Do you try to force people to do what you want?

Question

Or just provide incentives?

Answer 1

well everyone tries to control someone in life.and if you dont get your way you seem to get mad.but we have to understand that if we dont wanna be controled we cant control others.

Answer 2

Why force someone to do something they don't want to do? Then you just have a miserable person to deal with. But if it's something that would be for their own good, yes. Like health reasons or education, furthering their carreer,etc, then I might use "forceful" incentives.

Answer 3

To the first, no.

To the second; it depends what you mean by "provide incentives". If you are talking about manipulation through, threats (veiled or otherwise) guilt, lying, etc., then no again.

If you mean by offering a give and take situation and/or compromise both parties can agree with, then sometimes.

Answer 4

♥ I think everyone tends to force someone to do what they want once in a while. Some may not mean it or realize it. It is just normal. Lol yep I hate to say I do force people to do what I want because I am a little selfish. This is a habit I need to stop.

Answer 5

Depends on how bad I want something done. If its not that important that i would just provide my opinion.

Answer 6

I have a way of making people offer to do things that I want, without even asking them. I'm sneaky.

Answer 7

Incentives....it's anouther manipulating factor.

Answer 8

My BF does it all time. He offers incentives like jewelery and other stuff for making me swallow!

Answer 9

definatly incentives,unless they prefer force,lol,some people do ya know

Answer 10

Forcing someone to do what you want iscounterproductive.
Treat others as you would want to be treated.