we've hung out quite a bit now.. (he's 21 & i'm 19) has told me im more than welcome over his place next yr when his parents r away.. after a msging session when i was upset & drinkin by myself he said his parents wont mind.. he said we could do wateva i wanted, stay over or wateva, its up 2 me.. as long as im comfortable. he's real nice 2 me & he's told me he likes me & misses me all the time.. he thinks he's not like other guys (i've heard that before too) but he thinks he is coz he was brought up differently with his dad & his dad's male partner. he's definately not gay by the way. he's told me he likes me a lot & likes the friendship, but isn't after a relationship just yet since his last relationship ended pretty bad a few months ago.. im not sure if i should i go? we're really good mates at the moment, texting all the time, chatting online. he hasnt made ne moves otha than cuddling.. ive told him im a virgin & he said he'd never screw round wit me, i should wait 4 the 1 i love
2006-12-27 02:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U r confused.
1. If what u mean is that u r afraid u cling to him too much & he may get annoyed, well, relax. We girls sometimes feel that way. But we r perceptive too.So, if he's uncomfortable, u'll know.
2. I don't think it's a good idea that u r more than welcome "when his parents r away"
Anyways, u r adult, & if u do not have a hunch..
3. What's about u drinking by urself?
What about ur family?
I think u r quite messed up. Nothing wrong with that. Sort urself out.
But it is wrong to expect ur boyfriend to clean up ur emotional mess. (What does it matter to u who his dad's partner was? It's his life)
I also feel this is ur 1st serious attachment.
By all means, have a relationship, but sort out ur own feelings first.
He'll be more comfortable, u'll be happier, &, u'll feel more worth for urself.
Don't become so dependant on a person at such a young age, girl! mark my words.
2006-12-27 02:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
define what "hung out quite a bit" means. where did you meet this guy? have you met his dad and partner? i'd be cautious about putting yourself in a situation that is going to be difficult to get yourself out of if you get in trouble. if he's already said that he's not interested in a relationship and he's inviting you over when his dad and partner are away, then you should definitely keep your legs closed if you're going to go over. if he really does like you, then he'll respect your wishes. and you probably don't want to facilitate that for him anyway because if he's freshly out of a bad relationship, you don't necessarily want to be the rebound.
2006-12-27 10:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo girl, he sounds like a charm. Wait for the I love u
2006-12-27 10:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just a re bound
2006-12-27 10:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take one step at a time.
watever happens... happens.
2006-12-27 10:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋