breacking up with him is not an option.he asks me if i was flirting with any guys i said no.then later i said well this guy has called me hunni and i said it back. my boyfriend got angry at me for flirting and for lieing. he made me delete this other boys (the one that caled me hunni) address from my msn list so i did. he then asked me later on if i had his number and at first i said no but then i said yes.he got angry at me again for lieing and is now saying that he can hardly trust me. he says that i have to prove to him (not with words) that i am infact not cheating on him. and i cant talk with him untill i can prove to him with good evidence that i am not cheating. please help i love him and have no idea what i could do inorder to make him trust me again??? how can i prove to him that i am not cheating??p.s. i am not cheating on him and nothing i have said so far has convinced him that i am not cheating.breacking up is not an option because he says we wouldnt be friends after.
2006-12-27 04:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by magdalena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you won't, damage done!
2006-12-27 04:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly how old are you?
Flirting is not cheating but lying about it is still lying.
Once marked as one you are branded from then on in that relationship. You can try to walk the straight and narrow, account for every second of the remainder of your life and always be within view of him forever but there will always be that little nagging doubt and if ANYTHING real or not ever makes him think you might again be lying or cheating you are guilty until proven innocent.
If you are still a school girl, wait and another guy will come around, don't screw it up again. If you are an adult (over 18 ) admit this relationship is now over, move on and stop lying. Let your partner know you like to flirt but that it doesn't go anywhere from there and be sure that it doesn't. Flirting is normal, fun and a part of life. Just don't let it go further than you planned on.
2006-12-27 12:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Julie Hartford 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Stop lying to him.
2) Stop lying to him.
3) Stop lying to him.
Get my point? How can he believe that you're not cheating on him? You've lied to him repeatedly.
2006-12-27 12:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by MaisonCezanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no reason to trust you because you lied to him. More than once, I might add.
2006-12-27 12:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop lie in
2006-12-27 12:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop lying to him
2006-12-27 12:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Classique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋