2006-12-27 02:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by prettynsexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is easy to get flustered or emotional in the midst of an argument or serious discussion. Perhaps you should beforehand write out what you want to say, practice saying the main things you want to say and maybe even read outloud what you wrote and ask him to just listen. It's hard to verbalize our emotions and feelings so don't feel bad. You could also write him a letter or an email and just express what you feel and say that this was the best way for you to say what you wanted to say. However, this should not take the place of verbal communication, but it sometimes helps to write down what you want to say and then you can really get some clarity on what truly it is that you mean rather than potentially just blathering or being afraid.
2006-12-27 02:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by emilyjohnson21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it's when you are having a serious talk, which could mean that you are revealing your inner most self. Sometimes that can be hard. After all if I let someone know exactly who I am, what if he doesn't like it? And that's all I've got.
I find it helpful to write a letter to my husband to make sure that I can get all the points across that I wanted to. Then I sit there while he is reading it and we can discuss it better. It opens the door to my inner self and then it's easier to discuss.
2006-12-27 02:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he never wants to hear your side of a serious conversation, or have a serious conversation about anything, that is a big red flag that the relationship is in trouble and not likely to progress further unless he is willing to listen.
Sometimes the problem is picking the right time or place; never in public or with his friends or family around for starters. Tell him that you need to talk about whatever it is and refuse to go out with him until the matter is resolved. If he refused to discuss it then, cut you losses and move on.
2006-12-27 02:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bf is the criminal in this occasion. kin are a P.I.A, yet they are yours. while issues pass incorrect, maximum persons step as much as the plate and "circle the wagons" to guard their very own. You & sis ought to understand that bf is a participant who would be fat and bald interior the subsequent ten years (karma) without interest. by no skill enable a loser get the terrific of you. Forgive your sis and understand you're well worth lots extra suitable than this nonsense. additionally, do no longer enable sis know approximately destiny bfs.
2016-11-23 19:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by bunton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually don't speak either when I reason. I just decide and do.
2006-12-27 02:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yell and scream at him, if you have any problems give me a holler, I will sort the jerk out
2006-12-27 02:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by bling 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a mature relationship! SO why bother?
2006-12-27 02:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you keep asking this question...it makes no sense
2006-12-27 02:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋