Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

Isn't it rude for a bride to only give some single guests the option to bring a guest, and other single guests no "& Guest" option? If you're going to give anyone the option to bring a guest, shouldn't you do that for everyone?I think it's so tacky and rude.. just wanted another opinion

2006-12-27 04:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Boy do I have a problem I need professional advice to help with.. Got divorsed last year but kept seeing the ex ...its been good then bad... then good then bad.. last march I started dating this girl so so.. not really into her but made me feel little better going out again.. after 2 months I decided to blow her off.. avoided phone calls, short with her,, ect... she wouldnt give up.. wouldnt leave me alone.. wanted her man .. kept coming over to the house.. I would have to hide int he closet and not answer the door.. finally slowly gave up but still kept e-mailing me , calling me.. sending me letters.. I had to tell her I was going back with my ex to try again... which I wasnt.. but wanted her to leave me alone.. just wasnt what I wanted.. well things never got better so so dating the ex and in October the girlfirned called me... I did something stupid but started to seeing her again.. part time.. Shes all wound up and in love again.. Now Im not sure what I created.. I need out. More

2006-12-27 04:46:31 · 28 answers · asked by bob z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me, nothing!

2006-12-27 04:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

For me it's my eyes and butt.

2006-12-27 04:44:57 · 24 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

i don't like to mention i'm in the army
i want one girl inparticular to like me for me.
sorry if i didn't phrase the question right before.

2006-12-27 04:44:57 · 24 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 04:43:14 · 28 answers · asked by CMB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i read some thing about how people (especially girls) act around you if they like you through body language.
Do you honestly believe any of the following actions is true?

1) the girl will mirror things you do
e.g you slouch in a chair.. she does it.
you rest your head/neck on your arms on the table.. she does it also.

2) she will change seats/places alot
e.g everytime you sit somewhere different she happens to be sitting somewhere different too. sometimes sitting in the corner where everything is visible including you. she tries to get into your view vice versa.

3) her legs are crossed towards you and her body is facing you.
(tho i have seen ppl do this to friends casually so i dont know)

4) you look at her and you catch her lookin at you aswell.
after lookin at her she looks at the floor or her lap when she notices your looking and starts fiddling with an item e.g a tiny piece of paper or pencil or something.

5)she touches you playfully.

is it true or? anything to add lol? ty

2006-12-27 04:43:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that sex isn't necessarily a timed event, but generally, how fast is considered too fast? 1 min? 3 min? 5 min? longer? shorter?

I never last very long (usually only a minute or two...), and I just want to get an idea of what is the norm.. Embarrassing!!!!!

2006-12-27 04:43:07 · 13 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends want to go to the drag show at Club Imagination, but I'm afraid that my new boyfriend won't be comfortable there. Does anyone know anything about this club? I know I won't mind the atmosphere, but he's a macho air force guy and I want this to be a great new year's eve for us....suggestions??

2006-12-27 04:42:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf has a class with me, where he constantly teases me, reminds me of memories of when we were a couple, and even jokes about stupid things i did or said while we were dating. He still sends me emails, and i have talked 2 him on the phone at least 2-3 times a wk for hours! He has a gf right now, and he even told me himself but he constantly tells me that he has something 2 tell me but then he says Now isn't a good time. Is he playing with me or does he really want me back? or jus being friendly again

2006-12-27 04:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its my elder sister, shes 4 years my senior, but we aernt particularly best of friends, we had a fight on the eve of christmas over a very trivial issue. And i told myself that i wouldnt speak to her ever again until she goes back to her school which is far from home. shes so touchy about respect, and misinterpretes almost all my actions, though we are now in good terms, i dont know for how long.Ive told my mum, but she just says i should try and understand my sister and she'll talk to her.Right now i'm so guarded when i talk to her, i dont want to have any more fights with her.I have a junior sister, and though i am her senior, we are very free with eachother and are best pals, pls i need advice, do i just let my senior sister be, and try and understand her like my mother says.......this days i'm not really excited when she calls to tell us she's comming home on break.

2006-12-27 04:41:54 · 8 answers · asked by funky girlie 1 in Family

2006-12-27 04:41:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that sex isn't necessarily a timed event, but generally, how fast is considered too fast? 1 min? 3 min? 5 min? longer? shorter?

I never last very long (usually only a minute or two...), and I just want to get an idea of what is the norm.. Embarrassing!!!!!

2006-12-27 04:41:20 · 15 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

: My brother and I are both in our late 20s. My bro has been with his g/f for over 3yrs and since they started dating, she has been included in most of our family activities. My mom has even changed dates of celebrations to include her- like last year having Xmas dinner on 12/26 and pushing off my fam's traditional Christmas Eve celebration so that she and my father could accept a last minute invite from her family (I wasn't invited). She gets mad at my bro for things that are out of his control- like she and I giving him similar Xmas gifts. My mom loves her and thinks she and I should be friends. She barely talks to me when we are together and has recently told my bro that she doesn't like my b/f so there is little chance of a double date. She is a nice girl but nobody I'd really be friends with. We have nothing in common. I think my only obligation is to be cordial but my mom thinks differently. What should I do?

2006-12-27 04:41:20 · 8 answers · asked by CAITLIN 5 in Family

I AM IN A RELATION SHIP WITH A 56 YEAR OLD MAN. SOMETIMES EVERYTHING IS GOOD BUT. HE SAYS THAT HE TRUSTS ME BUT THE QUESTIONBS HE ASKS MAKE ME FEEL LIKE HE WAITING FOR ME TO MESS UP. I CARE ABOUT HIM BUT I HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP BEING LONG TERM IF HE DOES NOT LOSEN UP.

2006-12-27 04:40:41 · 24 answers · asked by amazinblazinbrat 1 in Singles & Dating

could he?? i think he does.. i dont know though?? i mean.. were those signals?? is he seeing anyone else?? does he know my name?? is he honest?? does he have a good job??/ should i say hi??? how big is he?? (hehe) does he have any brothers??

2006-12-27 04:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

I've hanged out with this guy and we had great time together. But since last two weeks, I became a little bit needy because he didnt have much time to see me. I called him, texted him and asking him out. Besides,I mistakenly wrote him a lovable card and told him my feeling. Then he told me that he was not ready for relationship because he is too busy now.
Do you think that is an excuse?What can I do to get him since I felt he also likes me a little bit? But now I've already been turned down,is there anything I can do to remedy this situation?

2006-12-27 04:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by mermaidice 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know what to do!
my friends boyfriend proposed to her but the other week we got drunk and slept together!

i do not know what to do!
i mean i tiold my friend and all but i still feel guilty!

should i tell my friend not to marry him??

(i was the one drunk... not him)

2006-12-27 04:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by missy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've being sabotaged,somebody trying to take my best friend,how do i solve it?

2006-12-27 04:39:14 · 6 answers · asked by lilarsenalchamp 1 in Friends

2006-12-27 04:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by JACKIE M 2 in Singles & Dating

Cleans his house, cooks dinner for him, does his dirty laundry, drives his drunk *** home when he calls at all hours of the morning/night, buys him clothes, NEVER calls bugging him, waits for him to call her unless important, invites him to do things at her expense., sexual favors at his command,... etc... Please tell me how you would treat a woman if she treated u this way, and with no strings attached... Be serious i want mature adult answers.

2006-12-27 04:38:32 · 26 answers · asked by soinluv04 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to make more friends in high school and they seem to like me but there's two different groups I like and don't want to seem closer to one than the other. And if you sit at lunch with one you inevitably look closer to one than the other since thats the only time outside of class you see them. So I'm thinking I just won't go to lunch. Honestly thats the only obstacle with this issue and its caused me a lot of stress so if I just eliminate it by not going to lunch then it shouldn't matter anymore and I can seem like I am as equally friendly with each of them but still kind of a loner because I don't go to lunch. I don't want either to feel rejected because they've all been inviting. I think I'd be happier.

2006-12-27 04:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

from your past. Who wants to pick up right where they left off in a relationship with you, even though they tore your heart out the first time?

How did you deal with it?

2006-12-27 04:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

i like one boy
he is popular at my school
and i am not
i like him
and i dont know what to do...help
i am probably afraid of rejection
i am afraid that he would not want me back
i think that that is the reason why i didnt have many relationship
helpppppppp

2006-12-27 04:37:03 · 1 answers · asked by 123 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that is black and he is so into a friend of mine. She really likes him, but she is scared of what her family and friends will think because she has been raised against interacial dating. I don't know what to tell her, can anyone provide advice on what to let my friend know?

2006-12-27 04:36:29 · 14 answers · asked by In love with Life 3 in Singles & Dating

dont get me wrong I enjoy being with my husband, its just that my toys get the job done and he rarely does? Sometimes when we finish, or when "he" finishes, and he leaves the room, I play with myself just to get off... Is that bad, any advice? I could never tell him...

2006-12-27 04:35:59 · 38 answers · asked by ashes n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay not really....i just had a bad dream. but still i have been all scared and paranoid since. this morning my bf came over without calling firstand i knocked him on the head with a baseball bat at the door. he in the hospital now. and he is upset at me....

what do ido???

2006-12-27 04:34:59 · 1 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

g and make the most of a nice day and wish you the same C U when I
C U B

2006-12-27 04:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I went into this town [I don't live there though, I go there with my friend sometimes] and there was this guy, he tried cursing and spitting to impress me [he told me that when he texted my friend after everyone left] and I hated it, he texted my friend and asked if I like him, so I said I didn't like when he cursed and spitted, but I forgive him. [I REALLY don't like him though] I can't break his heart. He always texts me now saying that he loves me and that I'm beautiful and smart and he can't live without me. At first I thought it was sweet, but now its so annoying and I know have that feeling in my stomach that this is wrong, I practically don't even know him and I'm scared. Okay, besides for telling my parents? Because that didn't really help. If I don't text him back, he asks if I hate him and I don't want to break his heart. I'm only 12 and hes 14. Also he keeps begging to go out with me and I'm not ready to date! What do I do?

Thanks in advance,
&♥; s a r a h

2006-12-27 04:34:50 · 17 answers · asked by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 2 in Singles & Dating

she says that she doesn't wanna be physical cause she doesn't want that to define our relationship, ok i understand that. the most we've done is make out and that's about it. in case you're wondering, i'm 20 and she's 19. she just says that she doesn't wanna feel dirty. and we have a long distance relationship (we just started long distance when she moved away a couple of months ago). she comes down once a month for a weekend and we're excited to see each other but nothin happens. we hang out and have a good time and she also stays wit me when she's down here but yet nothing physical. and she's always been like this since day 1. she tells me to wait but how long do i have to wait??? i mean i love her but i have needs to. and my patience is running out. right now i'd rate us a PG-13, man what i'd give to be rated R. i've tried talkin to her but nothing changin her mind. man i don't know, what do y'all think??? what should i do??? am i just bein too horny??? help me!!!

2006-12-27 04:34:43 · 16 answers · asked by are_three 1 in Singles & Dating