2006-12-27 02:13:58 · 19 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When anger cannot be deflammated then a new form arises in the form of hatred and then this hatred forms a devils mind to Revenge.
Revenge is a form of grudge ,hatred,anger,misunderstandings,lack of communications etc
Revenge enacts when the mind doesn't let go of the past and keeps holding on to it,
Yes it could be Immaturity from that person enacting to take Revenge because they lack knowledge and they are not ready to accept the actual consequences.
Revenge is only destruction and leads to further tension and unhappiness.
2006-12-27 02:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is childish or not but it is self destructive and not really as satisfying as people think. I have known people who sought revenge for acts committed by their spouse (two of them). Rather than growing, moving on and getting their life back together both of them stayed mired in their pain and tried to get revenge. Revenge came (with little effect on their former wives) and they found themselves still in the same place with the same hurt feelings.
2006-12-27 02:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think trying to institute any kind of revenge is childish. It takes a very mature person to walk away and let the chips fall where they may.
2006-12-27 02:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very childish, but we all do it sometimes. When I get revenge I end up the one thats hurting.
2006-12-27 02:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; the results are uncertain and often disappointing. It's an enormous waste of energy and proves just how much power someone has over you. You hurt yourself more that you'll ever hurt them.
The best "revenge" is living your best possible life.
2006-12-27 02:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. Taking revenge doesn't take away whatever it was that a person did to you to hurt or anger you. What it "does" do, is show that person that you are just as immature as "them."
2006-12-27 02:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , but as a big person u should know that revenge is not the best thing to do its best for u to try and fix the situation than prolong i t
2006-12-27 02:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by i am a very sweet n honest girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't wast energy on the past, look to the future and move on. Be the bigger person, Learn from this.
2006-12-27 02:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep.... it's a waste of effort...revenge is like drinking a poison hoping the other person will die...
let karma do its work!
2006-12-27 02:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely and it gets you no where. Two wrongs do not make a right. Be the better person and let it go.
2006-12-27 02:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋