I went out with this guy that I been friend with him for a year now. He has a lot of goals in life and he going to school has one more year. But the thing is he is my friend. And I went to the movies as friends and then we when out to eat. He started saying how this is considered a date. And at the end of the night he kissed me. The thing is I like him but he is younger then I and we are friends. And I don’t want to break that friendship, but I do like him and we have a lot in conmen. The question is this should I continue the romantic part of it or just stay friends.
2006-12-27 02:22:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way he is 20 and im 22
2006-12-27 02:28:24 · update #1
It is not wrong to date younger men. I am 33 and date a 27 year old. It's all about what things you have in common. Age is just a number but if you want to date him, just tell him up front, (which I did) that if things don't work out romantically between you two, that you want to still be friends no matter what.
2006-12-27 07:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you like him...then definitely act on your feelings! Life is too short to not go for what you want. And even if it doesn't work out--lots of people remain friends after romantic relationships don't turn out how they expected. And the part about him being younger....I don't know your age but as you grow older, years apart don't matter as much, especially just 2 years. Overall--if you like him, give it a try!
2006-12-27 10:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot difference between a lover and a friend! You should make a self test to end up with a better decision. How will you carry the commitments if you continue your mutual feelings? Can you tell all your secrets to him if you become his girlfriend? Can you bear all the restrictions he will demand like what typical relationships undergo? If you value your friendship very much then you should not be confused with the way things come to happen!
2006-12-27 10:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Gimeon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal my dad is 2 years younger than my mom. And the lady that said it was a bigger deal if your younger like 16 and 18. It's not. I'm friends with 2 guys who are younger than me and i've been through with one of them what your going through now. But we decided to keep it friends plus there are plenty of happy couple at my school that are 2 years apart, in fact it seems weird to date someone your own age at my school, most girls go for younger guys.
2006-12-27 10:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Naughty Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always felt that it's better to be friends before lovers. Frienship can be a beautiful thing. That's a positive not negative. Age is only a number, don't worry about that. Go for the romance. This could be great and you won't ever know if you don't give it a shot.
2006-12-27 10:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by delightful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. You're both adults. Sounds like you guys have a good thing going. The fact that he's just a couple of years younger than you shouldn't be a problem. Sounds as if he's very interested in developing a deeper relationship with you, so if you're interested in him in the same way... go for it!
2006-12-27 11:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mortimer Snerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear,please be very careful to go far.One thing I would like to ask you is-do you yourself have interest in him?Why consider that 2 years space what has it got to do in this this age we are -when you say either 10 years gap then...Pls don't let what i wrote or someone else wrote to confuse you on the guy...what does your mind tells you?Just be quite and reflect on it,probably youve not dated for sometimes or someone out there is not able to say hi to you has he has done.If you most continue with him go slowly and dont discouarege him.Wish you all the very best!
2006-12-27 10:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by fellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I you like him that way go for it i personally know of 4 relationships were the girl is older and they have worked out just fine. Just as long as he is still taller than you when your sporting heels, (;
2006-12-27 10:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by amy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sat you just stay friends for now .and see if you like the feeling of going on romantically .if you dont then just explian to him that you only like him as a friend .and if you do then follow your heart .and let him know you like him back .did you like the kiss.if so then i say GO FOR IT .
2006-12-27 10:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person has to become friends to have a relationship depending on how strong your feelings are toward him as a friend or more seriously if your feelings are stronger than friends age doesn`t matter that depends on both of you
2006-12-27 10:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋