Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

2006-12-27 04:16:45 · 16 answers · asked by Shawn K 1 in Singles & Dating

breacking up with him is not an option.he asks me if i was flirting with any guys i said no.then later i said well this guy has called me hunni and i said it back. my boyfriend got angry at me for flirting and for lieing. he made me delete this other boys (the one that caled me hunni) address from my msn list so i did. he then asked me later on if i had his number and at first i said no but then i said yes.he got angry at me again for lieing and is now saying that he can hardly trust me. he says that i have to prove to him (not with words) that i am infact not cheating on him. and i cant talk with him untill i can prove to him with good evidence that i am not cheating. please help i love him and have no idea what i could do inorder to make him trust me again??? how can i prove to him that i am not cheating??p.s. i am not cheating on him and nothing i have said so far has convinced him that i am not cheating.breacking up is not an option because he says we wouldnt be friends after.

2006-12-27 04:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by magdalena 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:16:25 · 21 answers · asked by pelkey 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok whats up with this guy?
We split due to distance between us about 3 hrs. Anyways his idea not mine. So about 3 months later (now) he up and calls me and says lets do this lets try this thing and see what happens. Im ecstatic and jumping for joy. I really liked him. Well Friday I took him to my dad's side for Christmas and we had a ball we were all cuddly and all that. Later we went to Walmart and he was all over me and it felt great so when he dropped me off we hugged for the longest time and then had an awesome kiss! Well its Wed and havent heard nothing from him I called him on Christmas day to wish him a good one and had to leave a message.
Whats up with him ?
Im 23 and he's 28 so its not like were kids.
So guys what do you think??

2006-12-27 04:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

As far as the diamond goes, list in order what's most important to you of the 3 c's - cut, carat, clarity, color...

2006-12-27 04:15:40 · 24 answers · asked by someguy 3 in Weddings

he is the sweetest person ever! but everyone hates him and it hurts me!
iv just split out with my boyfriend not to long ago we still talk but he has problems of his own! he drinks alot and then he get violent but not towards me! when he drinks alot he starts being nasty to my friends but he doesnt mean to! i dont know what to do!!!!! i do love him and i know he loves me but everyone hates him even my family! what do u think i should do?
should i get back with him or should i let him go?!

2006-12-27 04:14:04 · 32 answers · asked by Erin R 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm lovesick over her...i cannot be unfaithful..i love her.........i miss her so much.....

Honey why you're calling me so late
Its kinda hard to talk right now
Honey why are you crying is everything ok
I can only whisper coz i cant be too loud.......

I really love her...what should I do...

2006-12-27 04:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by livin_on_an_altar 1 in Singles & Dating

Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this " If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. Do you think she likes me?

2006-12-27 04:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for two months, but I feel as if I'm ready to meet someone new...I feel no vengence towards my ex and I hope him the best, I have no "love" feelings for him either...I have been talking with this guy who is also divorced (1 yr) and we are really hitting it off! I want to take my time getting to know someone, but we really get along great! I've heard that you should give yourself a yr or 2, so my question is...am I jumping in too soon?

2006-12-27 04:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by Lisa Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

Im a single parent. I have a 1 and a 2 year old. It is extremely hard because they cant really do anything for themselves. I've been rasing them pratically by myself every since they were born. Lately I've become really stressed out. I mean sometimes I feel like giving up! As soon as I get off work I have to go & pick them up from daycare. As soon as we get home they are ready to eat. So then I prepare food.Then I let them play for a little while or watch cartoons. Then I take them a bath. My son is in the stage where he likes to whine alot..So that just adds to the fire..And then to top i off ..Sometimes he wakes up about 6 times during the night! ...I already dont have any patience as is! I love my kids to death..and I would do anything for them. But it has really been hard for me! Sometimes I just feel like screamin my head off! Or throwing myself down a flight of stairs! SERIOUSLY!!! I neep advice ASAP!

2006-12-27 04:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla22 1 in Family

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2006-12-27 04:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that is having alot of custody issues with his ex. She is out of control. His custody papers have her name spelled very wrong. She signed the papers and read them. I just need to know if they are still legal if the info is wrong.

2006-12-27 04:10:21 · 15 answers · asked by racersgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter was "mugged" by a local youth, she was not hurt, after the police retrieved her belongings and interviewed her we thought it for the best if it didnt go any further as the youth lives very near us and it would make things more uncomfortable than they are already - we told the police this and they agreed...now I find its going to court and she does have to be a witness

2006-12-27 04:09:59 · 28 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

We just bought the Black Label Liberator wedge/ramp combo, but didn't realize that the thigh cuffs we have don't have the plastic fasteners like the black label uses. Are there any adapters or links we can buy to use them with our new furniture, and if so where? Thanks!

2006-12-27 04:08:28 · 3 answers · asked by ALFimzadi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

after all this time he thinks the grass is greener on the other side and may want a girlfriend or even switch to a sheman? How can this be happening to me after all these yrs? I don't know who I am married to any more and it really scares me. sometimes I think I would be better off by myself.

2006-12-27 04:08:23 · 14 answers · asked by mae 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I nolonger trust my partner because he cheated and hurt me sevral times but i do love the person I'm with.

2006-12-27 04:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a guy to have sex with you without a condom just for PROMISING to pull out before he climax's?

Whats your kids name?

2006-12-27 04:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married to a man who hates christmas, thats not the problem. What is the problem is that he makes my life a misery. I have five children from two previous violent marriages and also four grandchildren. They are not allowed to see me over christmas, my husband will not allow it. He is a bully, all I need is the strength to leave and go it alone,please tell me if you think that I am doing the right thing. We rent the house that we live in and he has just told me that unless I move away, I will be homeless

2006-12-27 04:07:16 · 36 answers · asked by scary mary 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently dateing an older man who will not communicate in- between dates. The only time I do hear from him is when he calls me for a date. The dates we go on are always fantastic and I look forward to seeing him everytime. It's just funny to me that he will not communicate otherwise...I have been to his home as well, he is not married.

2006-12-27 04:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by RED 1 in Singles & Dating

even though he already has a gf, what does this mean?

2006-12-27 04:06:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No one expects them to be perfect and I could just as well do the same thing but the problem is that they blame it on you.

2006-12-27 04:06:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

shes been staying with me for the last 2 months alone. I think she is attracted towards me, but is hesitant to break the ice.

2006-12-27 04:06:23 · 18 answers · asked by victor_k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:05:50 · 2 answers · asked by llgii i 1 in Singles & Dating

If they annoyed you / made you so angry / revenge . . . .

2006-12-27 04:05:34 · 56 answers · asked by ♥ Love Angel Music Baby 3 in Singles & Dating

Is there anyone out there that can help me? I work all the hours and all over the country so just want meet some women for no strings fun times

2006-12-27 04:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cook, I care, I perform well (I'm told), I'm great fun - make people laugh, love to go out, have a good social life, am a great listener, decent looking, all stuff like that. But no matter how hard I try I just can't do well with the whole romance thing, y'know candlelit dinners, foot massages, whispering sweet nothings, etc. Ladies how essential do you consider that kinda thing to be? Would you find that a problem?

2006-12-27 04:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by T M 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:05:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said even though shes not with me, she still loves me. i dunno what to do im confused!!
i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, she just needs time?

2006-12-27 04:05:03 · 5 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:04:33 · 20 answers · asked by CMB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so you see i was with this guy(It was our first tym spending one hour together by a lake with one of my gfs)I have spoken to him before but it was our first tym together,so anyways we were talking bout something then all of a sudden he asked me "Can I look in yr bag just to see wats inside?"So I looked at him to see if he was serious and he was so i strangely said "yes" anyways b4 that I had put sum cream on my hands and he saw that so after that about 20min afteer the "bag" incident i took his hands and he was just playing witgh my hands,but then I let go and he said "Im gonna smell my hands cause I know its gonna smell good"
So he then took a deep breath and put his palms to his face and smelt them how wierd right?
Are thses signs of obssession??
He told me at least 5times how beautiful I am etc...
H said that once hes dating me hes never gonna let me go..
So wat do y'all think be claer and honest!!!
Thanks!!!


P.s We arnt dating yet so b4 I make a mistake pls help thanks!

2006-12-27 04:03:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating