I know that sex isn't necessarily a timed event, but generally, how fast is considered too fast? 1 min? 3 min? 5 min? longer? shorter?
I never last very long (usually only a minute or two...), and I just want to get an idea of what is the norm.. Embarrassing!!!!!
2006-12-27 04:43:07 · 13 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is too fast if the woman does not have time to get her fulfillment out of the deal! There are many items out there for purchase that will help you last longer. Do not be embarrassed as many men have this problem but are unwilling to talk about it or admit it. And alot of women do not even know how to have a real orgasm and end up faking it. So you are not alone in your situation. If you would like to last longer talk to your doctor or go to the adult stores and pick up some of those sexual aides to help you last longer. Also, if you go a second round you can usually hold out a lil longer.
2006-12-27 04:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The normal is around 2 - 3 minutes, but like myself I have managed to train myself to last a lot longer anything from 15 minutes to 30 minute and then repeat if she likes more. Its mind over matter and pre-mature can be controlled within your own mind. Before your big O start thinking of something from within your mind and bring the thoughts towards your for head. Sounds strange but I it works for me, woman will love you for it being able to last longer....Good luck.
2006-12-27 04:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay bob, I have some advice for ya. Make this happen before your with the woman, then when your with her you'll last longer. The guy I'm with does it quick (15 min) but he's good to go shortly after, so I suffer little.
2006-12-27 04:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well noramally it lasts over 5 mins. But if you get to where you wanna be at the end of it then no need to worry. If not go faster, and try different positions.
2006-12-27 04:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cathal M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything less than 5 minutes is too fast for sexually active women. Try a c@ck ring, might help you last longer.
2006-12-27 04:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn tantric sex. It teaches you to last and the orgasms are better. Learn by masturbating just to the point of finishing and stop. Then do it again, just to the point , then stop. Doing this over and over will teach you control. You won't regret it. There are books on this and Sting is a practitioner. Howard Stern suggests wearing condoms to dull the sensation. Please her first.
2006-12-27 04:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by momonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive read that men on average orgasm after about 3 minutes and females after about 8.. bit of a mission eh!
2006-12-27 04:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with only a couple minutes. its like giving your bf/gf a quick peck of a kiss. its normal! so dont worry
2006-12-27 04:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by genius12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the foreplay longer to get her ready. That is the most fun,, :)
2006-12-27 04:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Get Real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not how long you can keep going for - it's whether or not you satisfy her. The answer I usually get from girls is 'if he cums before I do!'
There are other things you can do to please her y'know!!
2006-12-27 04:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by prusec_int 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋