Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

i have a really close guy friend that everytime he gets into a relationship he doesnt really talk to me but as soon as him and his gf split he wants to know me and hangout and he never lets me meet his gf's is he just using me?

2006-12-27 04:56:15 · 15 answers · asked by sexy honda girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this guy and at first he was super sweet and perfect and blah blah we didnt end up hooking up cause i'm in quite a dilema right now but we're still talking and being cool. He let me borrow one of his movies and so this past sat i was going to see him to return it but I wasnt able to meet up because I was already late to a family dinner. He flips and I feel bad so I call him back, he doesnt answer and doesnt return my calls. He texts me last night and we were playing it cool, I was upset by his reaction but brushed it off. This morning I text him good morning and he tells me how sweet I am.. then we we're in the process of making plans to meet up today and I was joking around saying oh no i cant but then i text him again saying "Jk, sounds good." He asked me what I meant by "Jk" and I explained it meant just kidding. He flips out saying how can I think he doesnt know what that means and says he doesnt want to meet me anymore. What the hell??!?

2006-12-27 04:56:12 · 7 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

So I met this girl last year and we've been talking on AIM for a long time and I feel a strong connection with her when I talk to her and we have so many things in common. (FYI We've never really hung out outside of AIM) I've grown to like her very much but she seems to be the mysterious type. A part of me feels like her feelings are mutual and that I should go for it and another part of me feels like we should just be good friends.

I've never really asked anyone out before and I definitely know for sure she's not the type to initiate - she's definitely an introvert or a cynic..ha who knows. I dunno...I guess I'm just not very good at reading people. She playing the "hard to get" card or does she just want to be friends? Help me out girls - you can be very mysterious~(or guys who have experienced my dilemma)

2006-12-27 04:56:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know his email and he's talking to another girl ...i can't let him know i know his password ...how do i tell him ?

2006-12-27 04:55:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by thefutureisnow 2 in Singles & Dating

I offer my finacee different things than his mother....but he adores her.....and sometimes it bothers me. Is that wrong? The funny thing is...I love her so much too.

2006-12-27 04:54:18 · 15 answers · asked by CMB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend. it's a he and he getting all thed up about his girlfriend he broke up with. i tryed to make happy and i did it but he's still not the same. we been friend since 5th grade. i told him i could be his girlfriend and he liked that idea but im not sure when to start because im afraid i'll scare him.

2006-12-27 04:54:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is driving our family insane. She is pissed off because she is in a fight with her siblings and that they didn't call her for Christmas. She's taking her anger out on myself and my dad. She is extremely irritable, she is snappy, rude, and downright mean! She is saying how she hates Christmas, and how she hates the holidays, and how I ruined her life. (I've been up the past two nights, getting little sleep because I'm sick, and me being sick is worrying her and it's pissing her off, and she wants me to get better in a flash, but the anti-biotics take time to kick in. She doesn't get it. Apparently that has ruined her life *eye roll*)

My dad would ask her a question like, "How are you?" and she'll be all like, "OH I DON'T KNOW, JUST LEAVE ME ALONE GOD! I'M TIRED!"

How can we have a better holiday, and help her to not be so bitchy.
[ And it's not her PMS days either ]

Help!

2006-12-27 04:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by Circuits 4 in Family

Due to space limits I can't include all the details I would like. But I was living with my fiancee's family and yesterday they kicked me out. All because on Christmas Day I did not hug his mom goodbye. Even though she didn't hug me when I first came in nor did my fiancee' hug her hello/goodby either.

So I told my fiancee' that they were not welcome in my home(it's being built and is almost finished) or at my wedding. He was fine with that but not about me excluding his mom.

This is going to cause a problem because I feel like while it was his step-father that made the decision she played a part in it as well. That she needs to realize she could have spoken up about this instead of keeping quiet. In fact by keeping quiet it makes me think she agrees with him. and who wants that kind of person around them? She's done numerous terrible things to her childern so I don't understand why my fiancee' is being like this. I'm very worried this may end with the wedding being cancelled

2006-12-27 04:53:43 · 17 answers · asked by b-chan 1 in Weddings

2006-12-27 04:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Friends

what do you do when you have this feeling for your exgirlfriend... this feeling where you think that you can spend the rest of your life with her?
what do you do when you would kill to protect her? Unfortunately i still feel this way about my ex who left me for another guy. I'm beginning to suspect that she is somewhat missing me... due to the fact that she sent me this email saying that after she comes back from san diego, she wants to see if we can meet up... this also includes the fact that her myspace photo has changed from her being with "joe" to a different one... i don't know what to do... every 5 minutes she pops into my head... and i just wanna break down..... there are so many things that make me think about her.... certain games, songs, movies, etc. ...i love her.... any advice on what i should do will be appreciated from everyone.... i'm only reopening this so i can get more answers... i need more advice

thank you... and i hope that all of you had a happy holiday...

2006-12-27 04:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

But then she began to ingnore me and still does, what went wrong?

2006-12-27 04:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by iwearshoes 2 in Singles & Dating

he is younger than I am.Ihave 2 kids and he has 1 kid and now we have 1 of our own. I delivered my baby boy and he looks like him my husband didnt know that he is not the father.So what should I do. I'm still with this man in other country.

2006-12-27 04:53:08 · 18 answers · asked by Paxxiegrett 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok she is in my school and i have a crush on her (i think she knows that)
so tomorrow am not going to see her for aweek (cuz the holydays)
so i want to ask her for her number
BUT last year we were just freind and when i asked her for number she didnt give it to me
helppppppppppppppppppp!!!!!! :)

2006-12-27 04:52:30 · 3 answers · asked by N!ckola$ 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl wants to wait a while to have sex.

Wants to "take it slow"

Do you have more respect for her that way? Do you find it kind of sexy or not?

How long is to long to wait?

If you were really into her how long would you be willing to wait?

2006-12-27 04:52:29 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my exs prom is gonna come up before the school yr is done. we are talkin now n everything is great. im 2 yrs older than him. wen it was time for my prom i didnt go..i was with him at the time. im not really into that kinda thing i dont like dancing n i get really shy around him n i dont really kno any of his friends. i jsut think its gonan be a whole awkward situation. so his is comin up n i kno hes gonna want me to go wit him. i have been wit him for 2 yrs but im still shy around him thats my own personal issue. y am i so shy even after 2 yrs? i dont get it. anyway so the prom i want to go but im scared botu the whole awkward feelin n the dancing. also ima be like 2 yrs older than everyone. i love him very much n i dont want him to take someone else if i say no. wat do i do to get over the shyness?? how do i oversome this so that i can go wit him without feelin awkward n shy?? real answers plz!!

2006-12-27 04:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been in a situation where their boyfriend or girlfriend wants a break for a while? Yesterday my boyfriend said he wants a break he doesn't know what he wants. Sometimes i want the same thing. Is this a sign that my boyfriend may be breaking up with me? or does it mean that it's just a break up for a while. This is the first time i've dated so i've never been in this situation.

2006-12-27 04:51:13 · 21 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well im bi or whatever and i was with this girl i really loved her we have been over for bout 7 months and she has been with this girl for a while now and its really hard cause i feel like she kinda led me on which i really hate to think that she sais she cant ever get over me and she still wants to be kool but i donno how to keep our friendship together when im trying to get over her i have tryed before to get over her but ididnt work and now its bugging me cause i dont know what to do anymore so can anyone gimme advice on how toget over someone

2006-12-27 04:51:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

had the feeling of De Ja Vue?

2006-12-27 04:50:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by Keewani B 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i were together for almost a year..but we broke up because of the whole long distant relationship thing! tHEY NEVER SEEM TO WORK OUT! I can't get over him. Have you ever had that feeling that when ur with someone for such a long time, you're lost without them? How can I help myself get over my ex? What do I do, and what don't i do? PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-27 04:50:20 · 2 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Singles & Dating

I am finding this question haunting me more and more these days. most people will say no, that one is love one is infatuation but i am just feeling lost and like there is no hope. Help

2006-12-27 04:49:48 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we are now after a ball park figure, church,hall food everything!!

planning on starting to save for our big day!

2006-12-27 04:49:36 · 35 answers · asked by budda1983 2 in Weddings

He always wants to play strip-poker, truth-or-dare, ect... and it makes me feel uncomfortable....

2006-12-27 04:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by Pyro kitten 2 in Family

2006-12-27 04:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by Reem 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:48:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I met someone about a year ago he lives in a different town than I do and I really didn't think it would go anywhere but it did. We ended up really liking eachother talking on the phone every night for hours he calls me mostly everyday I know him more than my previous boyfriends that I saw every week. The thing is since he lives so far I've only been out with him in person about twice. I feel really confortable around him and i know its strange but my feelings for him are really strong.

So my question is how long should I wait before having sex with him. Even though I've been talking to him about a year I've only seen him twice. Also, I'm a virgin, and just so no one thinks I'm like 12 playing around I'm 19 and I don't want to seem like a slut or easy I don't know. I'm also aware of birth control, std's and the dangers of pregnancy and the best thing to do is wait for marriage so please leave that out of your answers.

2006-12-27 04:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by cuteaspie 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex he never makes a sound. He only makes noise whenever I do oral. I worry so much about him enjoying it that it sometimes makes the sex awkward for me.

2006-12-27 04:47:16 · 26 answers · asked by SweetnSour 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't no what to get for my fiance of two years... i want it to be kind of cheap and have a meaning behind it.. Just a backround of our relationship.... we have had many hard times we lost a baby due to miscarriage and have been through many other hard times.. he is my rock and i don't no what i would do without him... if you can just help me and give me some ideas.. thanks! :)

2006-12-27 04:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by Melissa 3 in Singles & Dating

i thought when you became this would goaway i have lost it god help me

2006-12-27 04:46:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships