I like guys, but only as friends, and I make this very clear when I make a new friend. But after a while, they always try to make a move on me. What can I do to stop this? And it's really making me start to dislike men since I feel they are disrespecting me.
2006-12-27 02:52:09 · 22 answers · asked by Autumn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL! Trust me, there is NO flirting. I'm 100% lesbian.
2006-12-27 02:55:05 · update #1
I do understand where you are coming from I tell them as you up front all I am looking for is friends and should they have anything else in mind you should tell them I feel as though you are being disrespectful to me and if you cant just be a friend I am sorry but you need to go elsewhere
2006-12-27 03:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99% of the time the only reason guys become friends with a girl is because he is hoping it will lead to sex. As you state you are 100% lesbian, they only see that as a challenge. If you really want a guy for a friend only, stick to making friends with gay guys...they do not want what is in your pants as the equipment is all wrong.
2006-12-27 02:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that some of them may not be trying to just sleep with you, they might really care. The rest of them are just trying to "score". You need to spend alot of time with someone to really find out.
The only two rules that really apply are first: there needs to be some physical contact happening even if its not sex, someone who honestly cares can wait for sex. The second rule is never cheat. Cheating is the fastest way to ruin even the most perfect relationship.
I know this answer sucks, but its the truth. Just remember that there is no shame in giving up your search for someone because there really isn't alot of good people left these days.
2006-12-27 02:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of women, especially ones I meet on-line, say they want to be friends first and see where it goes. Well, I'm sure I'm not the only guy that's been told this. You tell them you want to be friends, they think there's a possibility for more down the road. It's hard to have friends of the opposite sex without somebody wanting more than that.
2006-12-27 03:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, 3? Most guys you meet will want to sleep with you, whether they say so or not. That's just the way it is. If they say or do things that are disrespectful, that's another issue; but you can expect that for as long as you're a female, guys will want to sleep with you.
2006-12-27 02:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't help it! women to us are for mating! hey at least we don't chase you like Deer, well maybe we do sometimes. is animal instincts.
you need to find some gay guys to be friends with, and if they make a move they were either lying or you are just that good looking.
most guys have a very hard time being friends with females myself included unless we are not attracted to you or married faithfully
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2016-10-19 00:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but 90% of guys are in it for one one thing. There are few to no guys that just want to be friends. Especially if you are an attractive female. There is not much to stop it just allow your self space and not to get to close.
2006-12-27 03:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by afj60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I can see the flipside of this. I have a friend of mine who when we first met flirted outrageously with me. Now luckily in this instance we became the best of friends.
Maybe you need to try moving in a different circle. Socialise in different places, meet other types of men.
Or maybe its just bad luck. Just remember your luck can always change.
2006-12-27 02:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by Bigfoote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are sending the wrong "signals". Most guys have a one track mind, so when you flirt with them, etc...you will be telling them that you want to be more than just friends..
2006-12-27 02:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋