Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

2006-12-27 03:05:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband get's irritated when I want to go see my friends, even when I invite him to go. So I stop bringing it up cause I dont want to start and arguement. Well then one weekend, I was working and he calls me up saying he is going to go visit a single guy friend of his that he hasn't seen in a while. He says since I'm at work I can stay home and he will be back the next day. When I complained to him about it he said, " oh well i think we need to spend times with our friends." I was so mad cause he was doing exactly what I didn't want to do to him. Even before he left, he called one of my friends and asked her to call me that night to hang out so I wouldnt be home by myself. Mind you it wasn't one of the friends I had been wanting to visit. it was a girl in the same town I lived in. Then he sent me flowers to work the next day. Do you think I'm being bitchy? I mean, If I did that to him he would have been pissed. It was like he knew what he was doing wrong and he did it anyway. input?

2006-12-27 03:05:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 03:05:17 · 32 answers · asked by Titi 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to PLEASE my boyfriend more? Our 'LIFE' is good if you get what I kean but I want to add some more random things to make it better, we do already do alot!!!!!!! Help!!!

2006-12-27 03:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Odds are it will end in divorce so why spend so much money and time on a stupid wedding? It will all be about affairs,fighting and end in divorce anyway.Waste of time i say.

2006-12-27 03:04:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im so depressed lonely and heartbroken sheddin tears day n night
got no friends n i feel like breakin apart cant talk to no 1 .. .only 22 yet i've had no fun since i been born how can i help the matter sometimes i get too sensitive n start cryin inside silently cause i have no chance of havin one . ..i feel like dyin tonight koz i have no1 !!! it kills me everyday to wake wit no1 by myside ?? ?
cant talk 2 no1 i like cause i'm scared inside i might not be accepted will i ever have a women ? ? ? i wish i had i'm so sad i feel like cryin even if people answer my question i wont have no1 . . ..

2006-12-27 03:03:24 · 20 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are getting separated. We have both hurt each other many times over the last year and half. When we talk about it, we both end up in tears thinking about all of the good times we had. We've been a part of each other's lives for 10 years now...friends, then dating, then engaged and married. We've tried talking about things and working out our problems numerous times, but always end up back at square one. We are in our mid 20's and have no kids, so it will be just like starting life over. Why is it that the good times rise to the top and we are so sad about a decision that will stop us from hurting each other?

2006-12-27 03:02:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please do not say church

2006-12-27 03:02:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The past 6 months I've been in a relationship with this incredible guy who is a divorcee and 25 years my senoir who I've known for a year. That aside, over the past month or so we've been up and down with the relationship..he's been hung up on the difference of our religion, and thinking that he's holding me back. He says he loves me, and we still spend time together, and when we are together it's incredible, we talk for hours, even after intimacy. I love him dearly, and he told me that we are good together, and we have much in common, but two many differences to be together forever in marriage. He insists that we always be friends, and says that we are friends now "but a bit more". He says that he wants to continue to see me, and learn more about me, know all about me, that he is not interested in anyone else, or wants anyone else because he's "selfishly attached" to me. My question is, is this just something he's going through? Have I lost him? Is he just scared of marriage again?

2006-12-27 03:02:04 · 17 answers · asked by safireblu64 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 03:01:58 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's from the other side of the globe... i do believe it u know, he calls everyday, we chat everyday, ...is this love? can u explain this...

2006-12-27 03:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

met this girl back in June. She had a BF. (now..dec 19th 06' has been with him a year) she stated he cheated when they first started but she trusts him now and said he hasnt done it since. Anyway. We connected in a flash..the same interests weird attitudes, and warm hearts. We started seeing eachother alot..led to kissing dinners and eventually intimacy. all this time he was away in costa rica she was here. she said when she goes back to school with him that she has to see her feelings. We ended up falling in love and told eachother.She told me in september that the right thing to do is stay with him cause she loves him to. from sept till now we still talk alot and when she comes home we meet up and hang out. she still feels the same and so do i and we've kissed and and still very close. SHe decided if we're to remain close to not act on our impulses. Cuz we mean alot to eachother. she made a promise if anything happens one day. we'll be together.

2006-12-27 03:00:55 · 24 answers · asked by V P 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:59:25 · 4 answers · asked by finalskitz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have left a question of tonight "Lost my trust fo her" as my wife explained she had an afair with her boss for nearly two years. It may well be she was placed into the situation that her boss took advantages of her for her employment, she won't talk about it any more and I don't want to ask her any more questions as she already confessed to me about. However I have felt my wife is so conservative when we have sex as something left a dark hole in her life as there is no intimacy between us. It seems unusual that I have never seen her p...y, she does not like any french kissing or let alone oral sex. With all the love I have for her it seems I am still paying the price for her past.

2006-12-27 02:59:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday I posted 5 Q's and it didnt get posted
I just posted 2 Q's now..and it didnt post
maybe this Q isn't posted yet!
FREAK'N hell Ive lost soo many points!

the Q is.....
is this only happening to me?

2006-12-27 02:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

starts talking about porn, nude mags?

We pass by a shop and the 2007 Playboy calender is there and he stops to look a it, obviously pleased and delighted. He keeps on mentioning how hot the girls in those mags are! ;(
I have told him that I don't appreciate him telling me about this, but he continues. How can I laugh the situation off and still get back at him? Ignoring it doesn't help a bit! Good comebacks or lines to use in the situation?

2006-12-27 02:58:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother keeps interfering with my parenting!!! It is driving me absolutely insane!!! She "over-rides" everything that I tell my daughter when she is around. Her and I got into an argument last night that escalated past the point of no return. She threatened to call the police on me last night and also call CPS. I'm sorry, but I'm a great mother, I love my daughter and there are no issues at the house that would require any of those actions to be taken. What should I do? I'm so furious that I cannot even talk to her. Has anyone else had this problem with their mothers? Any advise or personal stories would be appreciated!

2006-12-27 02:57:51 · 4 answers · asked by adorethasp 3 in Family

She goes to the yahoo images and searches for various pictures of men usually not adult content and says she just misses me even though we have the ability to cam and talk on the phone but she still says she loves me and that they are just pictures seems silly enough but... you never know. We have been together over a year now though and I was wondering what everyone else thought.

2006-12-27 02:56:46 · 16 answers · asked by n3p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my man for going on 6 years, and up to the 5 year mark, i got along with his mother just wonderfully, we'd go out to lunch, have coffee, go shopping, etc.... and i loved her to pieces.... now, we'll be at 6 years in may, and I haven't been to their house once in the last 4 or 5 months where i didn't leave with my feelings hurt and crying.... For christmas, we decided that he would spend his holiday with his folks, and I would travel the 150 miles to my family's place, and come home crhistmas evening and then we'd do christmas with his folks and me (they'd already done their stuff on christmas), just a gift exchange, on tuesday night after we all got home from work. I showed up there last night with a huge bag of presents for his mom and dad, and she flew off the handle yelling at everyone that she didn't want to have christmas again, and ate dinner and she went to bed while i was crying in the spare bedroom. I don't know what i did, and neither does my guy or his dad...

2006-12-27 02:56:41 · 10 answers · asked by Silver Thunderbird 6 in Family

2006-12-27 02:55:27 · 18 answers · asked by alisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he's all sweet around me, but then when we are around his friends, he acts like i don't exist and toally ignores me

2006-12-27 02:55:04 · 24 answers · asked by Allie m 2 in Singles & Dating

I just like to know... What is the feeling of being in love? I really don't know because for me, it's full of heart aches and despiration... That's why I don't like to fall in love again!!!

2006-12-27 02:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and a girl i've started seeing is 23, I want to put her up in a nice hotel, have a meal etc and then have some passionate love making

But what music would be good to play? Stevie Wonder (think she's to young for that) I dont like Hip hop eminem stuff etc and am really stuck as to what music to 'get down too'

Your suggestions please. Thanks guys

2006-12-27 02:53:45 · 28 answers · asked by bearerofknowledge 2 in Singles & Dating

im 18 a senior in high school. im taking 2 math courses (geometry,algebra 2). ill be graduating during the summer. my dream is to go to GA state U. the problem is is that due to my stupid attitude during school freshman year my GPA is now a 2.7
do u think i stand a shot?

2006-12-27 02:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Singles & Dating

I like guys, but only as friends, and I make this very clear when I make a new friend. But after a while, they always try to make a move on me. What can I do to stop this? And it's really making me start to dislike men since I feel they are disrespecting me.

2006-12-27 02:52:09 · 22 answers · asked by Autumn 2 in Singles & Dating

well we were drunk and having sex, after a while she axed me if was there anything wrong she was doin at sex, well it just stupidly came out of my ugly mouth and told her "maybe u're loose" dude she quickly left me and said she never wants to see/talk with me ever again, she sed there's no apology fi dat, i need some 'elp, and plez, i dont know how to mek it up for her

2006-12-27 02:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by big brotha 1 in Singles & Dating

hey all,
Thanks for your help time and time again..I have another ?
I posted that on christmas i broke it off with my guy..I told him am done.basically i had it..any way I went through his voiemail last night..and why there was a female on there talking about..hey its me (her name) I like the text message you sent me..I really apprecaite it..and it make me want to do what you said in it..just let me know when this week..that will be my christmas gift to you..I miss you..
now ladies we are not stupid..a message like that can mean one thing he wants to f*ck her..I mean if he say that he loves me..how can he move on sooo fast..I dont know what to do..we spoke lastnight and we said that we want to be together but that mesage I can get it out of my mind..I am very upset with my boyfriend..here i am trying to make us have a happy life and he is willing to have sex with someone else so fast..I know that i need time away from him..I just dont want to be without him..help me please

2006-12-27 02:51:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:51:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 02:51:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and he told me that he loved me...I wanted to know if he was sincere so i opened a myspace page under another females name and added pictures. I then wrote him a message, just having a good conversation, when i then decided to ask if he was single. and he wrote back single and lovin it. When i confronted him out about it, he put it on his dead mothers grave and the holy bible that he loved me and wanted to be with me, the next day he proposed to me. What should i do. He still doesnt know that all along he was talkin to me on myspace. He lied to me and said he stopped talkin to "the girl" but i know he didnt because hes talkin 2 me...there is no other girl...what should i do? We are now engaged and yet he talks about meeting up with "this girl" and chillin with her. but then everytime "the girl" forwards the messages to my email...he stops talkin to her for a couple days and then is kissin my *** but then he's back at it. HELP ME PLZ!

2006-12-27 02:50:32 · 22 answers · asked by Honeycomb 1 in Marriage & Divorce