i've heard that before too) but he thinks he is coz he was brought up differently with his dad & his dad's male partner. he's definately not gay by the way. he's told me he likes me a lot & likes the friendship, but isn't after a relationship just yet since his last relationship ended pretty bad a few months ago.. im not sure if i should i go? we're really good mates at the moment, texting all the time, chatting online. he hasnt made ne moves otha than cuddling.. ive told him im a virgin & he said he'd never screw round wit me, i should wait 4 the 1 i love

2006-12-27 02:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby and I have been married for 2 years. Prior to that, I was single for 2 years, and prior to that married for almost 5 years to another man.

Our sex life was absolutely amazing while we were dating. We both were very comfortable and open with each other, and very active with each other. I mean, really great.

After moving in together, it just sort of fizzled out. I went through a phase, and I think it had a lot to do with my birth control pill at the time. But now, he is totally uninterested too.

Is there something wrong with us? We are both of the theory that sex isn't everything, and that love and trust and friendship is what makes a good, long term marriage. But sex is something, and I am starting to feel like something is really wrong here.

2006-12-27 02:31:41 · 19 answers · asked by nottashygirl 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When someone has hurt you, have you ever felt like doing something to get back at them. I mean, I know two wrongs don't make it right, but sometimes doesn't it make you feel better to know that you've hurt them in some kind of way or taken away something that was important to them. Be honest, if so, what did you do?

2006-12-27 02:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:31:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has done drugs all my life(Im 30) He has become a serious meth addict for the last 10 years. He has destroyed all his relationships except my moms and has fixed the one with my sister. Her & my mother have gone back to school & are now supporting him. They now all live 2gether to help him. He is sober right nowbut this is what he does. Gets sober & then relapse between 6monthes to 2years. When he realpses he takes everyone that is around down with him financially & emotionally. This last time I was married & he ripped us off, told me Im the worst mother(3 kids that adore him), then tried to WRONGLY accused me & my husband of having SEX with my children all becuse we wouldnt $support$ him & bailed out on his most recent go around! Well now he is sober and is trying to pry his way in my life again, through my aunt, mother, sister & her hubby & tryng to see my kids. He is very manipulative & makes evey1 feel sorry for him. Am I wrong to keep my kids away from him & my mom & sister?

2006-12-27 02:31:18 · 3 answers · asked by Megz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its nothing serious - and i know i shouldnt worry about it, but dont you just hate it when you cant prove your right?

2006-12-27 02:31:18 · 23 answers · asked by beachnut222000 4 in Singles & Dating

few weeks back, my girlfriend broke up with me. reason being, she told me that i was treating her more like a close friend than a girlfriend. it's true actually. whenever we go out, i wouldn't hold her hands, hug her, and other stuff that couples do. how do i overcome my fear of being shy near girls? help pls.

2006-12-27 02:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by archpunk 1 in Singles & Dating

She really wants it to work out between them. I think that the person who cheated on her doesn't deserve my best friend. I've told her many times that he doesn't deserve her. What do I do?

2006-12-27 02:30:46 · 8 answers · asked by liike w♥w <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I am starting to plan for my sister's wedding that will take place in August 2007. Know any nice halls ($40-60 per person) that allows indian food?

2006-12-27 02:29:34 · 2 answers · asked by nina3vedi@sbcglobal.net 2 in Weddings

2006-12-27 02:29:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-27 02:28:43 · 26 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been dating for 3 1/2 years and are getting engaged soon. back during the first years, i mentioned something to him about disliking a certian movie because i had seen with my ex and he had paid attention to only the movie during the 1st date. I am so over that 5 years ago date with my ex, but recently my current bf has been bring that event into converstations and is doing so often. I don't know why? why does he like teasing me about that movie (ice age) and why is he doing it years after i first told him about it?

2006-12-27 02:28:17 · 19 answers · asked by gogirl0283 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of this?
I have a crush on a guy friend of mine, whom I see at work everyday. I have suggested to him that we stop talking altogether so I can get over him. What do you think of this?

2006-12-27 02:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Tamara's Mom will not let her hang out with me anymore. They are very religious and her mom thinks I am a bad influence, disrespectful and I dress "suggestively". I stayed with them for 6 weeks here in Tx earlier this Fall when my Dad was in the Middle East on business. Her Mom and I did not get along too well. In fact, she even whooped me on the butt with a folded belt (hurts and embarrasing!) twice because she was like I am disrespectful of adults and because I got in trouble at school again. I called the police after the 2nd time and they were like I deserved it and they told me to "shut up hang up and then grow up" (taxpayers should be outraged!) I complained to my Dad and he was like I should be ashamed and he grounded me 7 weeks and I just got ungrounded.

I miss my friend Tamara. I told her to put her Mom on the phone but she refused to talk to me. Should I just give up on this? I see her at school still but we just aren't allowed to go to the mall and stuff.

2006-12-27 02:27:01 · 8 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Family

Being happily married for two years however my wife confessed to me about 6 months ago she had an affair lasting about two years with her boss which happened 4 years ago. I now feel diiferent towards her and don't realy trust her as she may again see him again. The old saying once a cheater always a cheater.

2006-12-27 02:26:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 20 years i dayed this guy fro 2 years in high school and had gotten engaged to him at 17 and married 19 but got divorced very recently. hes out of my life now and i met a new guy. i have been dating this new guy for 3 months now and i have heard a rumor from a friend hes going to ask me to marr him on valentines day. do you think thats too early?

2006-12-27 02:26:06 · 23 answers · asked by kittylove52686 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:25:43 · 14 answers · asked by bond 1 in Singles & Dating

Two and a half months ago i found out my partner of 6 years had been seeing someone else for four weeks, i left him and now he wants us back. He had a relationship with this girl that lasted 6 weeks and he realised he couldnt live without us. The last 4 weeks he has been trying to prove himself to me and i so badly want to be with him. Our seven month old Daughter loves him and so do i, I have told him i need time to think about it and i need some advise as my family is not very helpful.

2006-12-27 02:25:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

type that wrong?????

2006-12-27 02:25:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this boy did a lot of really nasty perverted things to me and every time one of my friends reports him they dont do any thing about it yes im still in school and im really scared of this guy wat do i do hes older then me by 2 years

2006-12-27 02:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by caylee d 1 in Singles & Dating

One where the man provides, cherishes and protects the woman, whilst the woman respects the man?

2006-12-27 02:22:50 · 18 answers · asked by femme 2 in Singles & Dating