is it bad to be lonely? what if there's no one to ask me out, i know i'm a bit young to think this, i know i'm pretty, why does no one like me?
2006-12-27 02:13:50 · 9 answers · asked by danielle t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the most problematic part of your question is that you "know that you are pretty"- This attitude won't get you anywhere
2006-12-27 02:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend was just asking me that question a couple nights ago. She said why do all these dirty old men always come up to her, or why do only A holes come to her, why can't a nice good looking guy find her? It's different with everyone but speaking from personal experience, people might just be afraid or intimidated by you if you are pretty. I'm a good lookin guy not a single person I dated came up to me personally, they had a friend come up to me. I asked each one to why they didn't come to me, they said it's because they were afraid of what I would say, rejection. And that's probably what could be happening in your case. Another thing she brought up is how a lot of the girls who aren't so pretty always have guys, and really cute ones at that. I told her that's because the guys can go to these girls knowing they won't get rejected and with some, could be that they know they could control this girl. Cute guys and pretty girls, sad to say, have more power in this world and people can be afraid of it. I'm sure you have people hinting to you that they have an attraction towards you and you just aren't seeing those signs. I know that there are times I feel lonely when single, but then also remember that sometimes we just gotta be single. You have to live your life, find out what you truly want then go for it. Especially if you're younger, don't sit around looking for someone day after day, seize the moment, life is too short. The right guy will come to you when he's supposed to, and you will know it!
2006-12-27 02:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will bring you someone to make you happy stop looking and maybe it will fall in your lap, you are pretty and maybe the one you think you don' t like (a special friend) is the one you should take time to get to know a little better.Hey, whats wrong with you asking them out ? the worse that could happen is that they say no,
If you are young give it time,
Good Luck
Sweetie
2006-12-27 02:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u should take being pretty as an advantage cause i dont think im pretty becasue i think im fat but im not and im tolled im pretty by people all the time but i dont take them seriously and im single right now and i hate it it sucks alot so just be who u are and flirt a little with someone u think is cute but if its a friends boi thats a big no no as every girl should no just wait it out a little longer he'llcome a long eventually i hoped i helped in some way good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 02:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by my heart is broken 818 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not important how many you meet or when u meet but the most important point is WHO will u meet so be patient till u meet the best man who will love u and treat u generously till u become his princess.
Good luck.
2006-12-27 02:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by bero575 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I have the exact same problem. I've gotten really close to guys, but when I think they are going to make a move, they turn around and ask my friend out. guys really confuse me sometimes.
2006-12-27 02:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by honeybunny09@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to be lonely. It's wrong not to do something about it.
If you want to win the contest, you've got to enter.
2006-12-27 02:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just Waite the guy for you will come don't rush it
2006-12-27 02:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue...
2006-12-27 02:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mister Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋