She really wants it to work out between them. I think that the person who cheated on her doesn't deserve my best friend. I've told her many times that he doesn't deserve her. What do I do?
2006-12-27 02:30:46 · 8 answers · asked by liike w♥w <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if your friend really likes this guy even if she knows that he cheated on her then give him one more chance but make sure to keep an eye on him..and when he does something like that again then be sure to make your friend give him up coz she'd be stupid if she'd take him back again and repeat her mistake before. but if your friend won't listen just try to be always there for her especially in times when she is down. = )
2006-12-27 02:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by natasha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's got to learn this on her own. Once a cheat, always a cheat. If this is early on in the relationship, she needs to move on. She won't listen to you though, she's got to figure this one out. It could be she used to abuse from friends and family, maybe her mom kept a cheating husband around., it's really hard to say. Girls tend to fall for the bad boys, they like the challenge, they think they can tame him. It's just not worth it. Don't worry about it too much, just be a friend, maybe she will come around in time.
2006-12-27 02:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. I know you mean well, but if she is determined to stick with this guy, you will only end of driving her away. You've already told her how you feel. It's her life and she has to make her own decision. The only thing you can do now is be there for her if it doesn't work out. (And don't say I told you so.)
2006-12-27 02:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, and let her work it out for herself. Be there to support her, but don't tell her what to do because she might resent you for it, and it would probably cause problems between the two of you. Just be there to support her in her decisions. And after her relationship fails--which it probably will--be there to support her in picking up the pieces without any "I told you so's." She needs to learn this lesson on her own. Good luck.
2006-12-27 02:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and Learn...let your friend do that.
She will not listen to what you say...and if you talk negatively about her situation she will start sneaking around to see him and lie to you about it. She'll say she's not seeing him instead of confiding in you about the issue...she just wants someone to listen...suck it up hide your opinion and just listen and be there for her. She needs you more than ever while she decides what to do with her life.
2006-12-27 03:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business
2006-12-27 02:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by John Scary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has the right to make the decision for herself. Leave her to it.
2006-12-27 02:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Autumn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right he dosent desever her .ask her if he cheated on her before how dose she know he wont do it again.and if he loved her so much he wouldnt have cheated on her .
2006-12-27 02:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋