What do you do?

Question

what do you do when you have this feeling for your exgirlfriend... this feeling where you think that you can spend the rest of your life with her?
what do you do when you would kill to protect her? Unfortunately i still feel this way about my ex who left me for another guy. I'm beginning to suspect that she is somewhat missing me... due to the fact that she sent me this email saying that after she comes back from san diego, she wants to see if we can meet up... this also includes the fact that her myspace photo has changed from her being with "joe" to a different one... i don't know what to do... every 5 minutes she pops into my head... and i just wanna break down..... there are so many things that make me think about her.... certain games, songs, movies, etc. ...i love her.... any advice on what i should do will be appreciated from everyone.... i'm only reopening this so i can get more answers... i need more advice

thank you... and i hope that all of you had a happy holiday...

Answer 1

dude, move on. she left you for another guy! she obviously does not have the same feelings for you that you do for her. women know when a guy still has feelings for them and we prey on that. certain women will take full advantage of a man's feelings and not think twice about it. maybe she broke up with the other guy and is just looking for attention. you would be the most available person to give her that attention. don't feed into her game. if you want to get involved with her again, go ahead, but make it on your terms.

Answer 2

I did have a happy holiday indeed. i drank alot of Vodka mixed with Sorrrel. Enough about me though.
I think that you should take things slow and do not expect anything out of the ordinary. You do not want to put your hopes high up and then your heart gets broken.
You must take into consideration the fact that she did hurt you once before and there is nothing that says that she is not going to hurt you again.
Becareful. She could be using you as a rebound. It could be that the guy she left you for left her and she doesn't want to be alone and she knows how much you love her so she is playing on your emotions.
I think that you should thread carefully. I wouldn't get back with her though if i were you.
If she hurts you again it will be much worse than the first time.

Answer 3

You need help. Forget her, she left you. But for real why she left you? Did you did something dumb? Or she just left you just to leave you? Dawg get over it. Its plenty of good fine women out here. How you gonna still have feelings for someone who left you. She must be got some good cookie or something, because you are SPRUNG TOO DEATH.

Look she coming to see you. Don't get your hopes up. Just chill and be the man. Don't nEVER breakdown saying you want her back. Especially if she has a dude. U play the game right. She got to want you first before u want her. You gotta be calm and cool. forget about the games, songs, movies that makes you think about her. ITs GONE. Move on, its gonna be tough. But that why GOD made us MAN. We are tough. So tough it out. Damn man I wish I knew you for real because I will help you out for real. Yeah u want to forget about her, the memories will always be there. Its how well you can handle it. Can you move on?

Answer 4

WOW SWEETIE U SOUND LIKE A NICE GUY AND THAT REALLY UPSETS ME 2 SEE THAT U STILL FEEL 4 HER AFTER SHE LEFT U 4 SOMEONE ELSE. U COULD DO BETTER U COULD FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE U AND ONLY U. SOMEONE WHO WILL NEVER BREAK UR HEART. NOW SHE HAS REGRETS THAT'S KIND OF SAD AND PATHETIC. U R NOT SOME KIND OF TOY THAT WHEN EVER SHE WANTS 2 PLAY WITH U ALL SHE HAS 2 DO IS TAKE U OUT OF THE TOY CHEST. HONEY U R NOT HER PUPPET. U COULD DO BETTER. GOOD LUCK SWEETIE. I HOPE U FIND HAPPINESS.

Answer 5

Why would you want to be with someone that left you for someone else. Do you honestly trust her? Will you truly get over it? You should probably leave this break up alone and go out and find a new girl. Once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer 6

Try not to think about her too much because if she wants you she will let you know .In the meantime, Make yourself busy doing other things. Don't sit around dwelling on it . I know how you feel because I was married for 18 yrs and suddenly he wanted someone else and I was crushed .I immediately found someone else and had a ball and eventually got over him. good luck to you and send me a message it you want to!

Answer 7

Sorry, but she's gone. It's natural to be hurt and to feel that loss when little things around you (songs, etc.) remind you of her. You need to do things that will help you get over her and don't fall into the trap of being her "boy toy" when she gets back.

Answer 8

I am hoping that she is wanting to see you to rekindle your romance, but she may be coming to also close a door on the relationship. You should definetly take advantage when you see her to tell her how you feel. If you dont you will regret it!

Answer 9

i have gone through the same thing it's going be tuff in front of her but you need to have a sit down with her and kept trying no matter how many she leaves. you need to get it out of your system or you'll go through depression.

Answer 10

HOW BOUT U TELL HER HOW U FEEL. BUT I WOULDN'T GO BACK OUT WITH HER IF I WERE U CUZ SHE TRIED U FOR ANOTHER MAN