few weeks back, my girlfriend broke up with me. reason being, she told me that i was treating her more like a close friend than a girlfriend. it's true actually. whenever we go out, i wouldn't hold her hands, hug her, and other stuff that couples do. how do i overcome my fear of being shy near girls? help pls.
2006-12-27 02:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by archpunk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your next girlfriend that you are shy by nature but want to get over it. Hopefully she'll understand and help you by taking the initiative to hold hands and kiss.
2006-12-27 02:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See wikipedia article plus links. There are also lots of good books on Amazon on overcoming shyness. There's nothing wrong with showing signs of affection in public. Women/Girls like it and other people just think 'That's nice'.
2006-12-27 02:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im no longer a woman, yet im some what of a womanizer. in case you cant communicate on your lady buddy approximately stuff that your shy with, attempt being blatantly common. or, attempt something to lighten the temper. my favorites are (to get your arm round her shoulder and get her to chortle)"in case you have been a pirate, could shop your parrot in this shoulder, or this one (attain to the some distance shoulder 2d)" or. say "hello, wanna count type shoulders? a million-2-3-4 (if the lady is on your actual, commence counting on your left shoulder)" and additionally, in simple terms enable your self pass. in the adventure that your makin out or doin regardless of this is you youngsters do these days and you experience like feelin her up, choose for. if she shoots you down in simple terms exhibit remorseful approximately and shop doin what you have been doin. wish this facilitates ya!!
2016-10-06 01:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her about your shyness. Could it also be that you're uncomfortable showing affection in public? If so, talk to her about that as well. Ask her to help you work through these things. If she cares at all for you, she'll understand and want to help.
2006-12-27 02:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate Social Anxiety Shyness : http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?CvsZ
2016-06-21 05:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bernard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with girls and date different ones. I am sure you will find one that you feel more comfortable with and you will be less shy with.
2006-12-27 02:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by tallbrian1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There nothing to help calm the fear, you have to calm yourself.
2006-12-27 02:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋